|
|
Post by JMX on Aug 2, 2016 21:52:55 GMT -5
baza - #8 was my biggest fear for myself. Ha! I even had emojis for it. Forgive if they do not translate here: š°š². That was the closest I could get!
|
|
|
|
Post by JMX on Aug 2, 2016 21:55:41 GMT -5
I am not... Going to be.. Ignooored, Dan.
|
|
|
|
Post by ggold on Aug 3, 2016 9:07:27 GMT -5
I am not... Going to be.. Ignooored, Dan. One of my favorites!! |
|
|
|
Post by dancingbear70 on Aug 3, 2016 11:46:55 GMT -5
I am not... Going to be.. Ignooored, Dan. Every man of a certain age lives in constant fear of the bunny boiler! But risking the bunny boiler for the passion of the elevator scene, or the kitchen sink scene, feels like a risk worth taking! |
|
|
|
Post by unmatched on Aug 3, 2016 17:19:13 GMT -5
I am not... Going to be.. Ignooored, Dan. One of my favorites!! I don't know. The over-riding message of that movie seems to be that you should stay with your stable wife (presumably even if you marriage degenerates to being room-mates) because women who really like sex are all over-emotional and probably psychotic. Please tell me that isn't true!!! |
|
|
|
Post by ggold on Aug 3, 2016 18:19:14 GMT -5
I don't know. The over-riding message of that movie seems to be that you should stay with your stable wife (presumably even if you marriage degenerates to being room-mates) because women who really like sex are all over-emotional and probably psychotic. Please tell me that isn't true!!! You are reading too much into it!! Lol!! Watch out for the boiling bunny!! |
|
|
|
Post by ggold on Aug 3, 2016 18:21:06 GMT -5
I am not... Going to be.. Ignooored, Dan. Every man of a certain age lives in constant fear of the bunny boiler! But risking the bunny boiler for the passion of the elevator scene, or the kitchen sink scene, feels like a risk worth taking! The next thing in the pot would be a dismembered D--k!! Lol |
|
|
|
Post by greatcoastal on Aug 3, 2016 18:35:03 GMT -5
Every man of a certain age lives in constant fear of the bunny boiler! But risking the bunny boiler for the passion of the elevator scene, or the kitchen sink scene, feels like a risk worth taking! The next thing in the pot would be a dismembered D--k!! Lol Somehow, I am glad I've never seen that movie! Throwing myself into the " divorce boiler" will be scary enough! |
|
|
|
Post by DryCreek on Aug 3, 2016 18:50:48 GMT -5
On a side note, I just came back from an attorney's office. They told me there was a conflict of interest? Game changer! Dude, you're kinda fucked here. Not good. You are late to the game. If you can presume they are the attorneys that she has engaged, you best be finding whoever in town has routinely spanked them in court, and be willing to pay whatever they charge. |
|
|
|
Post by greatcoastal on Aug 3, 2016 19:05:20 GMT -5
On a side note, I just came back from an attorney's office. They told me there was a conflict of interest? Game changer! Dude, you're kinda fucked here. Not good. You are late to the game. If you can presume they are the attorneys that she has engaged, you best be finding whoever in town has routinely spanked them in court, and be willing to pay whatever they charge. Did you say I was F...? Don't get my " hopes" up! but seriously, I appreciate your concern! I went to see another attorney that same day. That attorney wanted to know the name. Her response was, " we have worked with her before many times, she is very professional, fair, and easy to work with". Now I guess that's something you would want an attorney to say about another? Not, they are stubborn , impossible, unreasonable, have no experience, etc... I will post this on this thread just to pass along information. I was informed that whoever files first makes no difference at all, doesn't change anything. I wil say that just because my wife spoke with this attorney, she could have gotten advice only. Just like myself. Some people do that as a tactic, so you can't get certain attorneys. However the attorney my wife went to has a good reputable reputation, and is close to her work. The winds are changing. one source I do have is my therapist. He has testified in numerous child cases and knows the local attorneys. I am using his recommendations. |
|
|
|
Post by DryCreek on Aug 3, 2016 19:11:13 GMT -5
greatcoastal, "easy to work with" is something you want to hear about the other team's lawyer. "Tenacious, creative, clever, and sly" are qualities you might hope to hear about yours. Perhaps even "pitbull, asshole, bastard", if you like to fight dirty. I'd look for someone who has experience working with a forensic accountant, not just child custody.
