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Jul 9, 2020 11:59:21 GMT -5
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Seek and offer support in dealing with a sexless marriage.

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by padgemi
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Resource for trying to fix a sexless marriage... or getting out of one.

326 3,123 Ted talk on DESIRE
by padgemi
Jul 12, 2020 21:01:13 GMT -5
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Focusing on the challenges of staying in a sexless marriage. Share advice, pitfalls, successes, and setbacks.

71 1,602 This is how it works for me. Others?
by notdeadyet
Jul 12, 2020 10:03:03 GMT -5
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For those who have "escaped": share your experiences both positive and negative.

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by hopingforachange
Jul 12, 2020 13:23:54 GMT -5
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Parenting or financial issues compounding your marital issues? Discuss here.

191 3,192 Does your teen treat you like hotel staff?
by Handy
Jul 5, 2020 17:24:32 GMT -5
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The best advice for dealing with an SM from around the web -- reposted here to preserve the wit and wisdom.

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by mirrororchid
Jul 3, 2020 11:14:20 GMT -5
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Sometime it helps to make light of the situation: humor is a great healer!

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by worksforme2
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petrushka: I've no idea what it is with the toilet paper hoarding. I walked out of a supermarket yesterday and saw a woman with the jumbo sized trolley and some 4x 18 roll packs of toilet paper. Nuts. Completely nuts. Incidentally, a bidet is definitely the way to go Mar 14, 2020 6:18:43 GMT -5
petrushka: Even her little 5 or 6 year old was questioning her purchase! Mar 14, 2020 6:25:44 GMT -5
petrushka: One of my favourite quotes for the last 30 years: "don't ever look a sheep in the eyes, the intellectual vacuum may suck your brains out". Well, let's all drink to the sheeple! (besides, alcohol is a good disinfectant). Mar 14, 2020 6:31:26 GMT -5
frednsa: so...............i'd like to tell her when she "attempts to placate me": have you ever been invited to a party where you knew for certain that you WEREN'T wanted ? Mar 19, 2020 15:57:05 GMT -5
worksforme2: Former Miss Hawaii tests positive. Being the gallant lad that I am I have offered her the use of my guest bedroom to "shelter in place".. Mar 23, 2020 20:34:21 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey tamara68, there is a covid19 positive cat in Belgium, watch out for it. Mar 30, 2020 14:05:56 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme I think I have to be more careful for all infected people. Most likely I already have Covid19 Apr 1, 2020 3:29:42 GMT -5
worksforme2:'s been a couple weeks since you posted you may have the covid19 virus. hopefully you are feeling better and are on your way to renewed health Apr 11, 2020 5:31:38 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme thanks, yes I am feeling better. How is it in the USA? Apr 14, 2020 1:57:26 GMT -5
worksforme2: some better and some worse,..virus seems to be slowing down, but people are beginning to refuse to stay inside,...worst thing I see is Biden leading in the election poles,...but that could be fake news Apr 20, 2020 16:56:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Politics? Is that what we want to happen here? Apr 21, 2020 6:21:24 GMT -5
petrushka: Certainly not American style politics. Toxic echo chambers. Apr 23, 2020 16:21:52 GMT -5
petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context. Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5
worksforme2: 19000 days and nights,....damn dude, that's 52 yrs. Jun 17, 2020 9:19:10 GMT -5
fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY ! Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now. Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back, might be the time to go for the gusto Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5