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newBookmarkLockedFalling Should women have sex in their marriage?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Fall in love, but don't fall out of love with yourself!
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Fear-setting vs Goal-setting
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Emotional abandonment.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Winter: The season of divorce.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Change jurisdiction to get more favorable divorce?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling When to call it quits in a marriage
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Conference Call Line?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to Identify a Narcissist
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northstarmom 17 1,292 by greatcoastal
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Menopause & Sex
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Difficulties Divorcing A Narcissist.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling What it means when a Narcissist says "I love you".
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newBookmarkLockedFalling how to set the scene for a low conflict divorce
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Can Men be Abused By Women?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Helpful books
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Attachment Style and Partnering/being Single
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How to face shouting spouse when tired?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Do you love to be needed? Or need to be loved?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling How do I fix my picker?
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newBookmarkLockedFalling New Study Shows Sex Gives Meaning to Life
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Other websites and on line groups?
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workingonit 28 1,598 by samedeepwater
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newBookmarkLockedFalling My Blog
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newBookmarkLockedFalling "God hates divorce" is only part of the story.
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newBookmarkLockedFalling When Couples Therapy is a Bad Idea
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newBookmarkLockedFalling Helpful resources
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newBookmarkLockedFalling What I learned from divorce.
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worksforme2: some better and some worse,..virus seems to be slowing down, but people are beginning to refuse to stay inside,...worst thing I see is Biden leading in the election poles,...but that could be fake news Apr 20, 2020 16:56:22 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Politics? Is that what we want to happen here? Apr 21, 2020 6:21:24 GMT -5
petrushka: Certainly not American style politics. Toxic echo chambers. Apr 23, 2020 16:21:52 GMT -5
petrushka: However, I feel that sexual politics, including political moves that impact the relationships between gender (misogynist, misandrist, etc) definitely deserve room in this context. Apr 23, 2020 16:22:59 GMT -5
fred: just calculated that i've spent somewhere near 19,000 days (& nights) as a "rejectee".AND that allows for 2,000+ days (& nights) on business travel apart from her. i've chosen to "stay" .....would never do that again, and can't as you see doing the math May 15, 2020 18:01:15 GMT -5
worksforme2: 19000 days and nights,....damn dude, that's 52 yrs. Jun 17, 2020 9:19:10 GMT -5
fred: you're a little short works - was thinking this AM, there has NEVER been a day when she indicated desire for me physically (other than for heavy lifting or finance)........LOL...........earlier, i had enough libido for both of us, now i'm left with guilt Jun 20, 2020 13:11:12 GMT -5
fred: over imposing myself on her rather than simply leaving .....DAMN LOVE ANYWAY ! Jun 20, 2020 13:12:12 GMT -5
mesulina: update everyone, still has not happened. I have now come to accept that I will live with out. It is just different now. Jun 29, 2020 19:32:31 GMT -5
worksforme2: Sorry mesulina,... but on the positive side you did stock up on toys a short time back,..now might be the time to go for the gusto Jun 30, 2020 17:42:54 GMT -5
grower: Embrace a change, you will wonder why you waited so long Jul 9, 2020 11:22:56 GMT -5
grower: Your life clock is ticking away, don't waste all your time. Live some. Jul 24, 2020 9:53:20 GMT -5
fred: blue guy, i was where you are 30 years ago. stayed.................nothing changed. if i didn't love this nice lady so much i'd be in deep regret. if she doesn't think of you in a hundred "other" ways (as does my wife) GET OUT ! Life is short Aug 10, 2020 17:43:15 GMT -5
mirrororchid: Episode 4 of *Refused*, ILIASM's unofficial podcast just released. drive.google.com/file/d/1wX41Xn1Z5fFKEQulCUjXFIECjXAiC7VF/view?usp=sharing Catch episodes 1-3 at the main thread: iliasm.org/thread/4855/podcasts Sept 9, 2020 18:07:38 GMT -5 *
jerri: Yuk on the plucking chicken feathers. If a chicken doesn't get sex and intimacy she just finds a beautiful cock sooner or later. I'd say there's a much higher "philandering" rate than anyone would care to admit. The rooster who is tormented findsa chicken! Sept 10, 2020 8:23:56 GMT -5
csl: And yet, there is an entire segment of ILIASM stayers. Sept 10, 2020 22:04:05 GMT -5
jerri: Exactly :) I have read multiple threads. I was very impressed with all the different solutions everyone has found. Intellectual group and the camaraderie is nice Sept 11, 2020 9:44:57 GMT -5
Handy: What happened to being light outside until 9:30 PM? It is 7:30 PM and dark now. :( Sept 20, 2020 20:46:01 GMT -5
jerri: It's not hot there? I am getting a slight break from the heat! Cheer up buddy! :) Sept 21, 2020 0:27:37 GMT -5
petrushka: Well WE are getting closer to summer. Just passed Equinox. I expect the solar panels will start paying for themselves again in the near future. (over the last few months they have merely mitigated the power bills). Sept 21, 2020 21:00:36 GMT -5