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Post by 3000more on Oct 18, 2016 15:28:05 GMT -5
I'd like to give you a big enough sample, Smartkat. 🎉😂😂😂😂
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Post by 3000more on Oct 18, 2016 15:25:46 GMT -5
I Google, and ask questions. Remember the guy I briefly dated in Sept., and worried about whether I should end it? I had so much trouble just getting basic information out of him. Like his last name and the company where he worked. That was one of the things that made me nervous about him. For me, it's usually very easy to get people talking. They tell me all kinds of things. So, getting basic info out of this guy was like pulling teeth - and that's a very unfamiliar situation for me, and it tripped my red-flag sensors. He might have been a perfectly OK guy; I guess I'll never know, now. (After I told him the whole thing was moving too fast for my comfort, he didn't contact me again.) I've got enough stress in my life already, without the stress of trying to override my own "not so fast" signals, in order to keep a man around. It may be true that I'm too slow. But at this point, I don't think I've got a big enough sample size to decide if that's true.
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Post by 3000more on Oct 2, 2016 15:37:46 GMT -5
Happy Belated Birthday
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Post by 3000more on Sept 30, 2016 15:12:05 GMT -5
What if it would have been just the tip? Is that really sex ?
Just kidding, just kidding, just kissing!
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Post by 3000more on Sept 27, 2016 18:09:04 GMT -5
Body builders, ugh. I admire a fit man that lives a healthy lifestyle, but it isn't necessary for attraction. I guess you'd call me sapiosexual. Intelligence and creativity is the biggest turn on. I agree. I'm a sapiosexual too. I told that to a man on a dating website. He responded with, "I don't know what that is but is it like a sinophile?" I thought - if he doesn't have enough curiosity in him to look it up then I'm not interested. I never responded. A smart creative man is the best!! And who knows his knot tying! bada bing...here all night
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Post by 3000more on Sept 19, 2016 19:01:32 GMT -5
Wow, I don't think you will be "resting" for long. I don't know you, but a Big Brained, Strong Legged woman with Big Lungs and Ambition who enjoys Sex sounds like a treasure chest full of gold.
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Post by 3000more on Aug 24, 2016 19:10:34 GMT -5
Damn, I just crossed my legs and winced. 18 punches! How did he stand up for so long? I am going to have nightmares about this for years! But I can see how it would feel good to do this as a payback for the weasel loser. Hope he's wearing a steel cup! Now that's hitting below the belt! Or there is no dick!
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Post by 3000more on Aug 17, 2016 18:12:11 GMT -5
If he cares about the love and respect of his children, there will be a club like Fred Flintstone had, that will whack this bastard upside the head in the not too distant future. I know it doesn't help the immediate pain and suffering, for which you have many sympathies, but it will whack him eventually. You'll be living the dream when he gets his. Unfortunately sometimes karma takes a while but it always comes around. Take solace in knowing that.
I'm watching that exact scenario play out with my own brother. His ex wife did the right thing and has taken care of the sons well for a couple of years. Their life is not luxurious but it's good and stable and peaceful, and dip-shit husband/father who owes $50K that he hasn't paid met the sheriff at the door the other day with a locksmith. He left with a suitcase and now has to ask the realtor to let him in to get his shit. ha ha ha ha ha...couldn't be happier for the dumbass to be homeless and having to ask someone he doesn't know for access to get anything.
It took a while but KARMA is now kicking his ass all the way down the street. The same thing will happen to your shithead. Won't look or smell the same but you'll be sipping a glass of wine on the back deck with your kids discussing all of the great things they have done in school and sports lately and he'll be somewhere crying like a little baby.
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Post by 3000more on Aug 15, 2016 14:46:04 GMT -5
Same story, different woman here. After being told that's silly or laughed at, you quit because as strong as you may be, each little cut makes the wound deeper.....
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Post by 3000more on Aug 6, 2016 15:33:56 GMT -5
Helloooooo Left field called, they want Larry back!
