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Post by JMX on Aug 5, 2016 22:53:00 GMT -5
JMXHowever, i see and have no issue with being a kind supportive faithful loving partner, outside the bedroom and a total perverted freak in the bedroom. That to me is not a contradiction of character. So by understanding that my partner is as smart and insightful with much to contribute in the household, doesn't and shouldn't mean that we can't have freaky sex. Its a balance that empowers us both. Not sure if you've had more to drink than me or vice-Versa - que pasa? |
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Post by DryCreek on Aug 7, 2016 22:08:01 GMT -5
There is a book called the CP factor that we debated a lot in college in a particular class - basically the closer "your people" we're to the equator (hence "colored people or CP) the more prone to emotion you were. Essentially, the more northern your people, the more in tune with "Hunter/gatherer you were, the closer to the equator you were also depicted how you would handle a funeral, for example. The Italians cried and flung themselves on the casket while the British were stalwart and non-emosh. If you have to hunt and gather for the winter, you are likely on time to meetings and show little emotion during tough times. If your food is readily available (arguable) you take your time, don't care about winter and, in the present, you grieve every loss because it is foreign. I could see the idea that Northern living required more structure for survival. Perhaps it might be that so much focus had to be placed on that order of business that it left little time for celebration or mourning. I.e., more emphasis on survival and less on living. But perhaps there is also a simpler factor - clothing. Generally a lot less needed along the equator, leading to a more frank perspective on sexuality. Combined with the above, more indulgence in hedonism. Certainly looking just at latitude doesn't explain cultures like the Middle East, which is starkly different than the Carribbean. Perhaps because they're also in survival mode, but from heat instead of cold? (Religious influences nothwithstanding.) |
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