Yesterday I posted on FB a video of my daughter announcing to the world her "contract" with an acting/modeling school/agency. In the video, I had a bit of fun asking about the shoe requirements. She is required to bring high heels (1" minimum) to class. She has always loved high heels and would wear mom's, but only when she's not looking because it is against mom's rules.
So this morning, W starts telling the girls what a "passive aggressive" scum bag I am (loud enough to be sure I could hear from across the house), because I posted a video in direct defiance of her rules. OK. This wasn't about her rules. This was about my daughter getting to wear her own high heels. In my post I never mentioned W or her stupid rules.
There is a lot more to the story, but I'll break here by saying I stood up for myself in several ways including telling her "I'm being accused of being passive aggressive by YOU. Classic."