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Post by lyn on Mar 16, 2017 11:03:34 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Mar 16, 2017 20:18:37 GMT -5
That's good news! For a while it sounded like he would be a financial drain on you for the rest of the foreseeable future.
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Post by leifericson on Mar 17, 2017 5:38:27 GMT -5
Congratulations! Soon he will be homeless and you will have full custody.
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 17, 2017 7:05:52 GMT -5
That's good news! For a while it sounded like he would be a financial drain on you for the rest of the foreseeable future. He will still be a financial drain in some time, because when he is going to be evicted, there will be a lot of costs involved. Due rent for the last months, a vine, moving, legal costs etc. As well as there will be bills for a lot of things he can't pay. I can't get my name of those bills withoug his cooperation. This all will be dealt with in coourt and eventually a calculation will be made about deviding assets. But since we don't have any posessions other that the content of the family living, it will be a dividing of debts. it is hard to make an estimation, but I guess it will add up to 5000 to 8000 euro. In september the divorce will be finalized. Final calculations will be made so there is a possibility that the allowance I have to pay for stbx will be higher / different. It is very difficult to estimate how much I am going to lose. In the end there will be not much left most likely. |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 17, 2017 7:08:43 GMT -5
Congratulations! Soon he will be homeless and you will have full custody. It is not sure what is going to happen. The youth care lady didn't have that much hope. Because my daughter has turned 16 recently. In general they don't force children of that age to go to a parent when they don't want to. It would be awful if my daughter would stay with him. |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 17, 2017 15:07:31 GMT -5
Just received an e-mail from stbx. He thinks that the court decision is illegal and unlawful and he is thinking about going to appeal.
Unless I am willing to agree with him on his terms. (He didn't clarify those terms yet)
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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2017 15:41:00 GMT -5
Just received an e-mail from stbx. He thinks that the court decision is illegal and unlawful and he is thinking about going to appeal. Unless I am willing to agree with him on his terms. (He didn't clarify those terms yet) This is pretty typical. I assume your lawyer will handle this if he actually files an appeal. I don't know about Europe, but here, you cannot appeal until there has been a final decision. As for your daughter, it is hard to imagine him getting custody of her when he cannot support her. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Mar 17, 2017 15:42:04 GMT -5
Just received an e-mail from stbx. He thinks that the court decision is illegal and unlawful and he is thinking about going to appeal. Unless I am willing to agree with him on his terms. (He didn't clarify those terms yet) Hopefully he is just digging a deeper hole for himself. He's really helping your case, but he is too arrogant to ever realize it. Just more ammo for full custody on your side, hopefully. TUNE IN TOMORROW FOR ANOTHER SELFISH ADVENTURE OF "" ARROGANT MAN""! |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 17, 2017 16:08:22 GMT -5
Just received an e-mail from stbx. He thinks that the court decision is illegal and unlawful and he is thinking about going to appeal. Unless I am willing to agree with him on his terms. (He didn't clarify those terms yet) This is pretty typical. I assume your lawyer will handle this if he actually files an appeal. I don't know about Europe, but here, you cannot appeal until there has been a final decision. As for your daughter, it is hard to imagine him getting custody of her when he cannot support her. If I understand it correctly, he can appeal within a month after the decision. So he can do this if he wants to. Anyway, I let my lawyer deal with it. I think it is likely that I get custody, but as several people have told me, that is not enough to get my daughter to live with me. If my daughter says she wants to live with her dad, they won't force her. The problem is, that she is withdrawing. She is not capable of forming an independent opinion. Because she is constantly being indoctrinated by her dad. |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 17, 2017 16:09:47 GMT -5
Just received an e-mail from stbx. He thinks that the court decision is illegal and unlawful and he is thinking about going to appeal. Unless I am willing to agree with him on his terms. (He didn't clarify those terms yet) Hopefully he is just digging a deeper hole for himself. He's really helping your case, but he is too arrogant to ever realize it. Just more ammo for full custody on your side, hopefully. TUNE IN TOMORROW FOR ANOTHER SELFISH ADVENTURE OF "" ARROGANT MAN""! yes, he is been making things worse for himself all the time. but getting custody will not be enough in itself to effectively get my daughter out of there. |
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 31, 2017 5:25:44 GMT -5
Stbx has sent an other e-mail. He claims he can't provide for himself, so I just have to pay for him according to him. He is going to demand more money via the judge. We'll see. I am nervous about it.
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Post by nancyb on Mar 31, 2017 5:29:14 GMT -5
tamara68: So sorry you are going through this rollercoaster ride. I pray the end is soon in sight for you. xo
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Post by tamara68 on Mar 31, 2017 7:07:26 GMT -5
tamara68: So sorry you are going through this rollercoaster ride. I pray the end is soon in sight for you. xo Thanks Nancy, I hope it won't take too long before things are finally sorted out. Every time I see his name in my mailbox, I cringe. |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 31, 2017 7:19:10 GMT -5
Stbx has sent an other e-mail. He claims he can't provide for himself, so I just have to pay for him according to him. He is going to demand more money via the judge. We'll see. I am nervous about it. Just forward that email to your lawyer. Just because that's what he wants means absolutely nothing. |
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Post by GeekGoddess on Mar 31, 2017 7:23:47 GMT -5
He is awful. I believe the judge has probably "seen it all" though & hopefully sees right through his tactics.
On the accounts still in your name, if he won't agree to transfer into his name, I would try just canceling & turning off services (I assume this is utilities or satellite service or whatnot). When he has to go without electricity for a day, he'll be calling to get it turned on & then he will be stuck with whatever setup fees apply.
I'm not sure what a lawyer would say about that, but I would ask about it. No way should you still have your name on service for his care & feeding!
Still - I know that the "appeal! Appeal!" Approach is not helping your state of mind. Try not to let it worry you too much. Hang in there, with patience, knowing that he is NOT smarter than the courts. He will get his come-uppance when the rulings are done.
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