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new	How to get better at sex?

ModHatter

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by tamara68
Jul 18, 2021 4:35:26 GMT -5

new	To the Core-Why do you stay? Pages: 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 13

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new	male patient with a female doctor Pages: 1 2 3

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by northstarmom
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new	Interesting post on Ashley Madison

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by mirrororchid
Jun 9, 2021 18:56:55 GMT -5

new	Theme song for staying?

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by catlover
May 15, 2021 7:45:03 GMT -5

new	still here but wanting to leave

sweetplumeria

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by shamwow
May 5, 2021 16:17:50 GMT -5

new	jealous if your spouse found another?

lwoetin

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by lwoetin
Apr 11, 2021 0:56:29 GMT -5

new	I just want to say this Pages: 1 2 3

tiredoftears

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by mirrororchid
Apr 5, 2021 19:14:31 GMT -5

new	Did all of us "stayers" get Holiday sex? Pages: 1 2 3 4

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by mirrororchid
Apr 5, 2021 4:54:38 GMT -5

new	So you're staying, but what about your partner? Pages: 1 2

bozodeclowne

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by carl
Mar 4, 2021 4:09:22 GMT -5

new	Age, staying, regret, whining. Pages: 1 2

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by snowman12345
Feb 11, 2021 19:35:39 GMT -5

new	Mate have right dictate if we get sex? Out of Relationship? Pages: 1 2 3 4

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by Apocrypha
Jan 11, 2021 16:49:33 GMT -5

new	From Russia... Pages: 1 2

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by Handy
Jan 8, 2021 12:22:33 GMT -5

new	I just couldn't

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by jerri
Dec 16, 2020 14:58:35 GMT -5

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Dreams

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by jerri
Dec 9, 2020 3:39:25 GMT -5

new	New here Pages: 1 2 3

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by greatcoastal
Dec 3, 2020 6:26:56 GMT -5

new	Dreaded silence

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by snowman12345
Nov 30, 2020 19:26:02 GMT -5

new	Making Up Pages: 1 2

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by mirrororchid
Nov 16, 2020 19:44:43 GMT -5

new	Who you kidding.

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by saarinista
Nov 5, 2020 21:06:05 GMT -5

new	Money Pages: 1 2 3 4

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by northstarmom
Oct 29, 2020 9:08:50 GMT -5

new	Is Sex a Basic Human Need? Pages: 1 2

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by jerri
Oct 22, 2020 7:12:03 GMT -5

new	Is it safe? Pages: 1 2 3

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by ScottDinTN
Oct 17, 2020 5:46:05 GMT -5

new	Trust. Pages: 1 2

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by jerri
Oct 12, 2020 19:08:25 GMT -5

new	Bug out bag?

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by Chatter Fox
Oct 7, 2020 15:33:40 GMT -5

new	Relationship agreements Pages: 1 2 3 4 5

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by jerri
Sept 11, 2020 13:31:33 GMT -5

new	An odd conversation

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by 2019change
Aug 27, 2020 16:39:07 GMT -5

new	Confused and eventually misusing this site

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by Handy
Jun 12, 2020 18:02:59 GMT -5

new	Spouses who genuinely try to meet you half-way

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by carl
Jun 10, 2020 13:56:33 GMT -5

new	update about nothing

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by timeforliving2
May 26, 2020 13:29:13 GMT -5

new	Why I am staying with my sexless wife... Pages: 1 2 3

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by Baitnswitch
Apr 29, 2020 8:24:21 GMT -5

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mirrororchid: Spammers got cleaned out. Shout out to ModHatter, I think. Sept 4, 2024 4:08:04 GMT -5

mirrororchid: We've compared denier/refuser spouses to prison wardens. Dr. Psychmom has compared them to hostage takers and the unhappy spouse has Stockholm syndrome. Prisoners can't leave. Stockholm hostages don't because they want a good outcome for the captor. Sept 10, 2024 18:54:11 GMT -5

mirrororchid: Heard on a podcast: "Dating is where we present our best selves. Vulnerability is the opposite. Where we risk our partner knowing things that are imperfect. This is the way to forge the life partner bond." Sept 10, 2024 19:17:03 GMT -5

jerri: Gems!Hiya precious people

Sept 12, 2024 0:05:11 GMT -5

week5of35years: My Wife had 30 free mins before she had to start work this AM... I said.. "lets have a quick shag" and she said she was going to walk the dog instead.... Still work to do.... Sept 17, 2024 3:51:34 GMT -5

isthisit: Week 5; For once I am in your wife’s corner on this one, I’d have walked the dog too! You need to work in your delivery there… Sept 20, 2024 0:01:57 GMT -5

week5of35years: LOL, in my defence, I squeezed her boobs as we were waking up and she was pretty responsive ...... If that had just come out of the blue I would have smacked myself in the face .... ha ha ha Sept 23, 2024 5:54:56 GMT -5

mirrororchid: "Teamwork makes the dream work." - "Ever heard of the Pareto principle?" Sept 29, 2024 14:50:23 GMT -5 *

worksforme2: Happy Birthday shamwow.... Oct 11, 2024 8:03:34 GMT -5

worksforme2: Happy Birthday greatcoastal,...interesting detail above, 6714 posts in one day... Oct 14, 2024 8:44:23 GMT -5

greatcoastal: Thanks for the Happy B.D. wishes worksforme2! Oct 14, 2024 21:06:49 GMT -5

worksforme2: Happy Birthday misssunnybunny.... Oct 23, 2024 5:51:58 GMT -5

misssunnybunny: Thank you!!

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wewbwb: Happy birthday misssunnybunny! You are awesomeness! Oct 24, 2024 17:49:43 GMT -5

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worksforme2: Rest in Peace Teri Garr Oct 29, 2024 14:33:58 GMT -5

worksforme2: Happy Birthday tiredoftears.... Nov 8, 2024 6:02:55 GMT -5

worksforme2: Happy Birthday mirrororchid,... Nov 11, 2024 6:35:23 GMT -5

week5of35years: Happy Biffday mirrororchid... may you have many un-sexless years ahead!!!! Nov 11, 2024 10:13:25 GMT -5 *

mirrororchid: Thanks, fellas. Nov 12, 2024 19:57:40 GMT -5