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Post by lessingham on Jul 19, 2020 3:25:54 GMT -5
She insists on the condoms as part of the blow job.
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Post by worksforme2 on Jul 19, 2020 6:06:25 GMT -5
She insists on the condoms as part of the blow job. At 1st I was pretty put off reading the requirement for a bj, you wearing a condom. But after a few seconds I thought in terms of the health implications regarding possible transmission on the herpes simplex virus from her to you. Looking at it from that position perhaps she is really right to insist on you having a condom on. The last thing you need is a case of genital herpes. |
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Post by sylvester on Aug 31, 2020 15:57:58 GMT -5
I’m sad to say a 1 minute BJ is 1 minute longer than I have ever received from my wife of 31 years. Sexless sucks, pun intended.
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Post by hopingforachange on Sept 1, 2020 8:23:22 GMT -5
3. A thirty minute BJ? Oh hell no! If she cannot get me off with a 29 minute BJ then she is doing something horribly wrong or I am broken. Humm, or she's doing it right and enjoying edging you to build up for a larger load. |
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Post by isthisit on Sept 1, 2020 11:04:44 GMT -5
3. A thirty minute BJ? Oh hell no! If she cannot get me off with a 29 minute BJ then she is doing something horribly wrong or I am broken. Humm, or she's doing it right and enjoying edging you to build up for a larger load. At last, someone with an imagination. Thirty minutes is when I am feeling beneficent. |
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Post by jerri on Sept 4, 2020 7:24:09 GMT -5
She insists on the condoms as part of the blow job. Use the flip a coin technique! That's not giving head! That's putting up barriers! Pun intended! Insist that she goes window shopping without spending a dime! Next thing she may do insist that you stand on your head while she gives you head Tell her to get on her knees and earn those shopping extravaganzas! Lol, sorry, I couldn't resist!  ETA:Get HSV1 tested if you have antibodies she has already given you oral herpes and she can't give you something you already have. I know way too much about this area because I don't want it on my genitals and FWB is a carrier but his wife is the only one who breaks out. Beware because no STD panel test for it because it is already in 60% of the population. That goes for the UK and the United States. United States has much higher rates than the UK. |
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Post by jerri on Sept 5, 2020 15:53:41 GMT -5
The relationship agreement will be an agreement , not a surrender document. I will not sign unless happy. And I agree a one minute blow job is neither here not there in the scheme of things , but it is a step. And maybe a two minuter is on the horizon!!! You have a great attitude! Sometimes, I am realistic with hope and sometimes l am off base. I don't like feeling stuck so I really don't care if it is false hope! I feel much better in Hope than in despair, despair or feeling out of control is not good for my psyche. Hope also allows me to move on with my life and do what I want to do. I think you should save up a little cash at a time for a rainy day, a beautiful rainy day with the High class escort that you like. Maybe a professional massage with a very HAPPY ENDING!!!! You have to watch my posts !! I like to have fun and I will get you in a lot of trouble with my suggestions !  let me be the little devil on your shoulder that says go get some  Wear a mask! What if we were in the hospital tomorrow? Would we be saying thank God I was angelic!!!! You and I have already gotten in trouble let's go get in more trouble! |
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Post by lessingham on Sept 6, 2020 3:33:56 GMT -5
I went to the GUM clinic after I stopped visiting escorts and was tested clean for all. Whether or not that includes herpes simplex I am not sure. But a clean bill of health this side of the bed.
Money ain't a problem, time is. I live in a small fural town where escorts of any tyoe are as rare as hen's teeth. I need to get to London.
But I do like your idea of a little devil on my shoulder. And wearing masks.
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Post by saarinista on Sept 7, 2020 12:12:41 GMT -5
lessingham I'm still confused. Do you want sex of some sort with your wife, are you trying to get it elsewhere, or what?
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Post by lessingham on Sept 11, 2020 3:06:48 GMT -5
I want a sex life with my wife. But the desire for sex burns me. I
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Post by saarinista on Sept 11, 2020 13:05:53 GMT -5
I want a sex life with my wife. But the desire for sex burns me. I It ain't gonna happen, my friend. |
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Post by jerri on Sept 11, 2020 13:31:33 GMT -5
If you call the GUM clinic and ask for your STI paperwork it will state whether you have antibodies to herpes 1 or not. If you have antibodies she can't give you something you already have. Hence, no need for condom if that's what she is worried about. And remember that you can get HSV1 anywhere in the boxer short area and it needs to be protected from her lips when she is shedding, whether she has sores or not.(if you don't have antibodies) the virus can only enter a wound or abrasion. Not meant to instill fear, just meant to add info. Go have fun!  |
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let me be the little devil on your shoulder that says go get some 
Wear a mask! What if we were in the hospital tomorrow? Would we be saying thank God I was angelic!!!! You and I have already gotten in trouble let's go get in more trouble! 
