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Post by catlover on Oct 2, 2023 11:13:39 GMT -5
Anniversary, not of the last time we had any intimacy, but 41 years ago today we were married. Kind of bittersweet, I am longing for some, any, intimacy, but I think I have more chance of falling pregnant.
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Post by worksforme2 on Oct 2, 2023 13:16:32 GMT -5
Anniversary, not of the last time we had any intimacy, but 41 years ago today we were married. Kind of bittersweet, I am longing for some, any, intimacy, but I think I have more chance of falling pregnant. Highly unlikely as you seem to be in a sexless marriage. |
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Post by toughtiger on Oct 2, 2023 14:52:20 GMT -5
anniversaries at this point should not even be celebrated i never said a word this year he forgets it so was no big deal ... spoke of it about a month later and he was like why did u not remind me ...... i just looked at him and he knew conversation should be dropped.
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Post by diode on Oct 2, 2023 18:02:59 GMT -5
As was the case for me last year, I will be on my own for the coming anniversary -- celebration enough?
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Post by greatcoastal on Oct 3, 2023 18:09:31 GMT -5
Anniversary, not of the last time we had any intimacy, but 41 years ago today we were married. Kind of bittersweet, I am longing for some, any, intimacy, but I think I have more chance of falling pregnant. I have a B.D. coming up and I am already thinking about how to handle it. Suggestions for Anniversaries, B.D. Holidays, etc... 1) Tap into your support network and throw a party for yourself! Invite a friend out to dinner, treat yourself to a big meal. 2)Travel for the day, get away from that toxic environment, and that toxic person. Change is good! 3)Got a project you've been putting off? Seize the day and distract your negative feelings with something that benefits yourself. Keep your hands busy. 4) Men like peace. Maybe a day of rest? Some music? A good book, enjoy the fall colors, and recharge yourself! 5) Celebrate the future and live the next few days for yourself! ( no one else id going to do it for you. Don't allow yourself to be emasculated. ) |
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Post by deadzone75 on Oct 3, 2023 19:15:12 GMT -5
Anniversary, not of the last time we had any intimacy, but 41 years ago today we were married. Kind of bittersweet, I am longing for some, any, intimacy, but I think I have more chance of falling pregnant. 4) Men like peace. Maybe a day of rest? Some music? A good book, enjoy the fall colors, and recharge yourself! Men like a piece of ass. He's 41 years on in a SM, so I'm guessing he already gets plenty of peace. I suggest going out and getting what any man in a SM really wants. Go buy a handjob or a blowjob or an outright fuck. |
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Post by worksforme2 on Oct 4, 2023 4:41:07 GMT -5
4) Men like peace. Maybe a day of rest? Some music? A good book, enjoy the fall colors, and recharge yourself! Men like a piece of ass. He's 41 years on in a SM, so I'm guessing he already gets plenty of peace. I suggest going out and getting what any man in a SM really wants. Go buy a handjob or a blowjob or an outright fuck. |
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Post by mirrororchid on Oct 4, 2023 5:59:50 GMT -5
6) Bonding experience with the kids.
If a sexless marriage is killing enthusiasm for your life partner (how sick is that?), if you have kids, and still like them, embrace the best part.
If divorce is in your destiny, good memories of your birthday and anniversary celebrations could help with any parental alienation challenges later.
If no kids, remind me again why you're not opening your marriage?
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Post by catlover on Oct 5, 2023 12:18:49 GMT -5
6) Bonding experience with the kids. If a sexless marriage is killing enthusiasm for your life partner (how sick is that?), if you have kids, and still like them, embrace the best part. If divorce is in your destiny, good memories of your birthday and anniversary celebrations could help with any parental alienation challenges later. If no kids, remind me again why you're not opening your marriage? Why am I not opening the marriage? Wish it was that simple. I DON'T want 'just sex'. Been there, tied that and, for me, it is very unsatisfying. Maybe I'm just to stubborn but I want closeness, intimacy and affection with HER, not anybody else. I also somehow don't think a suggestion of opening the marriage is going to go over much better than a lead balloon floats. I don't have any high hopes of finding a suitable partner either. SO, I guess, for now, I am stuck, and definitely classified as nonconcel.  |
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Post by mirrororchid on Oct 5, 2023 21:15:13 GMT -5
If it's just got to be Mrs. Catlover, and no other...yeah, you're largely stuck for it.
Wishing you strength, m'man.
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Post by catlover on Oct 8, 2023 15:43:22 GMT -5
A sexless marriage is defined apparently as 10 times per year or less. Bloody hell, I would be ecstatic with 10 times a year!!!
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Post by m76 on Oct 15, 2023 21:34:13 GMT -5
A sexless marriage is defoned ap[parent;y as 10 times per year or less. Bloody hell, I would be ecstatic with 10 times a year!!! 10 times sure beats zero. |
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