Sexless Marriage Issues

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Social, and emotional, distancing... nothing new for a SM
ScottDinTN 5 318 by Handy
Mar 25, 2020 20:06:45 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Nothing has changed except me
njsojourner 13 902 by baza
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newBookmarkLockedFalling So... I have decided
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JMX 21 905 by chris2020
Mar 21, 2020 4:14:32 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Hand relief
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gezza 22 862 by workingonit
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Things I tell myself
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nyctos 18 651 by michael
Mar 17, 2020 6:53:41 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling April 2017 - The First 10 To Join
baza 1 445 by appleaday
Mar 15, 2020 1:19:04 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling # of sexless years = Reality
northstarmom 8 386 by padgemi
Mar 11, 2020 19:57:45 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Rules
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brianbk 38 1,187 by dd
Mar 11, 2020 11:38:01 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sexless and depression
rdp62 10 369 by padgemi
Mar 9, 2020 21:18:51 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Ashleymadison vs Adultfriendfinder vs Benaughty
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lostintime 37 1,647 by Handy
Mar 9, 2020 18:10:12 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling What age of person are you attracted to ?
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carl 31 900 by rdp62
Mar 8, 2020 17:40:42 GMT -5
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Missing Sex or Intimacy?
rdp62 10 371 by h
Mar 6, 2020 7:50:07 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sad, Why?
okiedude 8 457 by endthegame
Mar 5, 2020 12:42:27 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Maybe it's me rant.
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jessie83 27 791 by lessingham
Mar 4, 2020 4:39:15 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Does this sound familiar to anyone.
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notdeadyet 15 643 by saarinista
Mar 3, 2020 13:32:09 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Refusing vs. Low interest obliging
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paddlingalone 55 2,349 by rdp62
Mar 2, 2020 15:25:15 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Hello Again
rdp62 4 230 by rdp62
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Lingerie, never worn
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nyctos 82 2,400 by saarinista
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My day is constantly consumed by my sm
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brianbk 39 1,386 by alwaysdenied
Feb 24, 2020 10:36:20 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling SM Retreat - Weekend of June 13th?
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ScottDinTN 65 1,755 by padgemi
Feb 22, 2020 21:12:10 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling I want to be the girl with the most cake
JMX 5 481 by vesb68
Feb 19, 2020 13:19:18 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling This almost seems cruel here - but which ladies miss this?
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JMX 24 1,067 by apocrypha
Feb 19, 2020 9:55:57 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling No sex means not being refused
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carl 82 2,467 by Handy
Feb 17, 2020 23:21:24 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest
baza 8 351 by worksforme2
Feb 17, 2020 10:42:43 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Disparage your Marriage: Limerick edition
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Dan 24 1,037 by padgemi
Feb 14, 2020 17:17:08 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Checking in from Japan
idna 12 435 by grower
Feb 11, 2020 9:17:18 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The Wrath of Valentine's Day
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deadzone75 98 3,951 by Handy
Feb 5, 2020 19:43:22 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sexless spouse = sexless siblings?
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richards 15 627 by apocrypha
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A cautionary tale?
richards 5 273 by padgemi
Jan 28, 2020 20:45:32 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Self esteem
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richfairy72 19 932 by richards
Jan 26, 2020 18:29:26 GMT -5

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tamara68: @worksforme I think I have to be more careful for all infected people. Most likely I already have Covid19 Apr 1, 2020 3:29:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: tamara68.....it's been a couple weeks since you posted you may have the covid19 virus. hopefully you are feeling better and are on your way to renewed health Apr 11, 2020 5:31:38 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme thanks, yes I am feeling better. How is it in the USA? Apr 14, 2020 1:57:26 GMT -5
worksforme2: some better and some worse,..virus seems to be slowing down, but people are beginning to refuse to stay inside,...worst thing I see is Biden leading in the election poles,...but that could be fake news Apr 20, 2020 16:56:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Politics? Is that what we want to happen here? Apr 21, 2020 6:21:24 GMT -5
petrushka: Certainly not American style politics. Toxic echo chambers. Apr 23, 2020 16:21:52 GMT -5
petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context. Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5
worksforme2: 19000 days and nights,....damn dude, that's 52 yrs. Jun 17, 2020 9:19:10 GMT -5
fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY ! Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now. Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back,..now might be the time to go for the gusto Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5
grower: Your life clock is ticking away, don't waste all your time. Live some. Jul 24, 2020 9:53:20 GMT -5
fred: blue guy, i was where you are 30 years ago. stayed.................nothing changed. if i didn't love this nice lady so much i'd be in deep regret. if she doesn't think of you in a hundred "other" ways (as does my wife) GET OUT ! Life is short Aug 10, 2020 17:43:15 GMT -5
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jerri: Yuk on the plucking chicken feathers. If a chicken doesn't get sex and intimacy she just finds a beautiful cock sooner or later. I'd say there's a much higher "philandering" rate than anyone would care to admit. The rooster who is tormented findsa chicken! Sept 10, 2020 8:23:56 GMT -5
csl: And yet, there is an entire segment of ILIASM stayers. Sept 10, 2020 22:04:05 GMT -5
jerri: Exactly :) I have read multiple threads. I was very impressed with all the different solutions everyone has found. Intellectual group and the camaraderie is nice Sept 11, 2020 9:44:57 GMT -5