Sexless Marriage Issues

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Do y’all ever feel bad about asking?
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Poll>Why do you Think you Lost Intimacy/Sex?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Apologies
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Couples Counseling or Individual Therapy first?
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cincyguy 36 728 by mirrororchid
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Back after a long absence
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heathcliff 18 449 by ironhamster
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newBookmarkLockedFalling When you realize your EAP is not for you
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Words of wisdom
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sadkat 28 1,703 by sadkat
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Seperate Beds?
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gezza 60 1,011 by mirrororchid
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newBookmarkLockedFalling 99 change hands!
lessingham 9 240 by saarinista
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Like a slug
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My Teen Daughter Asked the Question
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newBookmarkLockedFalling the new normal and keeping eyes on the prize
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Asking for Covid Sex- give me your ideas/ talking points
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jerri 89 1,352 by jerri
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Hope springs eternal...
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Depressed about not being desired
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Anniversary blues
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lessingham 76 2,839 by lessingham
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Do You Still Think - "Everyrhing's Great Bar The Sex" ?
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baza 16 750 by mirrororchid
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newBookmarkLockedFalling There is life beyond SM
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sex is a core part of marriage
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carl 117 2,598 by csl
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newBookmarkLockedFalling When others discover?
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bozodeclowne 43 1,243 by snowman12345
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newBookmarkLockedFalling New here. I had no idea this was a thing
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alwaysdenied 44 1,778 by apocrypha
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Last night
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tiredoftears 33 992 by greatcoastal
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Interesting talk
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newBookmarkLockedFalling On the bright side
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grower 18 837 by h
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I could lie, say I like it like that...
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How many people are here because their spouses are gay?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling New here
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Newlywed in a SM
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lonelynewlywed 32 1,141 by northstarmom
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newBookmarkLockedFalling She left
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petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context. Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5
worksforme2: 19000 days and nights,....damn dude, that's 52 yrs. Jun 17, 2020 9:19:10 GMT -5
fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY ! Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now. Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back,..now might be the time to go for the gusto Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5
grower: Your life clock is ticking away, don't waste all your time. Live some. Jul 24, 2020 9:53:20 GMT -5
fred: blue guy, i was where you are 30 years ago. stayed.................nothing changed. if i didn't love this nice lady so much i'd be in deep regret. if she doesn't think of you in a hundred "other" ways (as does my wife) GET OUT ! Life is short Aug 10, 2020 17:43:15 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Episode 4 of *Refused*, ILIASM's unofficial podcast just released. drive.google.com/file/d/1wX41Xn1Z5fFKEQulCUjXFIECjXAiC7VF/view?usp=sharing Catch episodes 1-3 at the main thread: iliasm.org/thread/4855/podcasts Sept 9, 2020 18:07:38 GMT -5 *
jerri: Yuk on the plucking chicken feathers. If a chicken doesn't get sex and intimacy she just finds a beautiful cock sooner or later. I'd say there's a much higher "philandering" rate than anyone would care to admit. The rooster who is tormented findsa chicken! Sept 10, 2020 8:23:56 GMT -5
csl: And yet, there is an entire segment of ILIASM stayers. Sept 10, 2020 22:04:05 GMT -5
jerri: Exactly :) I have read multiple threads. I was very impressed with all the different solutions everyone has found. Intellectual group and the camaraderie is nice Sept 11, 2020 9:44:57 GMT -5
Handy: What happened to being light outside until 9:30 PM? It is 7:30 PM and dark now. :( Sept 20, 2020 20:46:01 GMT -5
jerri: It's not hot there? I am getting a slight break from the heat! Cheer up buddy! :) Sept 21, 2020 0:27:37 GMT -5
petrushka: Well WE are getting closer to summer. Just passed Equinox. I expect the solar panels will start paying for themselves again in the near future. (over the last few months they have merely mitigated the power bills). Sept 21, 2020 21:00:36 GMT -5
wewbwb: the average intelligence of the end posts rose greatly since I stopped posting ! Hope allis well! Sept 26, 2020 7:29:23 GMT -5
jerri: Don't be too busy to post. Come back, ! 💜 Sept 26, 2020 20:12:33 GMT -5
Handy: Jerri, you bring intelligence, so stop that nonsense. Sept 26, 2020 20:19:03 GMT -5