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Post by sweetplumeria on Jul 20, 2023 1:57:00 GMT -5
We never celebrated, but looking back I realize that's his statement on our marriage. You know the one... its perfect except the sex. Yeah that one. It's pretty embarrassing when my mom calls to wish me happy anniversary. Pretending life is good is nearly impossible. He didn't remember it was our anniversary today, so why should I? I did the math... apparently my brain stopped at 26 but math has it at 29. 29 years of this crap. Depressed and mad at myself.
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Post by mirrororchid on Jul 20, 2023 5:29:21 GMT -5
So sorry you're in this place, SweetPlumeria.
What's your plan?
I know you're getting companionship sometimes.
What do you need?
Can your marriage be a worthwhile part of a life you'd be good with? Do you think divorce needs to get done?
Sympathy is a good thing, you have a lot of it. Progress can eliminate the need, though.
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Post by worksforme2 on Jul 20, 2023 6:28:36 GMT -5
I will echo mirrororchid in asking, what is your long range game plan? In the short term you are outsourcing.Everyone needs both a short and long term plan. What's yours?
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Post by blunder8 on Jul 20, 2023 13:16:01 GMT -5
My heart aches for you and this awful marriage. I know it's not as easy as saying "just get out." But I hope you can find an escape and find happiness in a new beginning. You're tough; you got this!
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Post by sweetplumeria on Jul 23, 2023 11:41:19 GMT -5
Excellent questions, my friends... I need to work on the answers. I just really don't know how to move forward.
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