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Post by skguy on Jul 1, 2016 12:20:04 GMT -5
I hope she finds someone lol
You're correct. Never underestimate someone appeal
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Post by skguy on Jul 1, 2016 12:07:08 GMT -5
I sleep in the same bed as my wife. I'd have a better sleep on the floor of my kids room lol
Setting aside the SM I almost wish I slept in a separate bed. My w is a terrible sleeper. Always a problem. Jumpy legs, heartburn, nightmares, hot/cold, etc
Because we sleep in the same bed I have tried to start something. Like kissing, spooning, etc. But all failures. I think she's interested in someone else but has no chance with anyone I would say. She let herself go and I'm not really interested
I just want a good sleep lol
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Post by skguy on Jun 24, 2016 16:32:31 GMT -5
So we finally talked and the reason why he didn't show any care was because he didn't know what to do or how to fix it. He was just happy to go along with whatever I wanted to do. He then said to me that maybe I needed to be with another person since he was the only man I've been with and because I keep complaining about us being intimate. His giving me permission to do so as if our marriage meant nothing. I asked him if the reason he wants me to sleep with someone else is because he wants to sleep if someone else and he said no. Im so confused. That's a tough one. That would seem so confusing. You sort of want permission to go off with someone, but on the other hand, it would be a hard pill to swallow. Makes you question everything.
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Post by skguy on Jun 18, 2016 22:36:33 GMT -5
By the 3rd message all bets are off lol.
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Post by skguy on Jun 18, 2016 13:40:53 GMT -5
I can tell you I have a connection with someone on here. We started with messages and really hit it off. I normally would be private about this, but there have been some posts that might have given it away. You know who you are lol
We decided on some guidelines from the start. We wanted to make sure we're both very comfortable with things we did/said.
I have advice for anyone interested in a female friend on here. Don't send an unsolicited dick pic to start. And don't go too fast. Everyone on here has some pain they're dealing with. Don't make it worse.
I can certainly see how one might fall in love with someone on here. And as far as sex goes, there's variations of that depending on your definition. I've learned to use my imagination again. A few words and instant arousal is amazing. And of course there's other technology as well.
I consider myself very lucky. Some of this has included experiences I missed out on when I was young.
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Post by skguy on Jun 18, 2016 9:27:07 GMT -5
A window of opportunity presented itself back in 2004 or so.
But I had no backbone at the time. I didn't want to rock the boat. I didn't want to be embarrassed or be talked about.
That's always been my problem. Can't make a decision to save my life..literally
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Post by skguy on Jun 13, 2016 20:48:13 GMT -5
I'm not sure if this fits? It's about someone coming to Canada from Scotland and missing their homeland.
Sung by Stan Rogers. Stan died in a plane fire in Cincinnati. Some say he used his booming voice to try to and direct others off the plane before he died.
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Post by skguy on Jun 12, 2016 22:16:03 GMT -5
I haven't met someone from this site up close and personal. But I have one special person on this site who I hope to meet in person.
We share a lot already, and it's almost like we have met. She is very special to me.
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Post by skguy on Jun 9, 2016 22:48:19 GMT -5
My w accepts her diagnosis. She works very hard at trying to be better. She has for a very long time. I wish she didn't have her issues as her brain exhausts her.
She does way better than before but she battles her demons. Other health problems take there toll and it's hard not to have extra issues bring you down
I will admit its been a struggle. Several hospitalizations over the years. I'm not even sure how I cope. I used to make things worse as I'd get frustrated and say stupid things at the worse possible time. Now I try to stay calm and only offer support. I used to give suggestion and tried to fix it all. Sometimes the person just needs someone to listen.
I'm usually just content if we have normal days. I try not to just wait for the other shoe to drop. But I'll admit I quite often do. If I know something stressful is coming up I start to worry about what could go wrong.
I sometimes think I should suck it up and not even focus on the SM part of my marriage. But I do feel I'm missing that. But as I read some stores on here I feel like I shouldn't even complain about my situation. So many on here are hurting so much. It breaks my heart to read their stories.
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Post by skguy on Jun 8, 2016 23:42:14 GMT -5
Congratulations. Way to go.
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Post by skguy on Jun 6, 2016 18:04:08 GMT -5
Yeah! We're doing the public a service! Your public service is much appreciated!!! :-) I think Z and I have picked some up good ideas. We just need willing participants to test the feasibility of ideas.
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Post by skguy on Jun 6, 2016 16:54:47 GMT -5
I am buying the "inexperienced" argument, because I resemble that remark. Some people had a wild time during their college years and during their 20s. skguy and I, clearly did not. Heck girl, I was the designated wingman for my male friends - so I KNOW they didn't view me as a "potential hookup," ggold. Talk about a buzz kill. Even my manslut buds didn't want to sleep with me. LOL Awww! I had them in college and early 20s. Then I got married and the risqué fun ended. :-(. Well, what matters is the present Right??? True. Can't go back. We'll just move forward. Now's the time to let loose.
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Post by skguy on Jun 6, 2016 16:52:46 GMT -5
I'll be your therapy wingman, any day, skguy. We'll be in the "born again virgins" group. That's right. We'll get through it together. We'll share ideas. Then share them with others.
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Post by skguy on Jun 6, 2016 16:34:09 GMT -5
I am buying the "inexperienced" argument, because I resemble that remark. Some people had a wild time during their college years and during their 20s. skguy and I, clearly did not. Heck girl, I was the designated wingman for my male friends - so I KNOW they didn't view me as a "potential hookup," ggold. Talk about a buzz kill. Even my manslut buds didn't want to sleep with me. LOL I will go with the no wild times in my twenties remark. The world would be less populated if everyone had my experiences. Lol I missed out on a lot. Just like Z. We will now seek counselling together. :-)
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Post by skguy on Jun 6, 2016 15:42:55 GMT -5
Y'all are too darn cute, ggold and skguyI'm sure ginkagold is cute. Me not so much. I'm just shy and inexperienced. Topics on this site have shocked me. People do that stuff - or wish they did? Shocking ;-)
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