Sexless Marriage Issues

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Would you go out on a "practice date" with me?
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greatcoastal 44 1,675 by greatcoastal
Jan 26, 2020 8:51:16 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling So - sticking around
Cruise 2 315 by baza
Jan 25, 2020 5:34:59 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Blanket absolution of guilt for we, the refused.
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saarinista 37 1,495 by grower
Jan 21, 2020 9:08:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Tale of improvement
paulb 6 348 by lessingham
Jan 21, 2020 4:35:17 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling What 3 - 5 things matter more to your spouse than you?
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ScottDinTN 50 1,842 by solodriver
Jan 16, 2020 21:35:44 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling What Has Changed Since Leaving Your SM
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solodriver 34 1,453 by endthegame
Jan 16, 2020 12:50:01 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The more I workout the less sex I want
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lostintime 18 694 by carl
Jan 8, 2020 15:44:29 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling She said something funny, but true
michael 11 555 by apocrypha
Jan 7, 2020 0:21:52 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Money Matters
takestwototango 10 342 by baza
Jan 5, 2020 2:16:57 GMT -5
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Have You Been Out Of Your ILIASM At Least A Year ?
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baza 37 1,942 by richfairy72
Jan 3, 2020 5:49:30 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Seldom Seen Stories On ILIASM.
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baza 30 2,025 by mirrororchid
Jan 1, 2020 20:45:36 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling At what age,kids and work?
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lostintime 26 1,091 by apocrypha
Dec 24, 2019 11:34:45 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sex in the workplace
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greatcoastal 35 1,580 by ScottDinTN
Dec 20, 2019 21:10:23 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Light physical abuse?
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lessingham 46 1,370 by lessingham
Dec 12, 2019 10:19:47 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My story
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hopingforachange 139 6,495 by hopingforachange
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newBookmarkLockedFalling December 2017 - The First 10 To Join
baza 8 343 by ironhamster
Dec 7, 2019 17:29:47 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sexual boundaries
endthegame 13 502 by apocrypha
Dec 4, 2019 10:35:41 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Abuse
Vitruvius 5 326 by shamwow
Dec 4, 2019 7:14:14 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My Life Since October 2018
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sadkat 70 2,305 by Handy
Dec 3, 2019 1:32:28 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Love Languages—scarcity effect?
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catsloveme 19 1,111 by maninfull
Nov 30, 2019 16:11:37 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling "Refusers Can't Change"
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csl 36 1,334 by padgemi
Nov 28, 2019 8:19:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Another one bites the dust ....
whynotm3 10 604 by DryCreek
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Getting in shape
Chatter Fox 12 586 by shamwow
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newBookmarkLockedFalling First 10 Members to Join in November 2017.
baza 9 537 by baza
Nov 25, 2019 17:30:29 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Do more women leave unhappy marriages?
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sadkat 97 2,808 by northstarmom
Nov 24, 2019 20:50:17 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Recovering Self-Esteem and Confidence
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solodriver 79 2,896 by Handy
Nov 21, 2019 17:31:12 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Non-Sexual Benefits of Marriage - Have you cut back?
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ScottDinTN 67 1,979 by ScottDinTN
Nov 20, 2019 1:08:36 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A Weighty Issue
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sunnysean 30 1,684 by saarinista
Nov 19, 2019 14:55:15 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling should i even complain?
bpvikesfan 6 576 by apocrypha
Nov 19, 2019 13:53:00 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Would you take the blue pill? (not talking about viagra).
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ScottDinTN 22 631 by tooyoungtobeold
Nov 14, 2019 16:21:31 GMT -5

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tamara68: @worksforme I think I have to be more careful for all infected people. Most likely I already have Covid19 Apr 1, 2020 3:29:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: tamara68.....it's been a couple weeks since you posted you may have the covid19 virus. hopefully you are feeling better and are on your way to renewed health Apr 11, 2020 5:31:38 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme thanks, yes I am feeling better. How is it in the USA? Apr 14, 2020 1:57:26 GMT -5
worksforme2: some better and some worse,..virus seems to be slowing down, but people are beginning to refuse to stay inside,...worst thing I see is Biden leading in the election poles,...but that could be fake news Apr 20, 2020 16:56:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Politics? Is that what we want to happen here? Apr 21, 2020 6:21:24 GMT -5
petrushka: Certainly not American style politics. Toxic echo chambers. Apr 23, 2020 16:21:52 GMT -5
petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context. Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5
worksforme2: 19000 days and nights,....damn dude, that's 52 yrs. Jun 17, 2020 9:19:10 GMT -5
fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY ! Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now. Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back,..now might be the time to go for the gusto Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5
grower: Your life clock is ticking away, don't waste all your time. Live some. Jul 24, 2020 9:53:20 GMT -5
fred: blue guy, i was where you are 30 years ago. stayed.................nothing changed. if i didn't love this nice lady so much i'd be in deep regret. if she doesn't think of you in a hundred "other" ways (as does my wife) GET OUT ! Life is short Aug 10, 2020 17:43:15 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Episode 4 of *Refused*, ILIASM's unofficial podcast just released. drive.google.com/file/d/1wX41Xn1Z5fFKEQulCUjXFIECjXAiC7VF/view?usp=sharing Catch episodes 1-3 at the main thread: iliasm.org/thread/4855/podcasts Sept 9, 2020 18:07:38 GMT -5 *
jerri: Yuk on the plucking chicken feathers. If a chicken doesn't get sex and intimacy she just finds a beautiful cock sooner or later. I'd say there's a much higher "philandering" rate than anyone would care to admit. The rooster who is tormented findsa chicken! Sept 10, 2020 8:23:56 GMT -5
csl: And yet, there is an entire segment of ILIASM stayers. Sept 10, 2020 22:04:05 GMT -5
jerri: Exactly :) I have read multiple threads. I was very impressed with all the different solutions everyone has found. Intellectual group and the camaraderie is nice Sept 11, 2020 9:44:57 GMT -5