Therapist says don't marry a man who regularly rejects sex
Jan 13, 2022 16:26:17 GMT -5
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Post by northstarmom on Jan 13, 2022 16:26:17 GMT -5
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Sometimes women write in asking me for advice about their lower-libido boyfriends. I always tell them to leave, because the situation will only worsen over time. The issue is that many women do not recognize low libido for what it truly is. If you are a woman who thrives on sex and physical touch, do not marry a man who does any of the following during dating:
Shrinks away from your touch, ever
Doesn’t want sex when stressed (life will only get more stressful over time)
Makes fun of sex or your need for sex, as in this article about women who do this to men
Punishes you even once by withholding physical affection
Does not hug or kiss you frequently
Doesn’t give massages
Has poor hygiene (and/or doesn’t respond to you telling him how to improve hygiene); this means he doesn’t care if you enjoy being physically close to him
Has hangups about sex (read this)
Equates sex with respect, e.g., says things like “I wouldn’t have sex on the first date if I really respected a woman” or “I would never marry a woman who had sex with more than X men“
Doesn’t ensure you orgasm in every encounter (if you want to)"
www.drpsychmom.com/2022/01/06/do-not-marry-a-man-who-turns-down-sex/?fbclid=IwAR0FspkWLCNPkvNkbWFB_OnB3Ds_PNKkBGQZhwUAG85n1_0QcBEfRsWTbmw#.YeBxLt8yyws.facebook
Sometimes women write in asking me for advice about their lower-libido boyfriends. I always tell them to leave, because the situation will only worsen over time. The issue is that many women do not recognize low libido for what it truly is. If you are a woman who thrives on sex and physical touch, do not marry a man who does any of the following during dating:
Shrinks away from your touch, ever
Doesn’t want sex when stressed (life will only get more stressful over time)
Makes fun of sex or your need for sex, as in this article about women who do this to men
Punishes you even once by withholding physical affection
Does not hug or kiss you frequently
Doesn’t give massages
Has poor hygiene (and/or doesn’t respond to you telling him how to improve hygiene); this means he doesn’t care if you enjoy being physically close to him
Has hangups about sex (read this)
Equates sex with respect, e.g., says things like “I wouldn’t have sex on the first date if I really respected a woman” or “I would never marry a woman who had sex with more than X men“
Doesn’t ensure you orgasm in every encounter (if you want to)"
www.drpsychmom.com/2022/01/06/do-not-marry-a-man-who-turns-down-sex/?fbclid=IwAR0FspkWLCNPkvNkbWFB_OnB3Ds_PNKkBGQZhwUAG85n1_0QcBEfRsWTbmw#.YeBxLt8yyws.facebook
