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Post by catlover on Jun 3, 2021 9:08:09 GMT -5
Came across this posting on AM, looks really intriguing to me
"I'm a married woman and I love my husband. In my relationship with him 90% of my needs are met. I just need a little help meeting the other 10%. I am hoping to find someone who can help with that. My husband knows and understands. He might even share a beer with you."
I think I may need to dive in there
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Post by worksforme2 on Jun 3, 2021 10:00:51 GMT -5
When it comes to Ashlee Madison one thing you want to keep in mind is that many of the posts put up supposedly by women are really just bots. They exist to pull money out of a man's pocket while offering only promises. You want to be really careful on that site. Don't get conned into upgrading your status and buying tokens or other incentives that allow more conversation if you spend the money.
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Post by northstarmom on Jun 3, 2021 11:48:07 GMT -5
If she is a real person, realize you'll have a lot of competition as there aren't many real women on that site, and they are overwhelmed by men who want to have sex with them.
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Post by baza on Jun 3, 2021 19:09:34 GMT -5
Is there room in your life to be adding another adult relationship in to the mix Brother catlover ? It reads like you have plenty on your plate to deal with already. In light of your missus' declining health and coping with your ILIASM deal - plus other pressures - can a case be made to scrub any idea of taking on fresh complications at this time ? |
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Post by catlover on Jun 3, 2021 21:03:25 GMT -5
Is there room in your life to be adding another adult relationship in to the mix Brother catlover ? It reads like you have plenty on your plate to deal with already. In light of your missus' declining health and coping with your ILIASM deal - plus other pressures - can a case be made to scrub any idea of taking on fresh complications at this time ? Maybne some wishful thinking going on, but damn, the idea of naughty fun............ (with no hangups from anyone ...sigh) |
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Post by baza on Jun 3, 2021 21:55:52 GMT -5
There's a whole lot of evidence in here (from those members who have had a go at the cheating option) that introducing a new person into the already struggling ILIASM situation is invariably a game changer. Trouble is that these game changers are unpredictable and tend to fly off at unanticipated tangents. You 'might' get an outcome of - "no hangups from anyone" .... You might get an outcome of the collapse of your marriage in an acrimonious split. It's not a choice to go in to half arsed. You really need to treat the cheating option with the same seriousness as you would a divorce - and prepare for this as a possible outcome. Good luck as you wrestle with this raft of issues you are trying to manage Brother catlover . |
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Post by jerri on Jun 4, 2021 3:24:58 GMT -5
I found FWB on Ashley but it's super easy for women.
The pictures are perfect on the fake profiles.
I think you have far less chance of getting caught with her being I'll.
I would not open a marriage if my H was I'll. I really don't know what I would do. I think I would go for it.
I just don't think you should feel bad because you are human!
What a stress relief and it allows me to have fun but have my marriage and I love my husband!
I ran across the same thing FWB tried so hard to learn how to stimulate me and his wife. Every technique I learned all the books paid off there's no better play date than a starved marriage on both sides!
You won't be on your death bed thinking damn I am so glad I suffered and worked my ass to the bone!
It doesn't always work out but at least we tried!
Bring the ad in and we can help you!
Fo the next few weeks FWB will be here 3days each week and then his contact is dropped. He's going to retire early so I am getting shagged while I can! Good luck!
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Post by catlover on Jun 4, 2021 11:19:51 GMT -5
I found FWB on Ashley but it's super easy for women. The pictures are perfect on the fake profiles. I think you have far less chance of getting caught with her being I'll. I would not open a marriage if my H was I'll. I really don't know what I would do. I think I would go for it. I just don't think you should feel bad because you are human! What a stress relief and it allows me to have fun but have my marriage and I love my husband! I ran across the same thing FWB tried so hard to learn how to stimulate me and his wife. Every technique I learned all the books paid off there's no better play date than a starved marriage on both sides! You won't be on your death bed thinking damn I am so glad I suffered and worked my ass to the bone! It doesn't always work out but at least we tried! Bring the ad in and we can help you! Fo the next few weeks FWB will be here 3days each week and then his contact is dropped. He's going to retire early so I am getting shagged while I can! Good luck! If you're on AM here is the profile www.ashleymadison.com/private/profile/82018730ABOUT ME Please only contact me if you are interested in meeting IRL. The only games I'm interested in are the ones played in-person in bed. I'm a married woman and I love my husband. In my relationship with him 90% of my needs are met. I just need a little help meeting the other 10%. I am hoping to find someone who can help with that. My husband knows and understands. He might even share a beer with you. I am hoping to find someone I connect with, have chemistry with, and share an attraction with. Hopefully, we can have a long-term and regular FWB relationship. I want us to enjoy each other's company in and out of bed, have fun in and out of bed, and make each other long for the next time we can lay our hands on each other. I'd like to be able to connect in person on a regular basis for intimate sexual encounters and other types of fun and to stoke the fires in between our time together with fun and sexy communications. I'm attracted to tall men. I like lean and fit to football type builds. I tend not to be attracted to skinny or overly muscled fellas. But what truly makes a man attractive to me is how he makes me feel when I'm with him. Make me laugh, have fun with me, challenge my mind, flirt and make me feel sexy. That's sexy. VITALS Attached Female seeking Males 44 (Cancer) 5' 8" (173cm) 215 lbs (98kg) Zaftig (Voluptuous/Curvy) Anything Goes Caucasian (white) English |
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Post by jerri on Jun 9, 2021 1:38:50 GMT -5
I hope you replied! It's a pure numbers game for men! There is one for you somewhere! You have to treat it like sales many no's but you are just looking for that one yes!
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Post by catlover on Jun 9, 2021 7:03:47 GMT -5
Yup, replied, no response 🧐
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Post by jim44444 on Jun 9, 2021 18:30:22 GMT -5
I hope you replied! It's a pure numbers game for men! There is one for you somewhere! You have to treat it like sales many no's but you are just looking for that one yes! is spot on. On a different forum a woman posted that she joined AM and received 165 messages the first day! Overwhelming is how she describes it. How long will it take her to respond to those messages, if she even tries? |
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Post by mirrororchid on Jun 9, 2021 18:56:55 GMT -5
I hope you replied! It's a pure numbers game for men! There is one for you somewhere! You have to treat it like sales many no's but you are just looking for that one yes! is spot on. On a different forum a woman posted that she joined AM and received 165 messages the first day! Overwhelming is how she describes it. How long will it take her to respond to those messages, if she even tries? When I was briefly dating, I loved the women that put in their profiles "put "Outer Banks" in the subject line if you want a reply." or the like. Instantly weed out the guys who didn't take the trouble to get to know you even for a few minutes. I always made sure to send messages with relevant observations, questions, or anecdotes about something specific in their profiles. Worked well. If you don't get hits, maybe that's worth a shot. (assuming catlover's not doing that already.) I only messaged married women, maybe they react differently. |
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