Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Rules for the "Choosing To Stay" board
Admin 6 2,000 by Handy
Feb 29, 2020 22:10:36 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Some progress
catlover 11 374 by angeleyes65
May 22, 2022 9:15:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying
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lessingham 28 2,534 by worksforme2
May 16, 2022 8:59:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Beating a dead horse
angeleyes65 1 82 by ironhamster
May 15, 2022 20:33:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Feeling Trapped
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mike38 56 1,685 by mirrororchid
May 11, 2022 4:46:50 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Wow - She initiated yesterday morning
steve1968 1 73 by mirrororchid
May 11, 2022 4:40:07 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I am Staying
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lanie 63 1,927 by lanie
May 3, 2022 18:28:10 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Keeping the resentment at bay?
bozodeclowne 14 857 by jim44444
Apr 18, 2022 10:32:59 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Finally stopped wanting it
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blueguy 21 1,247 by jim44444
Mar 31, 2022 8:23:01 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling When! Very soon …
lanie 8 324 by lanie
Mar 25, 2022 17:13:10 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Fork in the road
TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo 6 156 by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo
Mar 10, 2022 7:14:44 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Update
lonelycat 3 211 by lanie
Feb 19, 2022 22:17:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling At sixes and sevens
catlover 14 290 by mirrororchid
Feb 15, 2022 7:04:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Almost 5 years of SM in a 13-year marriage. She avoids topic
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coffeeachiever 19 763 by northstarmom
Feb 11, 2022 7:30:47 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Newbie here - Staying seems like the only option....
steve1968 10 255 by mirrororchid
Feb 10, 2022 20:29:40 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying
dallasgia 9 237 by dallasgia
Jan 25, 2022 14:06:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My life with someone that just wasn’t all that attracted to
Deleted 4 170 by mirrororchid
Jan 24, 2022 7:01:08 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling 'Looking forward' to yet another sexless Christmas
catlover 13 413 by h
Jan 3, 2022 14:34:51 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling When! Very soon …
lanie 0 93 by mirrororchid
Dec 31, 2021 4:57:48 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Separate bedrooms?
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xfoo 41 2,597 by Handy
Dec 9, 2021 0:21:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Why Don't Men Leave Abusive Women?
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greatcoastal 27 2,531 by ironhamster
Dec 4, 2021 20:56:55 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Opening relationship? Advice needed
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catsloveme 53 1,133 by Handy
Dec 1, 2021 16:52:37 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I cannot imagine
heelots 10 197 by mirrororchid
Nov 10, 2021 7:37:28 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How are you doing - check in for August.
dallasgia 13 367 by worksforme2
Oct 25, 2021 4:42:01 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Pressuring vs. asking for sex
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optima 40 1,063 by mirrororchid
Oct 19, 2021 5:59:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Feeling devastated
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catlover 16 661 by mirrororchid
Oct 14, 2021 20:07:13 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Feeling Melancholy
catlover 1 96 by muzack
Oct 3, 2021 22:03:40 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Weekends
jim44444 3 149 by jim44444
Sept 27, 2021 20:10:18 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The “Talk” can rapidly lead to divorce
optima 4 246 by mirrororchid
Sept 23, 2021 17:22:14 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sexless for years after giving birth
optima 3 219 by northstarmom
Sept 13, 2021 1:43:15 GMT -5

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jim44444: I still see posts from the spammer. Mar 1, 2022 18:55:56 GMT -5
worksforme2: jim44444...click on the post and you will see his crap is hidden from view... Mar 2, 2022 5:04:58 GMT -5
jim44444: Still seeing his crap. I tried a backdoor route to @dan but it was a deadend. Mar 2, 2022 7:52:17 GMT -5
worksforme2: Shouting out to "thefullmoon"...Happy Birthday Mar 2, 2022 12:12:32 GMT -5
warmways: Sleeplessness 😬 anyone else still up? Mar 27, 2022 23:41:50 GMT -5
mirrororchid: If something is troubling you and thoughts are keeping the sandman away, venting at 7cups.com may help? If you're just awake inconveniently and want cyber company, chatzy.com may have a group similarly unoccupied. Mar 28, 2022 6:01:09 GMT -5
jim44444: Thank.you for deleting the spammers Mar 31, 2022 8:52:13 GMT -5
worksforme2: Ditto.... Mar 31, 2022 10:41:18 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Agreed. Mar 31, 2022 18:11:08 GMT -5
njsojourner: My advice to those Suffering: screw it! Literally. Everyone deserves a fulfilling sexual life. Get it however you can. Life is short. I have no illusions —when I get caught my wife will have to decide what’s most important to her. I am not stopping! Mar 31, 2022 21:05:18 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday tamara68.... Apr 1, 2022 7:34:33 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday workingonit... Apr 1, 2022 7:34:58 GMT -5
tamara68: Thanks ! Apr 2, 2022 18:00:14 GMT -5
desertfather: I just felt lonely lately. Wanted to talk to someone. Apr 5, 2022 8:29:18 GMT -5
mirrororchid: I mention a few online chat rooms a few posts up, . Meetup.com provides real live people to chat with. Given your ILIASM situation, a lot of folks locate a therapist. (helpful for touchy subjects you can't go over with friends for over a year. Apr 6, 2022 4:50:03 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday snowman12345 wherever you are... Apr 11, 2022 4:10:23 GMT -5
mirrororchid: *REFUSED* Episode 16 - "Jenga Sex" released: refusedpodcast.com Apr 14, 2022 5:06:11 GMT -5 *
worksforme2: Happy Birthday sweetplumeria..... Apr 30, 2022 8:15:47 GMT -5
mirrororchid: *REFUSED* Episode 17 - "Ignore the Hypotheticals" (by ILIASM member CSL) released: refusedpodcast.com May 12, 2022 4:41:50 GMT -5 *
worksforme2: Happy Birthday mypaintbrushes... May 16, 2022 16:59:22 GMT -5