Choosing to Stay

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newBookmarkLockedFalling Finding Happiness in a Celibate Life
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theexplorer 22 1,315 by solodriver
Sept 22, 2019 1:07:22 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Too good to leave, too bad to stay.
Rhapsodee 8 618 by theexplorer
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying
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lessingham 26 1,732 by tooyoungtobeold
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Been a while - UPDATE
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mrslowmaintenance 27 1,303 by h
Jul 30, 2019 21:33:55 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Playing the game
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2019change 20 1,125 by bballgirl
Jul 29, 2019 13:27:52 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sometimes the stuff is not given.
lessingham 5 335 by lessingham
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to refuse without a backlash.
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eeman 18 1,028 by angeleyes65
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Implied Consent
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dallasgia 20 1,146 by ironhamster
Jul 9, 2019 3:03:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My Changing View of Marriage and Love
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theexplorer 21 1,336 by greatcoastal
Jul 6, 2019 20:52:58 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Tell me my future
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Deleted 22 1,461 by snowman12345
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newBookmarkLockedFalling What is good?
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cassiopeia92 24 1,126 by noregretz
Jun 9, 2019 16:13:37 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Indifference
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smith227 15 1,305 by northstarmom
May 28, 2019 21:11:49 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Some decisions
cassiopeia92 2 300 by cassiopeia92
May 23, 2019 8:30:10 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My past and my future
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cassiopeia92 28 893 by worksforme2
May 23, 2019 7:45:09 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying and choosing to outsource.
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Rhapsodee 50 2,643 by angeleyes65
May 12, 2019 9:43:15 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A useful read?
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lessingham 17 1,099 by elynne
Apr 18, 2019 1:56:54 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The secret to “staying” successfully
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Dan 29 2,382 by firefollower
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Loneliness
smith227 14 488 by theexplorer
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Just a thought for today.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Remind me again
smith227 4 581 by Handy
Feb 17, 2019 22:55:57 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling If your spouse agreed, would you even want to?
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rich 27 1,626 by jim44444
Feb 4, 2019 2:59:21 GMT -5
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lwoetin 0 376 by lwoetin
Feb 1, 2019 1:07:12 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Is a fresh start really possible?
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whynotm3 16 902 by saarinista
Jan 1, 2019 20:24:56 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Numb / Shutting Down
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whynotm3 37 1,741 by muzack
Dec 23, 2018 0:36:08 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling The stay or leave dichotomy
catsloveme 13 734 by whynotm3
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Staying, because we can forgive each other
lwoetin 11 465 by lwoetin
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Separate bedrooms?
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xfoo 37 1,690 by darktippedrose
Dec 18, 2018 15:52:37 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Without sex and intimacy, is it a marriage?
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tooyoungtobeold 37 2,370 by h
Dec 10, 2018 10:44:30 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling A little help from my friends
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workingonit 17 1,254 by misssunnybunny
Nov 24, 2018 11:30:12 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Choosing to stay...so far.
davth1701 7 573 by jamesbonding
Nov 15, 2018 23:29:42 GMT -5

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petrushka: One of my favourite quotes for the last 30 years: "don't ever look a sheep in the eyes, the intellectual vacuum may suck your brains out". Well, let's all drink to the sheeple! (besides, alcohol is a good disinfectant). Mar 14, 2020 6:31:26 GMT -5
frednsa: so...............i'd like to tell her when she "attempts to placate me": have you ever been invited to a party where you knew for certain that you WEREN'T wanted ? Mar 19, 2020 15:57:05 GMT -5
worksforme2: Former Miss Hawaii tests positive. Being the gallant lad that I am I have offered her the use of my guest bedroom to "shelter in place".. Mar 23, 2020 20:34:21 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey tamara68, there is a covid19 positive cat in Belgium, watch out for it. Mar 30, 2020 14:05:56 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme I think I have to be more careful for all infected people. Most likely I already have Covid19 Apr 1, 2020 3:29:42 GMT -5
worksforme2: tamara68.....it's been a couple weeks since you posted you may have the covid19 virus. hopefully you are feeling better and are on your way to renewed health Apr 11, 2020 5:31:38 GMT -5
tamara68: @worksforme thanks, yes I am feeling better. How is it in the USA? Apr 14, 2020 1:57:26 GMT -5
worksforme2: some better and some worse,..virus seems to be slowing down, but people are beginning to refuse to stay inside,...worst thing I see is Biden leading in the election poles,...but that could be fake news Apr 20, 2020 16:56:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Politics? Is that what we want to happen here? Apr 21, 2020 6:21:24 GMT -5
petrushka: Certainly not American style politics. Toxic echo chambers. Apr 23, 2020 16:21:52 GMT -5
petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context. Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5
worksforme2: 19000 days and nights,....damn dude, that's 52 yrs. Jun 17, 2020 9:19:10 GMT -5
fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY ! Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now. Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back,..now might be the time to go for the gusto Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5
grower: Your life clock is ticking away, don't waste all your time. Live some. Jul 24, 2020 9:53:20 GMT -5
fred: blue guy, i was where you are 30 years ago. stayed.................nothing changed. if i didn't love this nice lady so much i'd be in deep regret. if she doesn't think of you in a hundred "other" ways (as does my wife) GET OUT ! Life is short Aug 10, 2020 17:43:15 GMT -5