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new	Some decisions

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new	Staying and choosing to outsource. Pages: 1 2 3 4

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new	Without sex and intimacy, is it a marriage? Pages: 1 2 3

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new	Choosing to stay...so far.

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new	Poll: If your spouse suddenly wanted regular sex.... Pages: 1 2 3

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new	A new situation.

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Choosing to Stay

Focusing on the challenges of staying in a sexless marriage. Share advice, pitfalls, successes, and setbacks.

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mirrororchid: If something is troubling you and thoughts are keeping the sandman away, venting at 7cups.com may help? If you're just awake inconveniently and want cyber company, chatzy.com may have a group similarly unoccupied. Mar 28, 2022 6:01:09 GMT -5

jim44444: Thank.you Admin for deleting the spammers Mar 31, 2022 8:52:13 GMT -5

worksforme2: Ditto.... Mar 31, 2022 10:41:18 GMT -5

mirrororchid: Agreed. Mar 31, 2022 18:11:08 GMT -5

njsojourner: My advice to those Suffering: screw it! Literally. Everyone deserves a fulfilling sexual life. Get it however you can. Life is short. I have no illusions —when I get caught my wife will have to decide what’s most important to her. I am not stopping! Mar 31, 2022 21:05:18 GMT -5

worksforme2: Happy Birthday tamara68.... Apr 1, 2022 7:34:33 GMT -5

worksforme2: Happy Birthday workingonit... Apr 1, 2022 7:34:58 GMT -5

tamara68: Thanks worksforme2! Apr 2, 2022 18:00:14 GMT -5

desertfather: I just felt lonely lately. Wanted to talk to someone. Apr 5, 2022 8:29:18 GMT -5

mirrororchid: I mention a few online chat rooms a few posts up, desertfather. Meetup.com provides real live people to chat with. Given your ILIASM situation, a lot of folks locate a therapist. (helpful for touchy subjects you can't go over with friends for over a year. Apr 6, 2022 4:50:03 GMT -5

worksforme2: Happy Birthday snowman12345 wherever you are... Apr 11, 2022 4:10:23 GMT -5

mirrororchid: *~~REFUSED~~* Episode 16 - "Jenga Sex" released: refusedpodcast.com Apr 14, 2022 5:06:11 GMT -5 *

worksforme2: Happy Birthday sweetplumeria..... Apr 30, 2022 8:15:47 GMT -5

mirrororchid: *~~REFUSED~~* Episode 17 - "Ignore the Hypotheticals" (by ILIASM member CSL) released: refusedpodcast.com May 12, 2022 4:41:50 GMT -5 *

worksforme2: Happy Birthday mypaintbrushes... May 16, 2022 16:59:22 GMT -5

h: Just listened to 16 last night. Excellent content. Keep up the good work mirrororchid Jun 2, 2022 7:17:46 GMT -5

mirrororchid: Thanks so much, h. The feedback is thoroughly appreciated. Jun 3, 2022 5:47:14 GMT -5 *

mirrororchid: *REFUSED* Episode 18 - "The Vow Series: LOVE" now on tap at: refusedpodcast.com Jun 22, 2022 18:21:19 GMT -5 *

worksforme2: Happy Birthday Rhapsodee where ever you are.... Jun 23, 2022 6:39:26 GMT -5

worksforme2: Hope the flooding is missing you baza.... Jul 3, 2022 16:22:45 GMT -5