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Post by solodriver on Dec 24, 2016 0:09:11 GMT -5
Do you usually get lucky around the holidays? [br Can you please explain to me what holiday sex is?or sex in general lol! Is that a new app for the IPhone?
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Post by solodriver on Dec 24, 2016 0:15:42 GMT -5
That sums it up for me. OMG Rhapsodee, look at what the lack of sex has turned you into. Wingman, we need to get her to the commune as fast as we can transport.
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Post by ggold on Dec 24, 2016 0:19:54 GMT -5
Can you please explain to me what holiday sex is?or sex in general lol! Is that a new app for the IPhone? [b Ohhhh!! That's what it is!!!! Thanks for the info!!
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Post by solodriver on Dec 24, 2016 0:49:04 GMT -5
Can you please explain to me what holiday sex is?or sex in general lol! You made me laugh 😂 Sex on a holiday, if you're lucky. Should we invent a holiday sex tracker app? Lexus, for our IPhones it only needs 1 digit - 0
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 24, 2016 1:27:29 GMT -5
H and I have been to Paris 4 times and never had sex in the most Romantic place on earth!! WOW!!! You deserve to have your passionate embers stoked, not snuffed out! I'd buy a ticket to Paris right now to spend it with a beautiful, passionate woman! 😍
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Post by angryspartan on Dec 24, 2016 2:30:47 GMT -5
Odds are....nope. However, this year could be different, we'll see. I did lay down the law so to speak by telling her I expect her to wear something sexy as my gift. 10 years is too long to wait for that. It's time she gets over the "i dont like how i look" attitude. Im not getting any younger and I'll be damned if I'm going to peel off ratty pj's for the rest of my life.
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Post by thebaffledking on Dec 24, 2016 2:47:01 GMT -5
What I always wanted........ Where I ended up..... I need my own Clarence this season.........
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Post by callisto on Dec 24, 2016 5:37:52 GMT -5
What I always wanted........ Where I ended up..... I need my own Clarence this season......... [br BK, the people on this forum are perhaps your Clarence. Enable some of us to get our wings by your own vision, volition and belief in yourself.
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Post by Lithium92 on Dec 24, 2016 6:15:52 GMT -5
Hmmm. I think I'd best avoid watching It's A Wonderful Life this, especially in company. I doubt I'd get through it without tears.
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Post by shamwow on Dec 24, 2016 8:29:38 GMT -5
I've always tthought Clarence had a great ass. Best part of the movie IMHO
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Post by DryCreek on Dec 24, 2016 13:40:15 GMT -5
Somehow, this seems fitting here...
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Post by solodriver on Dec 24, 2016 13:43:05 GMT -5
Odds are....nope. However, this year could be different, we'll see. I did lay down the law so to speak by telling her I expect her to wear something sexy as my gift. 10 years is too long to wait for that. It's time she gets over the "i dont like how i look" attitude. Im not getting any younger and I'll be damned if I'm going to peel off ratty pj's for the rest of my life. Good Luck on that my friend.
If I laid down the law she would just laugh at me.
But there may be a time coming when she won't be laughing long.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 25, 2016 1:09:40 GMT -5
Odds are....nope. However, this year could be different, we'll see. I did lay down the law so to speak by telling her I expect her to wear something sexy as my gift. 10 years is too long to wait for that. It's time she gets over the "i dont like how i look" attitude. Im not getting any younger and I'll be damned if I'm going to peel off ratty pj's for the rest of my life. Good Luck on that my friend.
If I laid down the law she would just laugh at me.
But there may be a time coming when she won't be laughing long.
I hope you move forward this Christmas and begin to live a life of freedom. As I was wrapping presents with my wife tonight, we were talking about people breaking up during the Holidays. I said, perhaps they've had enough and decided to give themselves a gift. So I hope for all of you in loveless and sexless marriages that you start to respect yourself. After learning respect for yourself, start expecting respect from your spouses. And if they do not want to meet your needs, then begin your plans to leave this year. Life is fleeting. Life is too precious to waste with a person who is not willing to make you happy. It works both ways of course. If you do the things that make your spouse happy, then they should want to reciprocate.
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Post by iceman on Dec 26, 2016 8:36:47 GMT -5
No. over the years we've had sex around the holidays but it wasn't a regular thing. Back in the day there were three days I could reliably expect sex. Our wedding anniversary, her birthday, and my birthday. One by one they've all fallen by the wayside. The anniversary sex was the last to go. When we didn't have sex on our anniversary the first time and there was no mention of it I knew our pathetic sex life was truly over. That was 2 years ago. Holy hell. Tomorrow is my wedding anniversary. I read your comment and then thought about getting sex on my own anniversary and then made the connection. Of course, I don't really care as it just marks another year of my wasted affections, but I must maintain the high ground and have some sort of gift for the lady of the house so the kids can see. Yeah, anniversaries are the worst. I do the same - maintain the facade for the sake of appearances. She does the same. Absolutely no feeling behind it for either of us.
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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 26, 2016 9:16:48 GMT -5
Holy hell. Tomorrow is my wedding anniversary. I read your comment and then thought about getting sex on my own anniversary and then made the connection. Of course, I don't really care as it just marks another year of my wasted affections, but I must maintain the high ground and have some sort of gift for the lady of the house so the kids can see. Yeah, anniversaries are the worst. I do the same - maintain the facade for the sake of appearances. She does the same. Absolutely no feeling behind it for either of us. Kids see right through that stuff too. As your spouse treats you like someone who has no value to them anymore, your kids can pick up on it. Worse is when they feel little value for themselves, grow up to treat their spouse the same way, or feel forced to choose sides. it doesn't get any better, you (we) are stuck in a double bind. My therapist used that word, (double bind) google it and find some helpful info. about it.
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