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Post by tamara68 on Mar 14, 2017 16:02:45 GMT -5
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Post by baza on Mar 14, 2017 18:13:35 GMT -5
It would seem that the judge has ruled with equity and a level of compassion. And soon, you'll have finalised your relationship with your spouse, and be building a new relationship with your daughter in light of the new circumstances. And God knows what other adventures. Pretty exciting stuff coming up Sister tamara68, and you are going to go just great at it all. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Mar 14, 2017 18:31:13 GMT -5
Sounds like the healing has begun!
Enjoy this moment of victory! Continue to take steps forward with your daughter.
Any thoughts on your Ex's reaction? What kind of crazy rhetoric will he pump into your daughter? Sadly that can all be in your favor. What may seem bad in the short run can turn out to be a big plus in the long run. Your ex's behavior and your daughter witnessing it.
You have handled this extremely well. YOU DESERVE IT!
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Post by nancyb on Mar 14, 2017 20:24:41 GMT -5
Good news indeed.  |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 15, 2017 4:19:42 GMT -5
It would seem that the judge has ruled with equity and a level of compassion. And soon, you'll have finalised your relationship with your spouse, and be building a new relationship with your daughter in light of the new circumstances. And God knows what other adventures. Pretty exciting stuff coming up Sister tamara68 , and you are going to go just great at it all. Progress, I am very glad about it. I am ready to go on adventure preparing for getting my first car now! And more will happen |
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Post by wewbwb on Mar 15, 2017 5:37:07 GMT -5
It would seem that the judge has ruled with equity and a level of compassion. And soon, you'll have finalised your relationship with your spouse, and be building a new relationship with your daughter in light of the new circumstances. And God knows what other adventures. Pretty exciting stuff coming up Sister tamara68 , and you are going to go just great at it all. Progress, I am very glad about it. I am ready to go on adventure preparing for getting my first car now! And more will happen I think an international trip would be a great why to celebrate! |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 15, 2017 6:43:59 GMT -5
I think an international trip would be a great why to celebrate! Any suggestions?? |
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Post by wewbwb on Mar 15, 2017 9:55:06 GMT -5
I think an international trip would be a great why to celebrate! Any suggestions?? Yes.... <----- |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 15, 2017 10:23:09 GMT -5
Any suggestions?? Yes.... <----- I have no doubts about your warm welcome  lol |
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Post by lakeside4003 on Mar 15, 2017 12:41:09 GMT -5
justice (sometimes) prevails! you go girl!!
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Post by McRoomMate on Mar 16, 2017 3:13:52 GMT -5
Very encouraging for me to read your progress and success. I am at the Pre-Talk Phase but gearing up and preparing.
ALL THE BEST and CONGRATULATIONS!
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Post by greatcoastal on Mar 16, 2017 6:49:09 GMT -5
So how did he take it? What's his latest behavior?
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 16, 2017 8:40:36 GMT -5
So how did he take it? What's his latest behavior? Last weekend, so before receiving the verdict, He has sent a few e-mails. One of them with a short summary of all the bad things I do. Telling me that I am seriously in default for not paying enough. I have not heard from him since the verdict. Last month I have paid his rent for the last time. And also some other bills. I think it is good to have a clear moment to stop paying. And that is now. Going to discuss with my lawyer about what next. A lot of bills are still on my name. Problem is that it takes stubborn X's approval to transfer things on his name. And even if it would be no problem financially, any form of cooperation from him is highly unlikely. I have spoken with the youth care lady today. She is going to talk further with my daughter. She will try to help restauring contact between my daughter and me, but that will be difficult for sure. |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 16, 2017 8:41:26 GMT -5
Very encouraging for me to read your progress and success. I am at the Pre-Talk Phase but gearing up and preparing. ALL THE BEST and CONGRATULATIONS! Thanks! good luck with your preparations. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Mar 16, 2017 8:58:36 GMT -5
So how did he take it? What's his latest behavior? Last weekend, so before receiving the verdict, He has sent a few e-mails. One of them with a short summary of all the bad things I do. Telling me that I am seriously in default for not paying enough. I have not heard from him since the verdict. Last month I have paid his rent for the last time. And also some other bills. I think it is good to have a clear moment to stop paying. And that is now. Going to discuss with my lawyer about what next. A lot of bills are still on my name. Problem is that it takes stubborn X's approval to transfer things on his name. And even if it would be no problem financially, any form of cooperation from him is highly unlikely. I have spoken with the youth care lady today. She is going to talk further with my daughter. She will try to help restauring contact between my daughter and me, but that will be difficult for sure. More and more proof that you made the right choice! You are slowly getting what you deserve , needed, and wanted. Now comes the heeling process! Please include us in that as you go through it. My STBX's latest stunt has been to fire her 2nd attorney. After it was decided by both of us and a judge that another go at mediation would happen. No one is returning my attorney's calls for 2 weeks now. I asked her ( my attorney) yesterday, who is this new attorney? She said, "I don't even have a name yet, no one is returning any messages." Sounds like my STBX is getting more advice from her sister. Her sisters ex (so she claims) strung things along and drained her of her funding so she couldn't pay her attorney. I have trouble believing that could happen. My expenses are very low, I am going to make it through the delay tactic, financially. It's just the mental part of it, the un-known limbo that is the most frustrating. It keeps the kids in that limbo stage too. Another one just got there licence. W eare going to have to get another vehicle. They all deserve the same fair and equal treatment. The money is there, but the un-known of the dividing of money and power, keeps things in limbo. While I have been ready from day one to put all the cards on the table and get it over with. I hope things don't get delayed long with your daughter. |
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