missinhard
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A mistake repeated more than once is a decision.
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Post by missinhard on Aug 23, 2016 21:55:59 GMT -5
The house sold after the third viewing and first full day on the market!! Can't wait for this to be over and never have to deal with him again.
He confirmed he's moving in with her. No surprise. I knew he would. He found someone who has no self-esteem, is desperate for any kind of attention, has a house and he can once again, jump in and use her because he sure can't do it on his own. I can't believe I wasted so much time on such a weak and pathetic man.
Once I don't have to deal with him anymore I'll be so happy and can truly move on with my life in a healthy, well-adjusted, independent way.
I know I'll get there but he just makes me want to punch him in face every time I see his stupid fucking face.
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Post by unmatched on Aug 23, 2016 21:59:18 GMT -5
I did post this once before somewhere else, but I thought you might need it today!
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Post by baza on Aug 23, 2016 22:13:51 GMT -5
This is a landmark in the process for sure Ms inhard. - Hopefully it is going to mean reduced contact between you two and the less you hear of his tales of derring do with the cashed up librarian. - And the beginning of your story from here on in. - Remember your 17 August mantra ?? Chant it. Often.
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Post by wewbwb on Aug 24, 2016 8:48:39 GMT -5
I know I'll get there but he just makes me want to punch him in face every time I see his stupid fucking face. Stupid "non-fucking" face. (Sorry I couldn't resist)
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Post by Deleted on Aug 24, 2016 10:49:35 GMT -5
I did post this once before somewhere else, but I thought you might need it today! Damn, I just crossed my legs and winced. 18 punches! How did he stand up for so long? I am going to have nightmares about this for years! But I can see how it would feel good to do this as a payback for the weasel loser.
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Post by greatcoastal on Aug 24, 2016 11:02:53 GMT -5
I did post this once before somewhere else, but I thought you might need it today! Damn, I just crossed my legs and winced. 18 punches! How did he stand up for so long? I am going to have nightmares about this for years! But I can see how it would feel good to do this as a payback for the weasel loser. Hope he's wearing a steel cup! Now that's hitting below the belt!
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Post by greatcoastal on Aug 24, 2016 11:14:36 GMT -5
The house sold after the third viewing and first full day on the market!! Can't wait for this to be over and never have to deal with him again. He confirmed he's moving in with her. No surprise. I knew he would. He found someone who has no self-esteem, is desperate for any kind of attention, has a house and he can once again, jump in and use her because he sure can't do it on his own. I can't believe I wasted so much time on such a weak and pathetic man. Once I don't have to deal with him anymore I'll be so happy and can truly move on with my life in a healthy, well-adjusted, independent way. I know I'll get there but he just makes me want to punch him in face every time I see his stupid fucking face. Yeah for you!! I see lots of potential for happy ness in your post! The house is sold, a big burden removed! Good bye old memories hello fresh start! he's moving. Great! Zip code therapy! No longer your concern or problems. Find a divorce recovery group, google meetup.com, start slowly interacting with others. Contact me in a year, after my divorce. Come down to Cape Canaveral Fl. Let's go on a Disney cruise! Try to turn that anger into laughter. Laugh in his face every time you see him by telling him about things you are doing for yourself, with his money! Yes you will get there. Time heals wounds.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 24, 2016 17:02:10 GMT -5
That's great news! Definitely, the less contact the better. Distance helps - at this point, I can honestly say I don't really give a crap about anything my ex is doing unless it directly affects my kids or me. You'll get there, it just takes some time.
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Post by 3000more on Aug 24, 2016 19:10:34 GMT -5
Damn, I just crossed my legs and winced. 18 punches! How did he stand up for so long? I am going to have nightmares about this for years! But I can see how it would feel good to do this as a payback for the weasel loser. Hope he's wearing a steel cup! Now that's hitting below the belt! Or there is no dick!
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Post by ted on Aug 24, 2016 20:05:01 GMT -5
That's great news! Definitely, the less contact the better. Distance helps - at this point, I can honestly say I don't really give a crap about anything my ex is doing unless it directly affects my kids or me. You'll get there, it just takes some time. For me, who has yet to divorce, it is so hard to believe this will be true.
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