|
|
|
|
Post by bballgirl on Aug 3, 2016 19:14:13 GMT -5
Dude, you're kinda fucked here. Not good. You are late to the game. If you can presume they are the attorneys that she has engaged, you best be finding whoever in town has routinely spanked them in court, and be willing to pay whatever they charge. Did you say I was F...? Don't get my " hopes" up! but seriously, I appreciate your concern! I went to see another attorney that same day. That attorney wanted to know the name. Her response was, " we have worked with her before many times, she is very professional, fair, and easy to work with". Now I guess that's something you would want an attorney to say about another? Not, they are stubborn , impossible, unreasonable, have no experience, etc... I will post this on this thread just to pass along information. I was informed that whoever files first makes no difference at all, doesn't change anything. I wil say that just because my wife spoke with this attorney, she could have gotten advice only. Just like myself. Some people do that as a tactic, so you can't get certain attorneys. However the attorney my wife went to has a good reputable reputation, and is close to her work. The winds are changing. one source I do have is my therapist. He has testified in numerous child cases and knows the local attorneys. I am using his recommendations. Actually there is an advantage to filing. You are suing them for divorce therefore because you are suing them you can ask that they pay for half of your attorney fees and court costs. When my husband's attorney got a little fussy and demanding with my attorney without my husband's knowledge because we already came to an agreement, my attorney told him that if Mr. Bballgirl doesn't want to take this fair deal then we will start over and Mr. Bballgirl will have to pay half of my attorney fees and court costs as well. The lawyer backed down. It's something you have to negotiate with by filing first because you are suing them. |
|
|
|
Post by greatcoastal on Aug 3, 2016 19:24:22 GMT -5
Did you say I was F...? Don't get my " hopes" up! but seriously, I appreciate your concern! I went to see another attorney that same day. That attorney wanted to know the name. Her response was, " we have worked with her before many times, she is very professional, fair, and easy to work with". Now I guess that's something you would want an attorney to say about another? Not, they are stubborn , impossible, unreasonable, have no experience, etc... I will post this on this thread just to pass along information. I was informed that whoever files first makes no difference at all, doesn't change anything. I wil say that just because my wife spoke with this attorney, she could have gotten advice only. Just like myself. Some people do that as a tactic, so you can't get certain attorneys. However the attorney my wife went to has a good reputable reputation, and is close to her work. The winds are changing. one source I do have is my therapist. He has testified in numerous child cases and knows the local attorneys. I am using his recommendations. Actually there is an advantage to filing. You are suing them for divorce therefore because you are suing them you can ask that they pay for half of your attorney fees and court costs. When my husband's attorney got a little fussy and demanding with my attorney without my husband's knowledge because we already came to an agreement, my attorney told him that if Mr. Bballgirl doesn't want to take this fair deal then we will start over and Mr. Bballgirl will have to pay half of my attorney fees and court costs as well. The lawyer backed down. It's something you have to negotiate with by filing first because you are suing them. I did ask, " if my wife had filled how long would it take till I am notified, and visa-versa? She said about 48 hrs. So who knows when this meeting took place? I did once say, in the heat of the battle, that "I would be forming my exit plan" her response was, " I will not get in your way". That was 9 months ago. She will be leaving town next week, the kids start school, and she normally is busy at work catching up before a business trip. |
|
|
|
Post by DryCreek on Aug 3, 2016 19:24:42 GMT -5
Also, the person who files has some control over the pace of movement. Some jurisdictions don't allow counter suit, and if she files first and then drags her feet you can end up stuck in limbo.
|
|
|
|
Post by greatcoastal on Aug 3, 2016 19:38:35 GMT -5
greatcoastal , "easy to work with" is something you want to hear about the other team's lawyer. "Tenacious, creative, clever, and sly" are qualities you might hope to hear about yours. Perhaps even "pitbull, asshole, bastard", if you like to fight dirty. I'd look for someone who has experience working with a forensic accountant, not just child custody. I like your thinking! Getting that info. Can be very difficult. Just finding people to recommend an attorney has been tough. Long ago, other towns, etc... One of my questions was about a forensic accountant, this attorney had a name right away who they work with. If time is against me I will have to do the best I can with what I've found. I may be wrong about this, but a dirty fight, sounds like a long, drawn out, expensive money grab that only benefits the attorneys. people see our large family, hear our adoption story, and seem to want to help patch things, not drag things. I hope I am right. |
|
