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Verdict! May 6, 2017 11:32:23 GMT -5

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Post by tamara68 on May 6, 2017 11:32:23 GMT -5

May 6, 2017 11:05:06 GMT -5 hopingforachange said:

Hum, does your stbx have a car? Does toy daughter know how to drive yet? If not, maybe see if she wants to learn how to drive?

No he doesn't and she is not old enough yet to start with driving lessons. And even if she were old enough, he wouldn't let her.

TMD Senior Members Posts: 669 Age Range: 41-45	Verdict! May 6, 2017 13:26:07 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TMD on May 6, 2017 13:26:07 GMT -5 Can she at least access a school counselor once she's back there?
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tamara68 Senior Members If it can't get worse, it can only get better Posts: 2,524 Age Range: 46-50	Verdict! May 7, 2017 0:10:36 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by tamara68 on May 7, 2017 0:10:36 GMT -5 May 6, 2017 13:26:07 GMT -5 TMD said: Can she at least access a school counselor once she's back there? Possible but she won't go there by herself. She knows daddy doesn't want that

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Verdict! May 7, 2017 8:58:05 GMT -5 via mobile

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Post by TMD on May 7, 2017 8:58:05 GMT -5

@tamara, when she's in school, call the counselor to let them know she may need support.

Not the same, but my preteen did something stupid that was related to school. I wasn't sure how to handle it; the counselor had good ideas, and she and I came up with an action plan to help my daughter take responsibility without being shamed. And my daughter has no idea that I called the counselor.

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