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Post by lessingham on Dec 5, 2022 3:56:50 GMT -5
I have my pensions, state medicals so that is not a worry. I own my house so selling ut gives me money for a apartment after splitting the costs. No fears. Bad day yesterday. But hey, I kept the faith with myself. She has a cold and took to her bed for two days
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Post by sweetplumeria on Dec 5, 2022 9:34:15 GMT -5
[quote source="/post/144377/thread" author=" lessingham" I have found that avoiding any and all conversation is the most important and best strategy in all circumstances for me though. I believe my circumstances got more tolerable when I adopted this approach. A type of acceptance for the reality I found myself in.
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Post by sweetplumeria on Dec 5, 2022 9:43:47 GMT -5
Mental violence takes away your life little bits at a time. Death by a thousand cuts. Invisible cuts. Because they are invisible, explaining them usually brings more cuts. It's hardly worth telling anyone.
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Post by lessingham on Dec 7, 2022 5:30:21 GMT -5
Can't sleep. Too horny to think and self loving ain't cutting it.
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Post by mirrororchid on Dec 7, 2022 19:48:41 GMT -5
Can't sleep. Too horny to think and self loving ain't cutting it. Maybe have to plan your next road trip? The last one seemed to do you some good. How's the biking?
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Post by lessingham on Dec 8, 2022 3:15:29 GMT -5
Went on a roadish tripish this week, to a gin distillery! She got a voucher for last Chrustmas and has spent all year dithering. Her and my son could never get their act together. So, I booked us in, not a fan of gin but ut was a peaceful day out
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Post by northstarmom on Dec 8, 2022 11:32:30 GMT -5
lessingham: Any plans for a solo road trip that's exactly what you want to do?
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Post by lessingham on Dec 10, 2022 3:48:49 GMT -5
She has her christmas haircut next week. I will book a local massage for me whilst she is out, not a happy ending one.
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Post by mirrororchid on Dec 12, 2022 7:48:54 GMT -5
She has her Christmas haircut next week. I will book a local massage for me whilst she is out, not a happy ending one. Baby steps. Got it. Kudos. Still biking?
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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 12, 2022 11:05:01 GMT -5
She has her christmas haircut next week. I will book a local massage for me whilst she is out, not a happy ending one. That's a dirty rotten shame......everyone deserves a happy ending.
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Post by blunder8 on Dec 12, 2022 17:08:39 GMT -5
Peace on earth, goodwill toward men, and happy endings for everyone.
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Post by lessingham on Dec 14, 2022 5:22:36 GMT -5
I think God is hacking my iliasm now. Struck down with the flu and the only happy endings will be a nice cup of tea and paracetamols. Sigh
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Post by northstarmom on Dec 14, 2022 11:17:33 GMT -5
Lessingham: I hope you are asking your wife for the support you need now when you are sick. You deserve the pampering you give her. I hope you get well soon and have rescheduled your massage for when you're likely to feel better. I know that due to people using Xmas gift certificates, it's important to schedule well ahead any massages for January.
If you plan to return to therapy as several of us have suggested, make your Jan. appointment now as therapists go on vacation shortly and because of people's New Years resolutions, therapists' schedules fill up quickly in January.
You can make these calls even if you are in bed with the flu.
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Post by lessingham on Dec 19, 2022 8:40:18 GMT -5
Recovering slowly and feeling miserable with myself, nothing nwe there!!!!!(laughing) I am doing a lot of self pampering. But today ny wife made me breakfast in bed! Also exited my sisters web site. Realised I was their chew toy there, my opinions were savaged and any aggression was as me the person, not my opinions. Part of the renewal process? As we grow people try to force us back into the old rut
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Post by northstarmom on Dec 19, 2022 15:25:37 GMT -5
Lessingham,if you want to move out of your shared bed, your illness gives you a good excuse. Once out of the shared bed, you can choose to sleep elsewhere even after you recover.
Good move with exiting your sisters' website. Yes, that is part of the process of reclaiming and renewing yourself. I did things like that myself as I healed.
Have you made a therapy appointment? If you call this week, you may be able to get an appointment by the end of January.
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