Post by toughtiger on Sept 5, 2023 14:01:07 GMT -5
Thanks for posting.... i read these and although i can see some of my spouses issues his lack of give a crap about anything not on his mind is infuriating ... he does NOT deserve yet another excuse card .... of why he is an ass
our grown children had commented before about maybe he was on the spectrum by his behavior ZERO offense meant........BUT i feel it is expanded so far it might be easier to count people NOT on the spectrum I really do not understand he has more empathy then he ever had for other people not me
we had a meeting recently regarding a property dispute ... I OWN the property ... when we met to try to iron out a deal the legal representatives literally introduced themselves to HUBBY and turned their back on me .... when i complained to spouse he said "oh i guess i should have said this is my wife? " I told him that might have worked BUT the issue was that guy was a jerk and spouse should NOT give the guy benefit of doubt or fix it for the PIG.
Now today they want THE deal...... signed I told the lawyer if he wanted a signature perhaps he should not made it a sausage only party meeting .....and they could kiss my ass. NOW they all think i am insane or perhaps on my period..... hubby wants me to empathize that the guy was just rushed he did not mean to exclude me yada yada yada ..yeah because how you look is more important then me ONCE AGAIN.
........BUT i feel it is expanded so far it might be easier to count people NOT on the spectrum I really do not understand he has more empathy then he ever had for other people not me
I have to agree with you toughtiger . Selective empathy is not a trait of Asperger Syndrome. But it is a trait of a dickhead.
And you have every right to be offended by your husband's slight of you at the meeting. The other parties were just as bad and should have considered you part of the deal unless told otherwise. So many clueless, so few baseball bats.
"Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity."