Choosing to Stay

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Feb 29, 2020 22:10:36 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Wife talked to a counselor
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Choice made..
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Initiating - How you Cope
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blueberry 30 964 by toughtiger
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Life is definitely not fair
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catlover 47 1,374 by h
Sept 20, 2023 12:53:07 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I am Staying
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lanie 88 5,086 by baza
Sept 16, 2023 21:59:44 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How do I stop the resentment
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Apology for neglect
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Need some advice
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newBookmarkLockedFalling No One Ever Died From Lack of Sex - Want Versus Need
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Happy Anniversary
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Polyamory - Playing the field permanently
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Choosing to Stay... For Now
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h 19 1,020 by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo
May 9, 2023 21:49:14 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Demisexuality
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sleeptouching
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I'm Not Dreaming, But She Is
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The resentment is running high
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The Spouse Who Doesn’t Want Sex Has Affair
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Marathon - processing by analogy
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Registered March 29 2016
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Poll: If your spouse suddenly wanted regular sex....
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Jan 17, 2023 14:54:09 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Not ready to leave-for now
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Jan 12, 2023 10:18:40 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling So there is a girl
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Where do you find fwb partners?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Season's Greetings
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newBookmarkLockedFalling open marriage
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Why Don't Men Leave Abusive Women?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Feeling Trapped
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mirrororchid: unofficial, but yes. May 31, 2023 20:12:00 GMT -5
lonelygirlcity: Hello everyone. New here and glad to know I’m not suffering alone. Jun 9, 2023 2:14:09 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Welcome, lonelygirlcity, and sorry you're here. Want to introduce yourself? iliasm.org/thread/2/introduce Jun 9, 2023 6:01:47 GMT -5
lonelygirlcity: Thanks for the welcome @mirrorchild 💗 I shared my story in the introduction section and hopefully it’s relatable. Jun 14, 2023 21:46:11 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Saw the intro, , also saw you exploring in other threads. Good for you. Wishing you success in resolution, in whatever form that comes. Jun 26, 2023 6:12:50 GMT -5
mirrororchid: *REFUSED* Episode 22 - The Vow Series - FOR BETTER, FOR WORSE - Available now at: refusedpodcast.com Jun 29, 2023 6:16:56 GMT -5 *
tamethetiger: Seen you were new like myself. Would love to hear your story if your still around here. :) Jun 29, 2023 18:41:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday northstarmom,...we have been at this a long time huh?... Jul 10, 2023 5:19:59 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday cagedtiger, where ever you are..... Jul 22, 2023 5:35:42 GMT -5
northstarmom: Thanks, Worksforme, for the birthday greetings! Jul 23, 2023 21:50:57 GMT -5
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worksforme2: Happy Birthday baseballgirl,....where ever you are Jul 26, 2023 5:30:18 GMT -5
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worksforme2: Happy Birthday h,.... Aug 30, 2023 13:01:40 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Second that! Happy Birthday, H! Aug 31, 2023 20:02:56 GMT -5
h: Thanks for the birthday wishes. I haven't been on much with a busy work schedule but things are calming down so I'll be around more. Sept 5, 2023 20:49:49 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday obobfla.... Sept 14, 2023 5:45:27 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday deleted,...where ever you are Sept 25, 2023 9:44:03 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Just found out. My wife's therapist was nudging her to divorce me four years ago before she reset with me. It seems like the key ingredient to a reverse in a sexless marriage is a refuser that earnestly knows that celibacy in marriage is abnormal. Sept 27, 2023 19:49:47 GMT -5
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