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Post by nancyb on Jul 4, 2017 6:39:14 GMT -5
Thankyou for you post of encouragement isoldeblue. I'm only a month out of my SM and its a but daunting at times. Lovely post.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 2, 2017 8:36:53 GMT -5
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Post by nancyb on Jul 2, 2017 7:44:39 GMT -5
Had I been in a fwb deal like Ms enna was, I doubt I would have dumped the fwb like Ms enna did Interesting observation. I am in a FWB arrangement and I see it as a sort of practice relationship. I would however give it up if I felt myself getting attracted to another man. Especially of the caliber of a gentleman such as yourself baza.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 2, 2017 6:44:20 GMT -5
For a woman just like a man its Hell but it's a different kind of Hell. Because of the cultural stigma that men always want sex, for women we feel alone, like we are the only woman on Earth whose husband doesn't want us. Whose husband isn't attracted to us. We feel like something is wrong with us. That's what's it's like, a special kind of Hell. Thankyou bballgirl for so succinctly summing up the situation. You are absolutely correct.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 1, 2017 7:01:04 GMT -5
I vote Key West with Sloppy Joes.
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Post by nancyb on Jul 1, 2017 6:50:21 GMT -5
thecelt: Back when I was still married people used to comment frequently about the depth of our marital bond and the fantastic relationship we had. It was all lies.
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Post by nancyb on Jun 28, 2017 8:05:30 GMT -5
Shamwow: I an finally feeling 'at home' in my new place. Took a good couple of weeks even surrounded by the few possessions I brought with me. I have limited my contact with my former spouse because I found it too hard seeing him for the time being. We send each other emails. I am getting out and exploring the city with some friends and my FWB continues to be mostly a friend with the occasional benefit. Unfortunately his libido does not match mine so I see it being a summer affair. I'm scared and excited at the same time. It does feel like I've come alive again after so long. Good luck!
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Post by nancyb on Jun 28, 2017 7:54:44 GMT -5
Welcome to the forum bigbossfan or should we call you notdeadyet. Regardless welcome to the ILIASM club. Hope you find some comfort and strength here.
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Post by nancyb on Jun 28, 2017 6:51:17 GMT -5
It's so funny. I almost purchased the book you are reading about not giving a fuck and then I realized. I am already there.
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Post by nancyb on Jun 28, 2017 6:49:51 GMT -5
I have just finished reading your most recent - and brilliant - T-Minus post. "Is this the same shamwow who initially posted back in 2016 ?" I asked myself. Wow. Have you got your shit sorted out or what !! Here, here. Way to go Shamwow!! xo
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Post by nancyb on Jun 23, 2017 13:35:49 GMT -5
Welcome to the Forum all newcomers. I hope you find some solace here.
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Post by nancyb on Jun 23, 2017 7:47:31 GMT -5
^^ Indeed.
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Post by nancyb on Jun 22, 2017 7:34:07 GMT -5
LOL Still early days for me....although I left emotionally years ago. I like feeling like I'm alive again and I have a bright future rather than more years of solitude and loneliness within the marriage.
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Post by nancyb on Jun 22, 2017 7:29:07 GMT -5
Thanks for the article northstarmom. I am post menopausal now and hadn't had penetrative intercourse in 14 years. Now that I am having a full on sexual relationship again I am acutely aware of the changes in my vagina. I certainly don't get as wet and my vagina seems shorter somehow. Neither of these things has has anything to do with my desire. I am still as horny as ever. I am using appropriate lubes and a low dose topical estrogen ( when I can remember to use it)
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Post by nancyb on Jun 21, 2017 20:35:51 GMT -5
Yesterday but I am also out of my SM. It was 14 year of celibacy for me.
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