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Post by 3000more on Aug 4, 2016 18:13:04 GMT -5
Anecdote. A friend of mine - my age - has a tumultuous relationship with his step daughter. On what I hear, she is a parasite, and plays her mother (my friends wife) like a piano (and on what I have actually observed this is a pretty accurate label) The step daughter moved from the city to here about a year ago, ostenstensibly because country living would be good for her 2 kids - but I think in reality because it would be easier to sponge off her mother at closer distance. - My friend made a big statement. - "If she moves up here, I am moving out" - The daughter duly moved up here. - Then he said to his missus - "They are not going to be hanging around here all day every day or I am outta here" and he and his missus agreed that they could come over every Sunday. And in the meantime they helped her with her rent etc etc and to get settled in. - Within a fortnight the 'every Sunday' had turned in to every second day. "If this continues, I am outta here" - my friend said. And duly, every second day became 2 days out of every 3, the daughter sponging off the mother, which by default puts my friend in a position of subsidising the daughters indolent lifestyle. - "I'm fucking sick of it" - he was telling me the other day when we went for a ride. "Want an opinion ?" - I asked. "Nup" - he said - adding "I know what your opinion would be". - It is a very interesting dynamic this one. There are all sorts of ways one could apportion out the blame here (not that there is any point in so doing), and everyone would be wearing their fair share of it. Naturally, I am sympathetic to my friends position, but that doesn't absolve him of his role in the picture. I like his missus too, but she has a fair bit of ownership in the picture as well. The daughter, I don't like, and that probably colours my view of her part in the picture, so I'll not advance an opinion about her conduct. - I do however think that my friend would do well to consult a lawyer in our jurisdiction and establish how a divorce would shake out for him. It would be a smart idea for his missus to do so as well. The dynamic shows every sign of going guts up, (and I'd be betting at the instigation of my friends missus, who seems far more invested in her daughter and grandkids than she is in the marriage) probably sooner rather than later. I'd bet good money that you hit the nail on the head with this one, "who seems far more invested in her daughter and grandkids than she is in the marriage) probably sooner rather than later."
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Post by 3000more on Aug 4, 2016 17:50:51 GMT -5
What, you mean you didn't speak in Iambic Pentameter in high school? Or soliloquy in the cafeteria? I gave many a soliloquy in the cafeteria. Not that anyone listened. Although there was that time I jumped on the table and screamed "No one cares about what type of car your father brought you, you spoiled little fucking loser!" Thus began the legendary "cafeteria beat-down". (note to self- long haired metal heads shouldn't take on four football players.) On the plus side -I now know when it's going to rain because my knee still hurts. yeah. so that happened. But I regret nothing. hahahahahahahaha...that is some funny shit
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Post by 3000more on Jul 29, 2016 14:14:33 GMT -5
Well, the first and most common place is in your past. Old flames are the most common affair known to man -- or women. The second most probable place is definitely work. Sure that doesn't work for everyone. Personally, I don't work in a field with lots of women, and there are no women in my company. But I've seen it many times. I used to say that was off limits -- and as a younger man, I wouldn't even date legitimately at work. But, desperate times call for desperate measures. Caution and discretion is required here. Then there's definitely Ashley Madison. I've not tried it, but there are at least two WOMEN on this forum that I know of that have done it successfully. Yes, they're women, but they found MEN. Nice well rounded men with good communication skills and a plan. I wouldn't completely discount Craigslist. Way back when I tried it, and found what might have turned into affairs had I not thought better of it. Not thought better of Craigslist, but of the whole affair dealio. Again, you may have to experiment some and learn what works. Make sure your bait is fresh. Stale depressed bait only catches carp. You don't want to eat that. You know, as I think of it, finding women -- as a single man or a married man -- is a whole lot like fishing or hunting. I think the first thing you have to do is decide if you're a fisherman or a hunter. If you're a hunter, all you have to do is find the women. Once you've found them, it's just a matter of bagging her. This is only for the serious lumberjacks. If you're a fisherman, you still have to find them, but then you have to develop and fine tune your game. You have to decide whether or not you'll be using live bait or artificial. If you've got no live bate, you'll have to use artificial. You might even have to use some chum. Depending on what you're fishing for, you'll have to decide if you're going to be setting a trot line, trolling, casting to a very specific location, or jigging. All of these techniques work, but they catch different fish. Regardless of whether or not you're fishing or hunting, you have to define your quarry. Are you hunting for meat or a trophy. Different techniques apply to both. What were we talking about again? "Stale depressed bait only catches carp. You don't want to eat that."
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Post by 3000more on Jul 25, 2016 17:08:14 GMT -5
rankly, I see why people just roll over and take it for 10, 20, 30, 40 more years.
Or don't (hehe) - hang in there!
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Post by 3000more on Jul 20, 2016 18:45:03 GMT -5
I wish her all the best for a successful treatment and recovery. Goddamn motherfucking cancer!
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