miestas
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Post by miestas on Nov 15, 2023 1:21:57 GMT -5
I don’t know your whole situation, obviously. However, my first suggestion would be to tell him that you are not a toy. No touching of a suggestive manner, either with animate or inanimate objects, unless he wants intimacy. It’s not funny. It is degrading and, IMO, sadistic to use someone else as a source off amusement when you know that they will be hurt by that action.
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Post by Same old, same old on Nov 15, 2023 7:46:58 GMT -5
I don’t know your whole situation, obviously. However, my first suggestion would be to tell him that you are not a toy. No touching of a suggestive manner, either with animate or inanimate objects, unless he wants intimacy. It’s not funny. It is degrading and, IMO, sadistic to use someone else as a source off amusement when you know that they will be hurt by that action. You're absolutely right. It may be, in his mind, some payback for some words I have thrown out at him. Believe me, it doesn't happen very often ... he is not at all the frisky or fun play type. |
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Post by mirrororchid on Nov 17, 2023 5:46:39 GMT -5
I don’t know your whole situation, obviously. However, my first suggestion would be to tell him that you are not a toy. No touching of a suggestive manner, either with animate or inanimate objects, unless he wants intimacy. It’s not funny. It is degrading and, IMO, sadistic to use someone else as a source off amusement when you know that they will be hurt by that action. You're absolutely right. It may be, in his mind, some payback for some words I have thrown out at him. Believe me, it doesn't happen very often ... he is not at all the frisky or fun play type. This could be mistaken for a cooling of your libido. Might I suggest that touching you in a sexual manner is like waking up an insomniac. You're already deprived, the interruption calls attention to the difficulty. It matters little whether you were awakened for a knock knock joke. Might not be welcome even if the joke was funny. Even if unintentional, you can produce extra longing that enflames what was already there but you may not have been thinking about; like a penniless hobo that catches the whiff of fresh bread from a bakery. It could easily be pleasant, but for the fact you know you cannot have a slice. Insomnia, constipation, h-anger, lust... deprivation of normal biological processes silently, relentlessly, sadistically drain a person. |
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