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Post by skguy on May 13, 2016 16:16:48 GMT -5
Glass
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Post by skguy on May 13, 2016 9:41:58 GMT -5
I think if the right opportunity came along I might go for it. I'd almost prefer another spouse that is frustrated as well, but not necessarily.
I have two female friends I've ended up emailing for different reasons - but strictly platonic. I could easily fall for either of them. I would never cross the line with them but I can feel my strong attraction to them.
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Post by skguy on May 12, 2016 20:14:23 GMT -5
Hello Skguy welcome to the crappest club... But it's full of the best people .... And we all understand xx Thank you eternaloptimism. My eyes have really been opened after just one day of being here. I have to admit that some of the stories on here have really affected me deeply. I haven't had a chance to go back and read everyone's introduction yet, but so far, I've been really moved. There's part of me that wants to help everyone, but that's impossible I know. But I will try and give my full support whenever I can. p.s. I love your user name.
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Post by skguy on May 11, 2016 19:50:19 GMT -5
Hi Elle, I join you in the 8+ club. Not a club I want to be in, but there you go.
I don't know you, but I know you deserve better. Nobody needs to live like that. I'm sure you're an awesome person, and sometime when you get out, you'll find someone so much better.
I know that staying the course is not the best choice. I'm still trying to come to grips with my current reality. I reconnected with a schoolmate from long ago, and her advice is a lot like yours.
You're right about the possible health problems it could cause or will eventually cause.
Your post really sort of hit me hard. You really summed up your situation and I feel for you. Now I just want better for you.
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Post by skguy on May 11, 2016 19:30:40 GMT -5
Thank you lovespirit and Z. It's nice to feel welcomed :-)
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Post by skguy on May 11, 2016 12:16:16 GMT -5
Hi everyone,
Married for 16 years or so. No real intimacy for the last 8+ years. We had some really good sex at different times, but nothing now.
Maybe started with birth of son, but probably deeper issues than that.
Even getting to first base would something to celebrate.
I imagine I'll will just stick it out for the long run, even though I know that's probably not the healthiest of solutions.
Other than this board, I've only told two woman friends about my plight. They've had lots of good suggestions, but I'm currently not expecting much to happen anytime soon.
Anyhow, thought I would give this board a try. I've read a few great posts from some obviously great people.
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