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Post by novembercomingfire on Nov 22, 2016 12:20:59 GMT -5
Absolutely not. Not once.
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Post by wewbwb on Nov 22, 2016 12:41:44 GMT -5
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Post by iceman on Nov 22, 2016 12:42:27 GMT -5
No. over the years we've had sex around the holidays but it wasn't a regular thing. Back in the day there were three days I could reliably expect sex. Our wedding anniversary, her birthday, and my birthday. One by one they've all fallen by the wayside. The anniversary sex was the last to go. When we didn't have sex on our anniversary the first time and there was no mention of it I knew our pathetic sex life was truly over. That was 2 years ago.
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Post by cagedtiger on Nov 22, 2016 14:33:47 GMT -5
I think the only reason i got laid when I did last year (December 30th) was because she knew i was upset street my grandmother's funeral. We'd been on a mini-vacation before that in one of the most romantic cities in the South, seeing a band we'd both grown up on (our first dance was to one of their songs, that they played), and ask it had been before that was fights and meltdowns.
I'm not counting on anything this year, even though she's in full on "gotta be super affectionate to keep him around" mode at the moment.
Nor do I want anything from her.
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Post by cagedtiger on Nov 22, 2016 14:40:01 GMT -5
I was just wondering. I've heard over the years that the spouses 'treated' them with a gift on those days. My H and I have never been a couple that targeted Birthdays or Holidays when we were intimate, when we were active. For whatever reasons he gets his sex drive when we are on vacation. Craziest thing ever. Mine has actually apologized to me, in an offhand matter, that i won't be getting anything in my birthday/ New Years/ Christmas. And vacations the last couple of years have meant "I'm going to watch HGTV and complain about bring tired and not feeling well and you should go get me takeout food and bring it back before i fall asleep in the other bed in the hotel room. " |
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Post by becca on Nov 22, 2016 14:53:41 GMT -5
There was never guaranteed holiday sex. For a long time, I could count on sex when we traveled with his work. We stayed in some pretty nice hotels/resorts and I somehow managed to entice him enough then. About 12 or so years ago we were staying at the Breakers in Palm Beach with a view to die for in a luxurious suite. We had sex the first night and he then told me that if I kept hounding him for sex, he would have to leave me home next time. Wow. If I could go back, I would burst into laughter and say, "Are you serious?!"
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Post by greatcoastal on Nov 22, 2016 15:14:20 GMT -5
Holiday sex? That should be re-named sexless excuse day!
House needs cleaning
Relatives at the house.
Sleeping at relatives house.
Travel time.
Traveling with kids.
Kids all in our room.
Putting out presents after the last one goes to bed.
Still wrapping presents.
Exhausted from all that travelling and work.
Phone calls to make, emails to send.
Hmm... We are talking 5 ..yrs ago, and before that once a year for 10 yrs. I vaguely remember, it might have been on my birthday.
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Post by bballgirl on Nov 22, 2016 16:59:49 GMT -5
I knew a man who was married and he's currently separated, but he would go out shopping for Christmas for his wife - buy her jewelry, clothes, and other things. Spend lots of money because he would get his once a year blow job.
it was very sad to me. He was active on EP but he abruptly left Spring of 2015 because his wife found the account and read all of his stories. He and I were friends and we recently got back in touch on FB. He is in the process of divorce and looking forward to freedom where blow jobs are free.
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Post by JonDoe on Nov 22, 2016 17:03:36 GMT -5
Do you usually get lucky around/or on the holidays? Your yearly sex? Generally, no, not in this relationship. For the past ten years, it dropped to zero between November 1 - March 1 every year, like clockwork. No. over the years we've had sex around the holidays but it wasn't a regular thing. Back in the day there were three days I could reliably expect sex. Our wedding anniversary, her birthday, and my birthday. One by one they've all fallen by the wayside. The anniversary sex was the last to go. When we didn't have sex on our anniversary the first time and there was no mention of it I knew our pathetic sex life was truly over. That was 2 years ago. My wife was actually shocked a few years ago when I said there was an unwritten expectation that physical intimacy will occur on birthdays. She was completely baffled at the idea of sex on Christmas, then she questioned me if I thought Easter was sex day too. The last time we had sex on our anniversary it felt so disconnected for me that I eventually just stopped without saying a word. We haven't had sex since and that was over two years ago. |
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Post by LITW on Nov 22, 2016 17:25:38 GMT -5
um ... not a chance. Like JonDoe, nothing ever happens between Nov and March in my bedroom either. Or on birthdays. At least I realize that so I won't be disappointed when it doesn't happen ...  |
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Post by dancingbear70 on Nov 22, 2016 17:35:39 GMT -5
I knew a man who was married and he's currently separated, but he would go out shopping for Christmas for his wife - buy her jewelry, clothes, and other things. Spend lots of money because he would get his once a year blow job. it was very sad to me. He was active on EP but he abruptly left Spring of 2015 because his wife found the account and read all of his stories. He and I were friends and we recently got back in touch on FB. He is in the process of divorce and looking forward to freedom where blow jobs are free. Did someone say free blowjobs?!?! |
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Post by cagedtiger on Nov 22, 2016 17:42:04 GMT -5
I knew a man who was married and he's currently separated, but he would go out shopping for Christmas for his wife - buy her jewelry, clothes, and other things. Spend lots of money because he would get his once a year blow job. it was very sad to me. He was active on EP but he abruptly left Spring of 2015 because his wife found the account and read all of his stories. He and I were friends and we recently got back in touch on FB. He is in the process of divorce and looking forward to freedom where blow jobs are free. Did someone say free blowjobs?!?! Sigh... I remember that being a thing... |
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Post by jim44444 on Nov 22, 2016 19:52:30 GMT -5
Back when we had an active sex life holidays were never a special treat for sex. Maybe we did, maybe we didn't.
However after her libido crashed the only time I could really plan on sex was during vacation or out of town trips. But now I no longer have hope for those times.
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Post by nancyb on Nov 22, 2016 20:07:10 GMT -5
I used to ask for sex as my only present at Christmas time and I truly meant it. He bought me a vibrator instead.  |
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Post by Isabellas39 on Nov 22, 2016 20:26:19 GMT -5
Holiday or any kind of sex ended about 9 years ago..I have no idea the exact number because I stopped counting....
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