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Post by Caris on Aug 29, 2018 20:37:58 GMT -5
deleted and Caris - have you all stumbled upon your enneagram? Just wondering because mine was so spot -on: Gave me a new perspective. Hi Jmx, I’ll have to google it. 🤗 |
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Post by Caris on Aug 29, 2018 20:40:03 GMT -5
Not! You’re absolutely beautiful. Thanks girl! You're beautiful and charming as always. Really I'm a toad, I'm fine, I just wanna meet a fellow toad and be happy. I think. I might be lying. We're all shallow to a certain extent. I wish i wasn't but yeah, I would still wsnt a toad on the cute, bigger than me side LOL Helen, you make me laugh.😊 |
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Post by northstarmom on Aug 30, 2018 6:31:28 GMT -5
Helenisscared said “Maybe a fixed life is miraculously meeting a male fish out of water and somehow that working, just accepting one's own flaws and finding an equally flawed potential mate who does the same for himself and oneself? Like I'm tired of trying to turn from a computer potato to someone sporty. I'm just not. I want to meet a fellow chubby lazy book/technology lover and be flawrd together. I'm done wishing I was sometjhing else. Sure I csn eT a little healthier but running is always going to make me wheeze and I'm terminally uncoordinTed and fatally bored by even wTching sports (except skiing)”
You aren’t flawed. You are perfectly you. Embrace fully the unique person who you are. You will be a great fit for someone with similar interests who will joyfully caress your curves and admire and enjoy your interests. Frankly, considering how many guys are into tech and gaming if you revel in being you you may have to beat guys off with a stick.
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Post by javba on Aug 30, 2018 7:57:25 GMT -5
Helenisscared said “Maybe a fixed life is miraculously meeting a male fish out of water and somehow that working, just accepting one's own flaws and finding an equally flawed potential mate who does the same for himself and oneself? Like I'm tired of trying to turn from a computer potato to someone sporty. I'm just not. I want to meet a fellow chubby lazy book/technology lover and be flawrd together. I'm done wishing I was sometjhing else. Sure I csn eT a little healthier but running is always going to make me wheeze and I'm terminally uncoordinTed and fatally bored by even wTching sports (except skiing)” You aren’t flawed. You are perfectly you. Embrace fully the unique person who you are. You will be a great fit for someone with similar interests who will joyfully caress your curves and admire and enjoy your interests. Frankly, considering how many guys are into tech and gaming if you revel in being you you may have to beat guys off with a stick. Luv this post As a Chubby lazy tech lover, I concur 👍🏽👍🏽 |
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Post by JMX on Sept 5, 2018 21:52:01 GMT -5
Helenisscared said “Maybe a fixed life is miraculously meeting a male fish out of water and somehow that working, just accepting one's own flaws and finding an equally flawed potential mate who does the same for himself and oneself? Like I'm tired of trying to turn from a computer potato to someone sporty. I'm just not. I want to meet a fellow chubby lazy book/technology lover and be flawrd together. I'm done wishing I was sometjhing else. Sure I csn eT a little healthier but running is always going to make me wheeze and I'm terminally uncoordinTed and fatally bored by even wTching sports (except skiing)” You aren’t flawed. You are perfectly you. Embrace fully the unique person who you are. You will be a great fit for someone with similar interests who will joyfully caress your curves and admire and enjoy your interests. Frankly, considering how many guys are into tech and gaming if you revel in being you you may have to beat guys off with a stick. Please - I will give you mine deleted |
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Post by tiredofbeinglonely on Sept 13, 2018 17:28:58 GMT -5
I have been wondering something similar. I worked with a doctor/head of a program for the past 6 months and then was moved to a new site. I have the biggest crush on him! We talked everyday...have a lot in common. I wanted to ask him for dinner, coffee , whatever. I was always too afraid. Would it be weird now? If not...how do I even go about it? I feel so out of the dating loop...don't even get me started on sex.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 13, 2018 17:59:07 GMT -5
I have been wondering something similar. I worked with a doctor/head of a program for the past 6 months and then was moved to a new site. I have the biggest crush on him! We talked everyday...have a lot in common. I wanted to ask him for dinner, coffee , whatever. I was always too afraid. Would it be weird now? If not...how do I even go about it? I feel so out of the dating loop...don't even get me started on sex. If he is unattached, and especially if your chats were about non work related topics, it is not weird at all. Just call him and say you miss your chats with him and were wondering if he'd be interested in meeting for coffee sometime. You have nothing to lose, it seems to me. |
