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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 20, 2018 6:57:51 GMT -5
Gone. Moved out 6 months ago and divorce hearing this coming Wednesday. Good for you!!!I am in this process myself and while difficult and at times depressing, it’s also empowering. Best wishes for a speedy divorce. Best wishes to you too.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 19, 2018 21:24:21 GMT -5
I can’t even remember all of the excuses that i heard over the years, but there probably isn’t one that i didn’t hear.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 19, 2018 21:00:13 GMT -5
I can’t bring myself to try out the dating sites. I don’t know if i fear the lack or reception or if i have just given up and don’t care about relationships anymore.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 19, 2018 20:54:22 GMT -5
Gone. Moved out 6 months ago and divorce hearing this coming Wednesday. Good luck brother! Thank you.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 19, 2018 20:51:06 GMT -5
Narcissistic shrew and all around cold bitch. Her self righteousness could make the gods blush. Friend? Not even close.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 19, 2018 20:48:52 GMT -5
Not at all. In fact I think I hate her and i cannot wait until i never have to see her or speak to her again.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 19, 2018 20:46:58 GMT -5
Gone. Moved out 6 months ago and divorce hearing this coming Wednesday.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Oct 18, 2017 9:02:58 GMT -5
Well, a good example of the adage that we get what we allow.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Oct 18, 2017 9:01:08 GMT -5
Absolutely not. She is the problem. Not me. Time to go.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Oct 9, 2017 12:46:34 GMT -5
Nope. Not at all.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Oct 7, 2017 12:17:03 GMT -5
I am not sure where i fall on this. On one hand, i am not inclined to entertain someone who has no passionate interest in me. On the other hand, i have zero interest in immediately launching into a long term commitment.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Oct 7, 2017 12:11:56 GMT -5
I read this today: 10 things every husband wants to hear. 1) You are an awesome man of God. 2) Thanks for being dependable. 3) I Missed You. 4) I'm glad I married you. 5)I appreciate all you do for our family. 6) You where right. I was wrong. 7)I feel safe with you. 8)I admire you. 9)I value your leadership. 10) I believe in you. 11) Thank you for being an amazing provider. I'd be bowled over if I heard any of these. Even just a sincere "thank you" for any task more significant than a cup of coffee. Never heard one of these. Ever. Amusing the shit we are willing to put up with. As for boundaries, my stbx can set them, but doesn't seem to accept that anyone else should have any.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Oct 5, 2017 13:57:15 GMT -5
Caris, your post really resonated with me today. Thank you for your posts. I have become aware that, notwithstanding some of my previous posts where I projected a spirit of gloom and defeat, I am willing to endure what I need to endure at present if only in order to release my resentment. And I find that I have a great deal of resentment. I think that when I have found a way to let this resentment pass away from me, I will have completed this stage and I will then (and likely only then) be ready to move forward.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Sept 20, 2017 8:11:33 GMT -5
My stbx lacked empathy of any sort for me. But she claimed to be empathetic and that i was the one lacking. Empathy for everyone else maybe ...
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Post by novembercomingfire on Sept 20, 2017 8:09:53 GMT -5
I speculate that the first one, "Honesty", would have prevented my marriage in the first place. Amen. This.
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