Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Another love lost
Rhapsodee 5 1,047 by saarinista
Oct 14, 2019 22:07:03 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Why am I in the choosing to stay camp?
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thefire24 54 4,360 by csl
Oct 11, 2019 21:56:22 GMT -5
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newPollBookmarkLockedFalling Do you kiss your spouse?
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Deleted 49 5,316 by apathetic
Oct 3, 2019 22:40:24 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Finding Happiness in a Celibate Life
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theexplorer 22 2,306 by solodriver
Sept 22, 2019 1:07:22 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Too good to leave, too bad to stay.
Rhapsodee 8 1,283 by theexplorer
Sept 3, 2019 17:00:31 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Been a while - UPDATE
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mrslowmaintenance 26 2,199 by h
Jul 30, 2019 21:33:55 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Playing the game
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2019change 20 2,067 by bballgirl
Jul 29, 2019 13:27:52 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sometimes the stuff is not given.
lessingham 5 769 by lessingham
Jul 27, 2019 3:16:59 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to refuse without a backlash.
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eeman 18 1,964 by angeleyes65
Jul 15, 2019 16:20:51 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Implied Consent
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dallasgia 20 2,108 by ironhamster
Jul 9, 2019 3:03:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My Changing View of Marriage and Love
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theexplorer 21 2,250 by greatcoastal
Jul 6, 2019 20:52:58 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Tell me my future
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Deleted 19 2,323 by snowman12345
Jun 16, 2019 17:17:21 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling What is good?
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cassiopeia92 23 2,049 by noregretz
Jun 9, 2019 16:13:37 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Indifference
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smith227 15 2,087 by northstarmom
May 28, 2019 21:11:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Some decisions
cassiopeia92 2 657 by cassiopeia92
May 23, 2019 8:30:10 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My past and my future
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cassiopeia92 28 1,717 by worksforme2
May 23, 2019 7:45:09 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying and choosing to outsource.
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Rhapsodee 50 4,090 by angeleyes65
May 12, 2019 9:43:15 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A useful read?
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lessingham 17 1,903 by elynne
Apr 18, 2019 1:56:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The secret to “staying” successfully
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Dan 29 3,171 by firefollower
Mar 27, 2019 12:08:18 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Loneliness
smith227 14 1,024 by theexplorer
Mar 25, 2019 10:25:00 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Just a thought for today.
jim44444 3 866 by northstarmom
Mar 15, 2019 9:35:28 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Remind me again
smith227 4 960 by Handy
Feb 17, 2019 22:55:57 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling If your spouse agreed, would you even want to?
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rich 27 2,365 by jim44444
Feb 4, 2019 2:59:21 GMT -5
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lwoetin 0 792 by lwoetin
Feb 1, 2019 1:07:12 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is a fresh start really possible?
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Deleted 16 1,466 by saarinista
Jan 1, 2019 20:24:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Numb / Shutting Down
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Deleted 37 2,791 by muzack
Dec 23, 2018 0:36:08 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The stay or leave dichotomy
catsloveme 13 1,003 by Deleted
Dec 21, 2018 21:21:03 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying, because we can forgive each other
lwoetin 11 730 by lwoetin
Dec 21, 2018 14:14:59 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Without sex and intimacy, is it a marriage?
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Deleted 37 3,394 by h
Dec 10, 2018 10:44:30 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A little help from my friends
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workingonit 17 1,834 by misssunnybunny
Nov 24, 2018 11:30:12 GMT -5

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notdeadyet: (I'm never sure of posting protocols here. Forgive me if I don't do it right) This is vwell said. We finally found a therapist who wasn't anti-male biased from the outset. She concluded that my W was OCPD, NOT the same as OCD at all. But it took month Dec 17, 2023 14:01:27 GMT -5
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