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Post by winds on Apr 17, 2021 5:59:35 GMT -5
Because she refuses to accept my resignation under any circumstances 😂😂😂😂😂
No matter what 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
No matter what I give her 😳😳😳😳😳
No matter what l might do 😡😡😡😡😡
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Post by worksforme2 on Apr 17, 2021 8:09:05 GMT -5
Because she refuses to accept my resignation under any circumstances 😂😂😂😂😂 No matter what 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 No matter what I give her 😳😳😳😳😳 No matter what l might do 😡😡😡😡😡 I think there are laws on the books against this sort of thing(false imprisonment). Maybe you should contact a law enforcement agency. |
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Post by angeleyes65 on Apr 17, 2021 9:10:38 GMT -5
Because she refuses to accept my resignation under any circumstances 😂😂😂😂😂 No matter what 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 No matter what I give her 😳😳😳😳😳 No matter what l might do 😡😡😡😡😡 Mine did too. It kept me there for a long time because even though I was hurting I couldn't do it to someone else. One day I had an ephinany he didn't want me to leave but would not do anything to make me want to stay. So basically he was emotionally blackmailing me. I had reached the end of my exit plan years before. So I told him I was leaving, I set him up for life to be easy as possible without me and rented a place and moved out. I promised to wait a year to file because that's what he wanted in case I changed my mind. I would not do that again because he thought that meant we were going to spend time together and work on it. I also would have stuck to my original plan and rented first and told him 30 days before I moved. I gave him too much time to work his manipulation but I stayed strong. |
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Post by jerri on Apr 19, 2021 17:33:02 GMT -5
Because she refuses to accept my resignation under any circumstances 😂😂😂😂😂 No matter what 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 No matter what I give her 😳😳😳😳😳 No matter what l might do 😡😡😡😡😡 Mine did too. It kept me there for a long time because even though I was hurting I couldn't do it to someone else. One day I had an ephinany he didn't want me to leave but would not do anything to make me want to stay. So basically he was emotionally blackmailing me. I had reached the end of my exit plan years before. So I told him I was leaving, I set him up for life to be easy as possible without me and rented a place and moved out. I promised to wait a year to file because that's what he wanted in case I changed my mind. I would not do that again because he thought that meant we were going to spend time together and work on it. I also would have stuck to my original plan and rented first and told him 30 days before I moved. I gave him too much time to work his manipulation but I stayed strong. That was very altruistic and kind. Easy to say you made the right decision after that effort.  |
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Post by saarinista on Apr 20, 2021 16:57:41 GMT -5
I would call it not altruistic but practical. Generally it's in our best iterests not to be vengeful. Revenge is highly overrated, IMHO.
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Post by jerri on Apr 30, 2021 15:29:14 GMT -5
another reason I will not be going anywhere.
Right, and my husband said he was having sex too. I lived in a sexual desert
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Post by Handy on Apr 30, 2021 16:32:17 GMT -5
Jerri, maybe your H was having sex with the sheets.
I read the article and noted the lack of an interesting man was the reason older women are not sexual but I find that some women want to be independent and fear being a nurse to a boyfriend so unless there is a "super attraction" some women avoid getting too involved with a man.
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Post by jerri on May 3, 2021 19:46:30 GMT -5
Jerri, maybe your H was having sex with the sheets. I read the article and noted the lack of an interesting man was the reason older women are not sexual but I find that some women want to be independent and fear being a nurse to a boyfriend so unless there is a "super attraction" some women avoid getting too involved with a man. I really wouldn't know but I was given a new pillowtop mattress and it was refused. He got angry that I didn't ask him. i never knew anyone could be so angry about an old, hard mattress that makes your arm numb and back ache. Men and women have very different reasons for not having sex. At least in that book. (Forgot the name) They did a survey that I found interesting and "she just isn't into you was not at the top of the list but that is the first thing offered in here. |
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Post by Handy on May 3, 2021 22:39:41 GMT -5
J have a 4 inch "memory foam mattress topper" and would not go with out it for any length of time. I liked mine so much that I gave one to my brother's W.
I read several American Association of Retired People (AARP) articles about and they all indicated the lack of a partner was the reason most women over 55 were sexless and ED was the second cause. The article also stated the women didn't want to have to provide medical care to men, given that men usually die before women. Some of the articles said women like to do what ever they want, when they want, so being independent was important to many women and having a man around interfered on impromptu decisions.
The older women I know are into their kids, grand kids, church activities and other women their age.
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Post by mr.jones on Jun 12, 2021 7:51:48 GMT -5
Because I’m gutless Because I’m stuck in a rut Because I don’t know if I will be any more happy ********** I saw a counsellor - question posed was do I want in? Do I want out? My answer - I just want to be happy and be a good dad. Pleased to say that I’m not staying anymore. Made the call, life was to short, why live in misery. And so, I’m out. Starting afresh. What is there to lose? |
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Post by angeleyes65 on Jun 13, 2021 9:34:39 GMT -5
Congratulations! You're exactly right life is short. Wishing you the best in your move towards happiness.
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Post by saarinista on Jun 13, 2021 13:48:25 GMT -5
Because I’m gutless Because I’m stuck in a rut Because I don’t know if I will be any more happy ********** I saw a counsellor - question posed was do I want in? Do I want out? My answer - I just want to be happy and be a good dad. Pleased to say that I’m not staying anymore. Made the call, life was to short, why live in misery. And so, I’m out. Starting afresh. What is there to lose? You can be a good (or better) dad divorced from your refuser. |
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Post by mr.jones on Jun 14, 2021 0:14:08 GMT -5
Congratulations! You're exactly right life is short. Wishing you the best in your move towards happiness. Thank you |
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Post by mr.jones on Jun 14, 2021 0:14:36 GMT -5
Pleased to say that I’m not staying anymore. Made the call, life was to short, why live in misery. And so, I’m out. Starting afresh. What is there to lose? You can be a good (or better) dad divorced from your refuser. Thanks saarinista |
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Post by mirrororchid on Jun 14, 2021 5:31:21 GMT -5
Because I’m gutless Because I’m stuck in a rut Because I don’t know if I will be any more happy ********** I saw a counsellor - question posed was do I want in? Do I want out? My answer - I just want to be happy and be a good dad. Pleased to say that I’m not staying anymore. Made the call, life was to short, why live in misery. And so, I’m out. Starting afresh. What is there to lose? Hope you'll share the adventure ahead once in a while. |
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