*REFUSED* is also available on many podcast players including Google, Apple, Podcast Addict, and Spotify. (Maybe others, go ahead and check!)
If you're here on ILIASM, it appears the Padgemi interview (Episode #3) was appreciated and if you'd like to help the SM community get personal and understand they're truly not alone, maybe you'll consider an interview like it. It's one things to see a story here at ILIASM in black and white, it's another to hear a human voice behind it.
We can use an alias of your alias, have someone else voice over a written interview, or otherwise keep things confidential - if you're more concerned than Padgemi was about keeping your current/former SM on the QT.
I do have two notable volunteers (Hi, you two! I haven't forgotten!), but scheduling has been a bear and I expect it to stay that was through late May, but perhaps someone else can handle daytime interviews.
They'd be done over Zoom, or Skype, no video necessary.
A list of questions to expect can be provided in advance.
"Tell us a bit about your marriage history."
"At what point did you start telling yourself the refusals were a problem?"
"What, if anything, did you do or are you doing to fix the sexlessness / low sex environment (choose the appropriate)?"
"Do you have plans to execute over the coming months of years?"
"If you could, what would you tell yourself (1) before getting married and (2) at the time you noticed the sexlessness problem arising?"
This the "Shoutbox" -- basically a site-wide, group chat. (It's only visible to members.)
mirrororchid: If something is troubling you and thoughts are keeping the sandman away, venting at 7cups.com may help? If you're just awake inconveniently and want cyber company, chatzy.com may have a group similarly unoccupied.
Mar 28, 2022 6:01:09 GMT -5
jim44444: Thank.you Admin for deleting the spammers
Mar 31, 2022 8:52:13 GMT -5
njsojourner: My advice to those Suffering: screw it! Literally. Everyone deserves a fulfilling sexual life. Get it however you can. Life is short. I have no illusions —when I get caught my wife will have to decide what’s most important to her. I am not stopping!
Mar 31, 2022 21:05:18 GMT -5
desertfather: I just felt lonely lately. Wanted to talk to someone.
Apr 5, 2022 8:29:18 GMT -5
mirrororchid: I mention a few online chat rooms a few posts up, desertfather. Meetup.com provides real live people to chat with. Given your ILIASM situation, a lot of folks locate a therapist. (helpful for touchy subjects you can't go over with friends for over a year.
Apr 6, 2022 4:50:03 GMT -5