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Post by ironhamster on Jun 15, 2024 7:19:10 GMT -5
I'm curious how my wife is going to act now that I won't be around. Been separated for a month now. I shouldn't worry about it. She wanted me to be the bad guy and say the D word first. She likes being the victim. My mind wonders too much me thinks. But I have to be prepared for when she does find someone else. If she finds someone, or doesn't, it's not your problem. Congratulations on that. In divorce, my advice is don't let her play victim to the judge. Not for one second. If your lawyer won't make it clear to the judge how she sabotaged the marriage, you're probably better off representing yourself. My ex probably weighs twice what she did the last year we were married, and twice what she did when she started dating her new husband. I have no idea what their relationship is like other than they both prefer calorie laden food more than they like their health. That's not my problem.
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 15, 2024 9:09:53 GMT -5
I'm curious how my wife is going to act now that I won't be around. Been separated for a month now. I shouldn't worry about it. She wanted me to be the bad guy and say the D word first. She likes being the victim. My mind wonders too much me thinks. But I have to be prepared for when she does find someone else. Unless she has dropped a few hints she will be on the prowl or her actions suggest it I would not worry too much. After all her behavior toward sex, at least with you, suggests she may not be interested in finding a new mate. Shortly after our divorce my now X ask me if I thought other men would be interested in dating her. She was and is still an attractive woman who has kept her figure. I told her "yes" and they are going to want to have sex with you. Her mouth and chin dropped like a lead baloon. Clearly this was not what she imagined going forward. To this day she has not dated or hinted of wanting another relatonship.
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Post by greatcoastal on Jun 15, 2024 11:30:37 GMT -5
All it takes is a fraction % of being desired by another woman ,compared to the years of neglect that you endured from your now ex,and she ( your ex) will be very distant in your thoughts!
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