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newBookmarkLockedFalling A breakdown in kindness from the Gottman Institute.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Gottman article: When breaking up is the healthiest choice
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Put a ring on it?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to tell if you are being gaslighted
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How could the discovery of adultery impact my divorce?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling You're allowed
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Sueing for sexual damages in France
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newBookmarkLockedFalling More women paying alimony.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Having a "Dismissive Avoidant" Spouse
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Jun 4, 2018 13:05:33 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Do you apologize at inanimate objects?
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May 18, 2018 8:45:00 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Good article on Buddhist Attachment Theory
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Circular arguments, Emotional Reasoning and JADE
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May 1, 2018 10:37:44 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Don't get married if....
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Apr 28, 2018 10:16:05 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Neurotypical married to a partner on the autism spectrum.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Starting over after divorce.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Good article - Mark Manson
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Six Kinds of love
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Non attachment and happiness
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Talking to your spouse about rejection.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling dealing with a narcissist and why you are a perfect match
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Solving Men's social isolation.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Married sex:What is okay with God?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Ask What, Not Why
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Attachment Styles influence your sex life
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Mar 28, 2018 16:45:00 GMT -5
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newBookmarkLockedFalling TEDx: No-Sex Marriage - Maureen McGrath
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newBookmarkLockedFalling website: "The Feminine Woman"
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Magic Lists helping you get what you want
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Article: Law of Attracting Trojan Horses - Martha Beck
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Men vs. Women with the Four Needs
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fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY ! Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now. Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back,..now might be the time to go for the gusto Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5
grower: Your life clock is ticking away, don't waste all your time. Live some. Jul 24, 2020 9:53:20 GMT -5
fred: blue guy, i was where you are 30 years ago. stayed.................nothing changed. if i didn't love this nice lady so much i'd be in deep regret. if she doesn't think of you in a hundred "other" ways (as does my wife) GET OUT ! Life is short Aug 10, 2020 17:43:15 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Episode 4 of *Refused*, ILIASM's unofficial podcast just released. drive.google.com/file/d/1wX41Xn1Z5fFKEQulCUjXFIECjXAiC7VF/view?usp=sharing Catch episodes 1-3 at the main thread: iliasm.org/thread/4855/podcasts Sept 9, 2020 18:07:38 GMT -5 *
jerri: Yuk on the plucking chicken feathers. If a chicken doesn't get sex and intimacy she just finds a beautiful cock sooner or later. I'd say there's a much higher "philandering" rate than anyone would care to admit. The rooster who is tormented findsa chicken! Sept 10, 2020 8:23:56 GMT -5
csl: And yet, there is an entire segment of ILIASM stayers. Sept 10, 2020 22:04:05 GMT -5
jerri: Exactly :) I have read multiple threads. I was very impressed with all the different solutions everyone has found. Intellectual group and the camaraderie is nice Sept 11, 2020 9:44:57 GMT -5
Handy: What happened to being light outside until 9:30 PM? It is 7:30 PM and dark now. :( Sept 20, 2020 20:46:01 GMT -5
jerri: It's not hot there? I am getting a slight break from the heat! Cheer up buddy! :) Sept 21, 2020 0:27:37 GMT -5
petrushka: Well WE are getting closer to summer. Just passed Equinox. I expect the solar panels will start paying for themselves again in the near future. (over the last few months they have merely mitigated the power bills). Sept 21, 2020 21:00:36 GMT -5
wewbwb: the average intelligence of the end posts rose greatly since I stopped posting ! Hope allis well! Sept 26, 2020 7:29:23 GMT -5
jerri: Don't be too busy to post. Come back, ! 💜 Sept 26, 2020 20:12:33 GMT -5
Handy: Jerri, you bring intelligence, so stop that nonsense. Sept 26, 2020 20:19:03 GMT -5
Handy: petrushka, I saved a picture of your solar panels and shop from an old post of yours. I like what I saw. Best wishes on getting the photons, or particles of light, to knock electrons free from atoms. Sept 28, 2020 1:09:41 GMT -5
jerri: , that's a really great Podcast so far. Robert Glover) Sept 28, 2020 15:33:24 GMT -5
tamara68: come back, you are missed here! Oct 1, 2020 10:37:41 GMT -5