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78 3,241 Divorce or not
by workingonit
Jan 18, 2020 23:21:07 GMT -5
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Seek and offer support in dealing with a sexless marriage.

1,783 53,126 Lingerie, never worn
by workingonit
Jan 20, 2020 11:51:59 GMT -5
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Resource for trying to fix a sexless marriage... or getting out of one.

309 3,052 How to leave an abuser
by northstarmom
Jan 20, 2020 20:51:07 GMT -5
No New Posts Choosing to Stay

Focusing on the challenges of staying in a sexless marriage. Share advice, pitfalls, successes, and setbacks.

61 1,326 Creating me some "My Space"
by padgemi
Jan 20, 2020 4:14:42 GMT -5
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For those who have "escaped": share your experiences both positive and negative.

524 11,359 Post-sep: Did your spouse stay celibate?
by whynotm3
Jan 19, 2020 20:29:10 GMT -5
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Parenting or financial issues compounding your marital issues? Discuss here.

187 3,147 Husband wants to live seperate
by saarinista
Jan 13, 2020 19:55:20 GMT -5
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The best advice for dealing with an SM from around the web -- reposted here to preserve the wit and wisdom.

44 400 Worst of the web? Advice on eHarmony
by northstarmom
Dec 27, 2019 13:44:57 GMT -5
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Sometime it helps to make light of the situation: humor is a great healer!

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Frank talk about sex; accounts of sexual experiences -- actual or fictional.

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Open chat about non-marital topics. (No politics, though.)

480 13,293 Song of the day
by deadzone75
Jan 20, 2020 0:15:59 GMT -5


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petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there. Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label. Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar. Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5 *
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works. Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5 *
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worksforme2: Happy birthday out for those fires... Nov 24, 2019 13:20:40 GMT -5
worksforme2: Happy Thanksgiving to all,....take care not to eat too much turkey today. Save some to make turkey pot pie for between the 2 holidays. Nov 28, 2019 7:07:37 GMT -5
nyctos: Lucky me. I had W policing my food intake during the holiday. Dec 1, 2019 21:40:35 GMT -5
worksforme2: My dog does most of the policing during the holidays. Drop some turkey or ham, don't worry about it. It will be gone before you can look down. Dec 24, 2019 13:49:37 GMT -5
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worksforme2: Well it's 1am. I was sleeping soundly until an hour ago and then all the fireworks and guns stared going off. Jan 1, 2020 1:06:02 GMT -5
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