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by warmways
Feb 6, 2020 17:15:54 GMT -5
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Seek and offer support in dealing with a sexless marriage.

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by nyctos
Feb 20, 2020 21:36:34 GMT -5
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Resource for trying to fix a sexless marriage... or getting out of one.

312 3,066 podcast discussion of low libido in long relationships
by Handy
Feb 20, 2020 1:38:13 GMT -5
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Focusing on the challenges of staying in a sexless marriage. Share advice, pitfalls, successes, and setbacks.

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by tooyoungtobeold
Feb 20, 2020 16:33:05 GMT -5
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For those who have "escaped": share your experiences both positive and negative.

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by greatcoastal
Feb 19, 2020 20:44:03 GMT -5
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Parenting or financial issues compounding your marital issues? Discuss here.

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by saarinista
Jan 13, 2020 19:55:20 GMT -5
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The best advice for dealing with an SM from around the web -- reposted here to preserve the wit and wisdom.

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by sadkat
Feb 6, 2020 15:08:22 GMT -5
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Sometime it helps to make light of the situation: humor is a great healer!

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by lessingham
Feb 18, 2020 10:04:03 GMT -5


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apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label. Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
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