Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Rules for the "Choosing To Stay" board
Admin 6 1,682 by Handy
Feb 29, 2020 22:10:36 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Breakdown at the doctor.
nuttymontgomery 2 54 by worksforme2
Jul 24, 2021 21:35:24 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Shock and awe
catlover 1 34 by northstarmom
Jul 24, 2021 17:46:48 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Update and advice on falling in love needed
theexplorer 13 449 by theexplorer
Jul 20, 2021 12:46:45 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to get better at sex?
ModHatter 12 492 by tamara68
Jul 18, 2021 4:35:26 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Pressuring vs. asking for sex
optima 14 293 by jerri
Jul 7, 2021 12:32:25 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling To the Core-Why do you stay?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Anniversary yesterday
catlover 4 168 by sweetplumeria
Jun 21, 2021 2:02:52 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling male patient with a female doctor
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lwoetin 32 620 by northstarmom
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Interesting post on Ashley Madison
catlover 11 257 by mirrororchid
Jun 9, 2021 18:56:55 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling This is how it works for me. Others?
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Jun 1, 2021 6:41:11 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Theme song for staying?
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jim44444 15 1,160 by catlover
May 15, 2021 7:45:03 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling still here but wanting to leave
sweetplumeria 14 615 by shamwow
May 5, 2021 16:17:50 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling jealous if your spouse found another?
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lwoetin 15 482 by lwoetin
Apr 11, 2021 0:56:29 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I just want to say this
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tiredoftears 34 899 by mirrororchid
Apr 5, 2021 19:14:31 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Did all of us "stayers" get Holiday sex?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling So you're staying, but what about your partner?
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bozodeclowne 27 712 by carl
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Age, staying, regret, whining.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling open marriage
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sufferinhubby 45 1,154 by jerri
Feb 3, 2021 14:54:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Mate have right dictate if we get sex? Out of Relationship?
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jerri 47 1,997 by Apocrypha
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newBookmarkLockedFalling From Russia...
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lwoetin 15 902 by Handy
Jan 8, 2021 12:22:33 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I just couldn't
snowman12345 3 354 by jerri
Dec 16, 2020 14:58:35 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Dreams
curious81 1 233 by jerri
Dec 9, 2020 3:39:25 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling New here
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curious81 37 1,029 by greatcoastal
Dec 3, 2020 6:26:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Dreaded silence
curious81 8 541 by snowman12345
Nov 30, 2020 19:26:02 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Making Up
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Who you kidding.
grower 11 518 by saarinista
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Money
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lessingham 47 1,616 by northstarmom
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is Sex a Basic Human Need?
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theexplorer 27 1,824 by jerri
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is it safe?
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solitarysoul 41 1,241 by ScottDinTN
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mirrororchid: Season 1 of *REFUSED* the ILIASM unofficial podcast comes to a close with the end of CSL's "Addressing the Sexless Marriage" essay series: iliasm.freeforums.net/post/132489 May 4, 2021 18:40:14 GMT -5 *
jerri: Was my last night with FWB😶 we will see how l handle sexless in a month! I will be internally cranky! Hahaha Jun 18, 2021 4:11:18 GMT -5
isthisit: Happy 4th to all of you in the US. Jul 4, 2021 4:21:12 GMT -5
worksforme2: "Thanks".. isthisit, says wfm2 as another bite of burger starts to slide down my neck.... Jul 5, 2021 9:31:48 GMT -5
jerri: Now, Happy 5th to you. ! Jul 5, 2021 22:16:17 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Thanks, Isthisit. Celebrating the day we broke from the UK and chose to govern ourselves! Looking like a less good idea the last 50 years, but a little late. The Brits might say, "No backsies." Jul 7, 2021 18:03:59 GMT -5
Handy: Petrushka, How is your knee replacement recovery going? Jul 15, 2021 0:22:34 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hope you are OK Tamara 68..... Jul 16, 2021 11:11:59 GMT -5
petrushka: it is going. Still painful. First session with the physio yesterday and he was enthusiastic about my range of movement, and says many people never even get that far after the full 6 weeks physio. OK, I'll take it ;-) but it still hurts. A lot. :-S Jul 16, 2021 15:58:37 GMT -5
petrushka: I was concerned about some things, like how far I can [not] lift my leg, straightened, but he allayed my worries on that account. Seems I'm not at all behind the curve. Jul 16, 2021 16:02:27 GMT -5
Handy: Petrushka, I am happy to hear your range of motion is still decent. My W had knee surgery so I was aware of at least most of her rehabilitation difficulties. Yes, it still hurts big time for you but seeing my W's recovery, it takes time and exercising. Jul 16, 2021 17:05:15 GMT -5
njsojourner: I hope everyone is well! Thought I would share that I am still having a blast outsourcing. I now have a regular fuck buddy and she is great. Same situation as me but a few years younger. In fact, her sex drive is crazier than mine and stranger. Jul 16, 2021 21:50:15 GMT -5
njsojourner: Hi all. I thought I’d just share I am still having a blast — I now have a regular fuck buddy. She is younger by 6 years and full of energy and into fetishes-she likes to “force” me to have sex in public places —I love it. Jul 16, 2021 21:54:49 GMT -5
petrushka: lucky you! Jul 17, 2021 4:02:03 GMT -5
tamara68: : I am ok, thank you. The floods in Belgium are about 50 or 60 miles from where I live. The worst floods in decades. Jul 17, 2021 8:54:44 GMT -5
Handy: I looked up several pages about the European floods and I saw pictures of what were possibly small streams before the floods but with all of the rain, became fast moving rivers that overflow the river banks and took everything for a wild ride. Jul 19, 2021 15:13:23 GMT -5
petrushka: Oh man, if a river excavates 20-30 feet DOWN you have a bit of a weather event on your hands all right! Jul 19, 2021 21:39:01 GMT -5
tamara68: www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBP0qM4NHck floods in Germany, Belgium and the Netherlands Jul 20, 2021 11:34:50 GMT -5
njsojourner: Just checking in hoping everyone is working their way to their solution whatever it may be. Stay well and think positive! Jul 20, 2021 20:42:10 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday bballgirl..... Jul 26, 2021 15:41:34 GMT -5