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greatcoastal Senior Members Thanks for the Birthday wishes! Dinner with a friend tonight and B.D dance with the ladies! Posts: 6,727 Age Range: 56-60	Unlearning shame. Dec 7, 2020 16:13:52 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by greatcoastal on Dec 7, 2020 16:13:52 GMT -5 medium.com/the-pillow-talk-press/good-girls-dont-orgasm-like-that-745b3d16ac2b
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jerri Senior Member Don't ask tell them you will be getting sex elsewhere. Don't seek permission! Did you get a choice? Posts: 855 Age Range: 56-60	Unlearning shame. Dec 20, 2020 4:13:08 GMT -5 Handy likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jerri on Dec 20, 2020 4:13:08 GMT -5 Here's a Sexless marriage video. I will read your article, thanks.
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jerri Senior Member Don't ask tell them you will be getting sex elsewhere. Don't seek permission! Did you get a choice? Posts: 855 Age Range: 56-60	Unlearning shame. Dec 20, 2020 4:16:16 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jerri on Dec 20, 2020 4:16:16 GMT -5 Dec 7, 2020 16:13:52 GMT -5 greatcoastal said: medium.com/the-pillow-talk-press/good-girls-dont-orgasm-like-that-745b3d16ac2b It won't allow me to read it. Can you snip some of the article for me? Please, sir😃
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mirrororchid
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Previously sexless, 4 year recovery 2019-2023, two month relapse 2024, currently recovered.

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Unlearning shame. Dec 21, 2020 5:21:20 GMT -5 saarinista, onlyhuman, and 1 more like this

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Post by mirrororchid on Dec 21, 2020 5:21:20 GMT -5

Dec 20, 2020 4:16:16 GMT -5 jerri said:

Dec 7, 2020 16:13:52 GMT -5 greatcoastal said:

medium.com/the-pillow-talk-press/good-girls-dont-orgasm-like-that-745b3d16ac2b

It won't allow me to read it. Can you snip some of the article for me? Please, sir😃

I use textise.net when I need to get to some paywalled content.
It doesn't work everywhere, but it did here:

www.textise.net/showText.aspx?strURL=medium.com/the-pillow-talk-press/good-girls-dont-orgasm-like-that-745b3d16ac2b

The whole concept of slut-shaming baffles me.
Men complain it's like pulling teeth to bed down a lady friend, yet if they make it easier, we'll insult them?
Then we complain "bitches be crazy".
Well, yeah. That'll happen when you shame them for fulfilling your wishes.

Like your parents telling you at your graduation, "Summa cum laude! Way to go, you know-it-all asshole".

Me? I'm trying to destigmatize polyandry. The ladies that love sex could be making the world a much happier place.

Last Edit: Dec 21, 2020 5:28:58 GMT -5 by mirrororchid

jerri
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Don't ask tell them you will be getting sex elsewhere. Don't seek permission! Did you get a choice?

Posts: 855

Age Range: 56-60

Unlearning shame. Dec 22, 2020 1:09:31 GMT -5

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Post by jerri on Dec 22, 2020 1:09:31 GMT -5

Dec 21, 2020 5:21:20 GMT -5 mirrororchid said:

Dec 20, 2020 4:16:16 GMT -5 jerri said:

It won't allow me to read it. Can you snip some of the article for me? Please, sir😃

Many thanks! I am going to have to bookmark the site!

Last Edit: Dec 22, 2020 2:07:07 GMT -5 by jerri

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Unlearning shame.

Post by greatcoastal on Dec 7, 2020 16:13:52 GMT -5

Post by jerri on Dec 20, 2020 4:13:08 GMT -5

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