Post by mirrororchid on Sept 13, 2023 5:39:41 GMT -5
OK cool.
Caveat to anyone who might go the "munch" route. Mostly, poly people are huge on infidelity being "consensual".
Not good enough to be aware. The spouse needs to approve.
Refusing is not seen as a reason to have additional lovers. (Actually only getting one at first. You have none in an SM). They prefer you divorce than outsource due to refusal. It smudges their pristine white rainbow unicorns.
It's more a way to test waters. You may want to refuse any overtures at first to avoid the sticky subject of "informed non-monogamy".
Caveat to anyone who might go the "munch" route. Mostly, poly people are huge on infidelity being "consensual".
Not good enough to be aware. The spouse needs to approve.
Refusing is not seen as a reason to have additional lovers. (Actually only getting one at first. You have none in an SM). They prefer you divorce than outsource due to refusal. It smudges their pristine white rainbow unicorns.
It's more a way to test waters. You may want to refuse any overtures at first to avoid the sticky subject of "informed non-monogamy".
