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Post by nancyb on Jul 12, 2017 8:03:45 GMT -5
Oops forgot a b bballgirl!
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Post by nancyb on Jul 12, 2017 8:02:49 GMT -5
Thankyou for that article ballgirl. It really speaks to me this morning.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 12, 2017 7:41:19 GMT -5
Greetings to the newcomers. Welcome to the forum. You will find you are amongst friends in various stages of SM and beyond. I hope you find some solace and answers here.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 12, 2017 7:17:11 GMT -5
I don't seem to have any problem picking up guys. My flirting skills are just fine. Its the breaking up that I find hard to do. I keep thinking about the silly old song "There must be 50 ways to leave your lover". LOL
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Post by nancyb on Jul 11, 2017 9:16:06 GMT -5
Its been almost 6 weeks since the move and in that time I have successfully made my new house my home. I arrived through the door last night after work and immediately felt YES this is my place and I'm home. My former spouse and I continue to have a phone chat once a week and last week we had dinner together. At first it was to resolve some of our ongoing legal and financial issues but now we are 2 friends meeting to catch up with each others lives. He's very supportive about my new life as I am for his. I can't believe what a good job we have done navigating through this last year and salvaging a friendship out of the mess of our SM has not been easy or even necessary especially as we don't have children. I am grateful for our time together and ever more grateful to be apart now. I miss some of the financial freedom I had while married but I am working full-time and able to pay my bills and live a fairly comfortable lifestyle so I am fortunate. It feels liberating and a little scary to be going it on my own. I have not been 'single' since I was 15 years old. I married my high school sweetheart and divorced him to go immediately to my second marriage which ended sexlessly after 29 years. I don't have a clue about dating or even how to break up with a guy. LOL So I have appreciated all the support. Truly.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 9, 2017 20:17:05 GMT -5
Did someone mention breasts? ;-) Ya... PIV = penis in vagina. Mmmmmm breasts. Soft, natural, delicious breasts...... Why thank you.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 9, 2017 20:09:28 GMT -5
Sorry can't keep abreast of the acronyms.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 9, 2017 20:08:58 GMT -5
What the heck is PIV? Penis in Vagina sex.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 9, 2017 18:12:07 GMT -5
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Post by nancyb on Jul 8, 2017 12:46:05 GMT -5
Always important to speak your truth. Good for you.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 7, 2017 20:19:58 GMT -5
I was so ashamed of my SM that I didn't even tell my trusted therapist until the marriage blew up. Once I shared with him and he was supportive and empathetic it opened the door to sharing with my sisters.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 7, 2017 18:44:12 GMT -5
Well, awkwardly and with a lot of missteps I have told my present paramour that things aren't working out for me and that I was still too hung up on my marriage to be fair to our new relationship. I refrained from speaking about the poor sexual compatibility or my general sense of ennui. I feel like a heartbreaker. There were some hurled accusations and nastiness.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 7, 2017 13:20:32 GMT -5
I love that selfie idea with your former partner. It rapidly tells everyone else what your new divorced relationship is now about. For me that is luckily friendship and the value of having one more person who has known you for a long time and who still has your back in life. I know I am fortunate. He dumped me but in reality he did me a colossal favour.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 6, 2017 8:01:58 GMT -5
I tried to tell myself that sex wasn't important to me all the while getting more and more depressed and eating my way to satiation.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 5, 2017 19:31:53 GMT -5
Good work Shamwow.
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