Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Rules for the "Choosing To Stay" board
Admin 6 1,347 by Handy
Feb 29, 2020 22:10:36 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Mate have right dictate if we get sex? Out of Relationship?
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jerri 38 891 by mirrororchid
Dec 3, 2020 19:48:43 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling New here
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curious81 37 491 by greatcoastal
Dec 3, 2020 6:26:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Dreaded silence
curious81 8 227 by snowman12345
Nov 30, 2020 19:26:02 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling To the Core-Why do you stay?
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tooyoungtobeold 169 5,813 by cincyguy
Nov 20, 2020 7:57:28 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Making Up
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tooyoungtobeold 17 339 by mirrororchid
Nov 16, 2020 19:44:43 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Who you kidding.
grower 11 323 by saarinista
Nov 5, 2020 21:06:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Money
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lessingham 47 1,092 by northstarmom
Oct 29, 2020 9:08:50 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is Sex a Basic Human Need?
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theexplorer 28 1,428 by jerri
Oct 22, 2020 7:12:03 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is it safe?
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solitarysoul 41 746 by ScottDinTN
Oct 17, 2020 5:46:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Trust.
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tooyoungtobeold 19 666 by jerri
Oct 12, 2020 19:08:25 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Bug out bag?
lessingham 12 455 by Chatter Fox
Oct 7, 2020 15:33:40 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Relationship agreements
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lessingham 74 1,669 by jerri
Sept 11, 2020 13:31:33 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling An odd conversation
2019change 6 379 by padgemi
Aug 27, 2020 21:06:16 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Finally stopped wanting it
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blueguy 18 584 by Handy
Aug 26, 2020 23:22:45 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling From Russia...
lwoetin 5 274 by petrushka
Aug 9, 2020 6:17:19 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling This is how it works for me. Others?
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tooyoungtobeold 47 2,333 by mirrororchid
Jul 29, 2020 7:24:47 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Keeping the resentment at bay?
bozodeclowne 12 458 by bozodeclowne
Jul 8, 2020 14:20:39 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Confused and eventually misusing this site
lessingham 12 418 by Handy
Jun 12, 2020 18:02:59 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Spouses who genuinely try to meet you half-way
Deleted 7 305 by carl
Jun 10, 2020 13:56:33 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling update about nothing
lwoetin 9 476 by timeforliving2
May 26, 2020 13:29:13 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Why I am staying with my sexless wife...
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lifeinwoodinville 42 1,223 by Baitnswitch
Apr 29, 2020 8:24:21 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling controlling behavior?
sweetplumeria 3 326 by lessingham
Mar 2, 2020 4:35:33 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Theme song for staying?
jim44444 11 775 by grower
Feb 26, 2020 9:00:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Creating me some "My Space"
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ScottDinTN 20 965 by ScottDinTN
Jan 30, 2020 10:14:55 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Conflicting Feelings Living Separate Lives
ScottDinTN 5 391 by ScottDinTN
Jan 28, 2020 22:53:35 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Forced Acceptance Due To Failing Health
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RealMustangGuy 60 2,542 by isthisit
Jan 24, 2020 2:59:12 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling For the women in SM - how do you "outource" discreetly?
hi 12 731 by padgemi
Jan 22, 2020 21:55:14 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to get a life
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lessingham 54 3,380 by lessingham
Jan 13, 2020 4:41:19 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sex gone but what else went with it?
tooyoungtobeold 13 722 by solodriver
Jan 12, 2020 22:38:41 GMT -5

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kittydupree: Hey Mirrororchid, is 11/11 really your birthday- mine too!!! Thanks for the info, I guess I was expecting something more structured and organized. No worries, I’ll find my place here. Nov 6, 2020 5:52:44 GMT -5
mirrororchid: *REFUSED*, ILIASM's unofficial podcast - Episode 5 is out! iliasm.org/post/132489 Nov 6, 2020 7:18:42 GMT -5 *
worksforme2: Happy Birthday tiredoftears.......... Nov 8, 2020 21:11:50 GMT -5
mrg: Hi kittydupree, I think my marriage is “good” but we’ve not had sex for over 4 years which really sucks. I will not leave her but I hate that we have absolutely no intimacy at all. I miss it a lot and some days are very difficult. Nov 9, 2020 0:28:55 GMT -5
tooyoungtobeold: kittydupree: What you'll find here are people that are often at the end of their rope. There are some, like me, that fall into the, "My marriage is good except for the lack of sex" when I first arrived here. This forum has made me modify that outlook. Nov 18, 2020 13:03:34 GMT -5
wewbwb: yeah, we don't do "structured and organized " here. We are more "run and save yourself"! Nov 20, 2020 11:37:20 GMT -5
snowman12345: everyone here has a marriage that is great except for the no sex thing, so there's that... Nov 21, 2020 23:33:07 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday baza... Nov 22, 2020 11:41:03 GMT -5
jerri: Yay! Happy birthday, Baza 💜 Nov 22, 2020 14:16:18 GMT -5
petrushka: many happy returns Bazz ;-) Nov 22, 2020 23:05:33 GMT -5
rejectedbeauty: I am over it Nov 26, 2020 0:23:00 GMT -5
rejectedbeauty: I think i've finally had enough, I cant and wont live a sexless life. No more I'm done Nov 26, 2020 0:23:54 GMT -5
worksforme2: rejectedbeauty...I read your posts from back in Sept. 2019. Sounds like you endured another year of rejection and contempt from your H. Good luck going forward and we are here when you need us.... Nov 26, 2020 8:16:57 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Happy Turkey Day Year, everyone. Nov 26, 2020 11:14:39 GMT -5
jerri: Happy Thanksgiving to you as well! Nov 27, 2020 8:32:10 GMT -5
petrushka: - you reckon I should go around thanking all the employees at my supermarket? But they are really terrible at their jobs (except the checkout ladies). Nov 27, 2020 22:14:27 GMT -5
petrushka: TBH: I do remember harvest festivals from my childhood years. But different cultural heritage. ;) Nov 27, 2020 22:16:48 GMT -5
jerri: Yes, thank them then ask one on a date! 💙 Nov 29, 2020 7:02:41 GMT -5
fred: almost 6 decades of acquaintance, over 50 married - she couldn't be colder or kinder.............FUCK ! i'll be the asshole if i leave and likely suicidal due to the true love i have for her. it's just that the coldness and lack of a sexual partner that Dec 1, 2020 15:50:02 GMT -5
jerri: :o that's sad😥 Dec 2, 2020 3:40:21 GMT -5