Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Rules for the "Choosing To Stay" board
Admin 6 1,592 by Handy
Feb 29, 2020 22:10:36 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling This is how it works for me. Others?
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Deleted 58 3,035 by mirrororchid
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newBookmarkLockedFalling still here but wanting to leave
sweetplumeria 14 515 by shamwow
May 5, 2021 16:17:50 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling To the Core-Why do you stay?
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Deleted 178 6,934 by Handy
May 3, 2021 22:39:41 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling jealous if your spouse found another?
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lwoetin 15 344 by lwoetin
Apr 11, 2021 0:56:29 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I just want to say this
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tiredoftears 34 697 by mirrororchid
Apr 5, 2021 19:14:31 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Did all of us "stayers" get Holiday sex?
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Deleted 48 1,400 by mirrororchid
Apr 5, 2021 4:54:38 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling male patient with a female doctor
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lwoetin 30 420 by lessingham
Mar 29, 2021 3:19:13 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling So you're staying, but what about your partner?
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bozodeclowne 27 619 by carl
Mar 4, 2021 4:09:22 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Age, staying, regret, whining.
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Deleted 31 817 by snowman12345
Feb 11, 2021 19:35:39 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling open marriage
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sufferinhubby 45 992 by jerri
Feb 3, 2021 14:54:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to get better at sex?
ModHatter 8 299 by jerri
Jan 21, 2021 13:35:21 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Mate have right dictate if we get sex? Out of Relationship?
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jerri 47 1,800 by apocrypha
Jan 11, 2021 16:49:33 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling From Russia...
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lwoetin 15 792 by Handy
Jan 8, 2021 12:22:33 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I just couldn't
snowman12345 3 264 by jerri
Dec 16, 2020 14:58:35 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Dreams
curious81 1 185 by jerri
Dec 9, 2020 3:39:25 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling New here
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curious81 37 917 by greatcoastal
Dec 3, 2020 6:26:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Dreaded silence
curious81 8 445 by snowman12345
Nov 30, 2020 19:26:02 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Making Up
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Who you kidding.
grower 11 461 by saarinista
Nov 5, 2020 21:06:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Money
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lessingham 47 1,467 by northstarmom
Oct 29, 2020 9:08:50 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is Sex a Basic Human Need?
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theexplorer 27 1,702 by jerri
Oct 22, 2020 7:12:03 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is it safe?
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solitarysoul 41 1,051 by ScottDinTN
Oct 17, 2020 5:46:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Trust.
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Deleted 19 939 by jerri
Oct 12, 2020 19:08:25 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Bug out bag?
lessingham 12 546 by Chatter Fox
Oct 7, 2020 15:33:40 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Relationship agreements
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lessingham 74 2,007 by jerri
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newBookmarkLockedFalling An odd conversation
2019change 6 478 by padgemi
Aug 27, 2020 21:06:16 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Finally stopped wanting it
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blueguy 18 768 by Handy
Aug 26, 2020 23:22:45 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Keeping the resentment at bay?
bozodeclowne 12 577 by bozodeclowne
Jul 8, 2020 14:20:39 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Confused and eventually misusing this site
lessingham 12 534 by Handy
Jun 12, 2020 18:02:59 GMT -5

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mirrororchid: Sorry, dude. I think resentment has been the fuel for action in some SMs. It can be part of a process, eventually helpful. Mar 30, 2021 4:43:40 GMT -5
Handy: I just read "The Babylon Bee" article "Blockage Cleared, Ships Moving At Record Speed As Chick-Fil-A Workers Put In Charge Of Suez Canal." Good humor. Mar 30, 2021 16:49:51 GMT -5
Handy: Petrushka, did you have any part in the movie "Black Sheep" en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Sheep_(2006_New_Zealand_film) Mar 30, 2021 17:06:35 GMT -5
petrushka: - nope, never even heard of this. One of my favourite NZ films (there's a surprising number) is "Meet the Feebles" by [early] Peter Jackson. Mar 31, 2021 2:34:07 GMT -5
petrushka: seriously good is "The Piano" by Jane Campion I think. A drama set in early NZ, before white people were firmly established. Mar 31, 2021 2:35:23 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday rosie, Tamara68 and workingonit Apr 1, 2021 16:28:26 GMT -5
worksforme2: Freezing temps in the morning for the next 3 days= no peaches in the fall for me unless I buy them,... 2 yrs in a row...growing my own fruit has proven to be a losing proposition Apr 1, 2021 16:32:30 GMT -5
Handy: Meet the Feebles=weird! Apr 1, 2021 18:22:06 GMT -5
Deleted: Thank you, ! Apr 3, 2021 10:55:51 GMT -5
jerri: Lots of interesting comments. I am way behind. Sending hugs and a kiss on the cheek💋 Apr 8, 2021 0:11:19 GMT -5
roy: Hi All, I just joined, at 77. I've been in a sexless marriage for too many years ... Apr 9, 2021 15:26:32 GMT -5
petrushka: G'day Roy, welcome to the place most of us don't want to be. I am sure you will find lots of interesting personal stories and comments and reactions on the forum. Don't be shy about jumping in to talks ... Apr 9, 2021 15:47:25 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Agreed. Welcome Roy. Sorry you're here. For everyone else, the latest episode of *REFUSED*: "Addressing the Sexless Marriage - Part V" drive.google.com/file/d/1lVPR8Wtl6tbSO8gMv8e0YzrexhVfwBHh/view?usp=sharing Apr 9, 2021 17:59:59 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Birthday snowman12345.... Apr 11, 2021 6:41:17 GMT -5
Deleted: I wondered for a month how people know who have birthdays on any given day. Just found it! 😃 Apr 17, 2021 19:07:14 GMT -5
worksforme2: Seek and yea shall find, knock and it shall be open to you. Apr 18, 2021 6:35:40 GMT -5
jerri: Pull down your undies and you shall find cobwebs! Seek and you shall find cobweb removal! Apr 28, 2021 4:49:43 GMT -5
petrushka: Happy birthday Apr 29, 2021 15:11:05 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy BD sweetplumeria.... Apr 29, 2021 15:28:56 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Season 1 of *REFUSED* the ILIASM unofficial podcast comes to a close with the end of CSL's "Addressing the Sexless Marriage" essay series: iliasm.freeforums.net/post/132489 May 4, 2021 18:40:14 GMT -5 *