Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling This is how it works for me. Others?
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tooyoungtobeold 34 1,567 by DryCreek
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Relationship agreements
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lessingham 62 924 by lessingham
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Keeping the resentment at bay?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling An odd conversation
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newBookmarkLockedFalling To the Core-Why do you stay?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Confused and eventually misusing this site
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Spouses who genuinely try to meet you half-way
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is Sex a Basic Human Need?
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theexplorer 23 937 by flyingsolo
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newBookmarkLockedFalling update about nothing
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May 26, 2020 13:29:13 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Why I am staying with my sexless wife...
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lifeinwoodinville 42 935 by Baitnswitch
Apr 29, 2020 8:24:21 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling controlling behavior?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Theme song for staying?
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Feb 26, 2020 9:00:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Creating me some "My Space"
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Conflicting Feelings Living Separate Lives
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Forced Acceptance Due To Failing Health
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newBookmarkLockedFalling For the women in SM - how do you "outource" discreetly?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to get a life
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sex gone but what else went with it?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Lovethrob
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Season's Greetings
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Why Don't Men Leave Abusive Women?
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greatcoastal 25 1,521 by baza
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newBookmarkLockedFalling This is why it took me so long
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I chose acceptance.....
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Another love lost
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Oct 14, 2019 22:07:03 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Why am I in the choosing to stay camp?
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Do you kiss your spouse?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Finding Happiness in a Celibate Life
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Too good to leave, too bad to stay.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying
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petrushka: I've no idea what it is with the toilet paper hoarding. I walked out of a supermarket yesterday and saw a woman with the jumbo sized trolley and some 4x 18 roll packs of toilet paper. Nuts. Completely nuts. Incidentally, a bidet is definitely the way to go Mar 14, 2020 6:18:43 GMT -5
petrushka: Even her little 5 or 6 year old was questioning her purchase! Mar 14, 2020 6:25:44 GMT -5
petrushka: One of my favourite quotes for the last 30 years: "don't ever look a sheep in the eyes, the intellectual vacuum may suck your brains out". Well, let's all drink to the sheeple! (besides, alcohol is a good disinfectant). Mar 14, 2020 6:31:26 GMT -5
frednsa: so...............i'd like to tell her when she "attempts to placate me": have you ever been invited to a party where you knew for certain that you WEREN'T wanted ? Mar 19, 2020 15:57:05 GMT -5
worksforme2: Former Miss Hawaii tests positive. Being the gallant lad that I am I have offered her the use of my guest bedroom to "shelter in place".. Mar 23, 2020 20:34:21 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey tamara68, there is a covid19 positive cat in Belgium, watch out for it. Mar 30, 2020 14:05:56 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme I think I have to be more careful for all infected people. Most likely I already have Covid19 Apr 1, 2020 3:29:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: tamara68.....it's been a couple weeks since you posted you may have the covid19 virus. hopefully you are feeling better and are on your way to renewed health Apr 11, 2020 5:31:38 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme thanks, yes I am feeling better. How is it in the USA? Apr 14, 2020 1:57:26 GMT -5
worksforme2: some better and some worse,..virus seems to be slowing down, but people are beginning to refuse to stay inside,...worst thing I see is Biden leading in the election poles,...but that could be fake news Apr 20, 2020 16:56:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Politics? Is that what we want to happen here? Apr 21, 2020 6:21:24 GMT -5
petrushka: Certainly not American style politics. Toxic echo chambers. Apr 23, 2020 16:21:52 GMT -5
petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context. Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5
worksforme2: 19000 days and nights,....damn dude, that's 52 yrs. Jun 17, 2020 9:19:10 GMT -5
fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY ! Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now. Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back,..now might be the time to go for the gusto Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5