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Post by cassiopeia92 on May 23, 2019 7:17:53 GMT -5
I have been reading a little book called Shine and others about positivity and I am all about that at the moment.
I have been on a couple of shopping sprees at my local cheap fashion stores. I bought some very colorful summer clothes, nothing like what I would usually wear but so pretty. And I also updated my make up.
I have decided to make myself look good and feel happy. I have lost 36 lbs since February and that was for myself too.
While I was in America we went on only 1 long weekend trip and thoroughly enjoyed it. I have decided we need to get out there and do things. Starting with this weekend we will go on a day out every weekend. My husband loves history and we have it in spades.
Two interesting things happened not necessarily related.
He got his UK license almost a week ago and wont drive. This too he insisted on doing. I think he is afraid.
The other thing is I got my butt carressed in bed last night. Carressed and then he turned over. WTAF.
I am going to keep going with self improvement and making the best of this marriage.
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Post by baza on May 23, 2019 8:06:52 GMT -5
This reads like a pretty good and do-able strategy Sister cassiopeia92 . If you keep sorting out your own shit as it appears you are, then you can't go too far wrong. There will be flow on effects to the marriage - or there won't be. That is a matter over which you have no control. All you can do is sort your own stuff out.
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Post by cassiopeia92 on May 23, 2019 8:30:10 GMT -5
This reads like a pretty good and do-able strategy Sister cassiopeia92 . If you keep sorting out your own shit as it appears you are, then you can't go too far wrong. There will be flow on effects to the marriage - or there won't be. That is a matter over which you have no control. All you can do is sort your own stuff out. I think its way better than the talk, all that seems to do is breed ill will, resentment and hurt. It certainly does nothing to solve the problems.
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