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Post by tiredofbeinglonely on Sept 13, 2018 22:18:26 GMT -5
I have been wondering something similar. I worked with a doctor/head of a program for the past 6 months and then was moved to a new site. I have the biggest crush on him! We talked everyday...have a lot in common. I wanted to ask him for dinner, coffee , whatever. I was always too afraid. Would it be weird now? If not...how do I even go about it? I feel so out of the dating loop...don't even get me started on sex. If he is unattached, and especially if your chats were about non work related topics, it is not weird at all. Just call him and say you miss your chats with him and were wondering if he'd be interested in meeting for coffee sometime. You have nothing to lose, it seems to me. Yep, unattached. We spent hours together...but I was also MUCH heavier. I didn't really think I had much of a chance. I feel a bit different now. He hasn't seen me in a little bit...so some of the additional weight loss will be a surprise. I think I will go for it. Nothing to lose really! Thanks  |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 13, 2018 22:22:34 GMT -5
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Post by baza on Sept 13, 2018 22:44:35 GMT -5
Hard to see a downside Sister tiredofbeinglonely . If you give it a whirl, he responds positively, then you learn a bit about you, and him. If he responds ambivalently, same thing applies. You learn a bit about him, and you. |
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Post by time4intimacy on Sept 14, 2018 16:19:00 GMT -5
If he is unattached, and especially if your chats were about non work related topics, it is not weird at all. Just call him and say you miss your chats with him and were wondering if he'd be interested in meeting for coffee sometime. You have nothing to lose, it seems to me. Yep, unattached. We spent hours together...but I was also MUCH heavier. I didn't really think I had much of a chance. I feel a bit different now. He hasn't seen me in a little bit...so some of the additional weight loss will be a surprise. I think I will go for it. Nothing to lose really! Thanks Good Luck!! I hope it works out. |
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Post by tiredofbeinglonely on Sept 14, 2018 16:54:43 GMT -5
Yep, unattached. We spent hours together...but I was also MUCH heavier. I didn't really think I had much of a chance. I feel a bit different now. He hasn't seen me in a little bit...so some of the additional weight loss will be a surprise. I think I will go for it. Nothing to lose really! Thanks Good Luck!! I hope it works out. I asked if I could stop by on Monday...he said yes. Figured an ask in person was better. That took some balls though, not gonna lie. This is SO outside my comfort zone. I'll let you know how it goes. |
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Post by tiredofbeinglonely on Sept 17, 2018 11:52:39 GMT -5
Good Luck!! I hope it works out. I asked if I could stop by on Monday...he said yes. Figured an ask in person was better. That took some balls though, not gonna lie. This is SO outside my comfort zone. I'll let you know how it goes. He said yes to dinner this week! Think I might pass out now. |
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Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Sept 17, 2018 12:19:48 GMT -5
Wow..that is exciting. Im happy you took a leap of faith I hate to rain on anyone's parade and be a debbie downer, but I'd be remiss not to mention that workplace romances while exciting can be akin to walking into a beautiful meadow full of landmines underneath the surface. Please read up on pros and cons. Do an honest risk assesment. My son's previous pediatrician's husband worked at the same employer as me. The guy had an affair with a colleague. When it came out in the open, the guy's career and reputation went relatively unscathed in the long run, but she found it difficult to stay and moved to a lower paying job outside the company. Granted that was a discrete affair that came out in the open, but I think it serves as a relevant data point. I asked if I could stop by on Monday...he said yes. Figured an ask in person was better. That took some balls though, not gonna lie. This is SO outside my comfort zone. I'll let you know how it goes. He said yes to dinner this week! Think I might pass out now. |
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Post by choosinghappy on Sept 17, 2018 15:16:04 GMT -5
I asked if I could stop by on Monday...he said yes. Figured an ask in person was better. That took some balls though, not gonna lie. This is SO outside my comfort zone. I'll let you know how it goes. He said yes to dinner this week! Think I might pass out now. Lol! Excited for you! |
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