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Post by greatcoastal on Sept 23, 2018 18:25:11 GMT -5
We had a really nice time. No sex...but it felt good to talk to someone, flirt, kiss, and feel sexy. For once, I actually felt that way. I think there will be more of these...hope really  How was your confidence level? I am guessing you did much better than you give yourself credit for! Action, makes hope a reality. Text him a short "thank you ,I had a wonderful evening. You are so easy to talk with, I love your honesty." Now forget about impressing him,.....was there things that disappointed you? Do not settle!! This is a big step for you. That doesn't mean that there won't be more! Very proud of you,and encouraged by your testimony! |
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Post by tiredofbeinglonely on Sept 23, 2018 22:24:18 GMT -5
We had a really nice time. No sex...but it felt good to talk to someone, flirt, kiss, and feel sexy. For once, I actually felt that way. I think there will be more of these...hope really How was your confidence level? I am guessing you did much better than you give yourself credit for! Action, makes hope a reality. Text him a short "thank you ,I had a wonderful evening. You are so easy to talk with, I love your honesty." Now forget about impressing him,.....was there things that disappointed you? Do not settle!! This is a big step for you. That doesn't mean that there won't be more! Very proud of you,and encouraged by your testimony! It was actually a wonderful night. He was handsome, kind, and gentle. I really din't want the night to end. What would I have changed...me. my mindset in the beginning. I was scared, nervous and really in my head. While I didn't say anything, I didn't feel confident until we were a ways into the date. I thi k he understood. Wish I could have been different. Maybe that will come in time. He called me beautiful and sexy...it's still so hard to hear. I really wish my marriage didn't steal so much from me. Again, hopefully that will change in time. I don't really find myself beautiful. I tend to see all of my flaws...and I focus my energy on those things. That is also not attractive. |
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Post by choosinghappy on Sept 24, 2018 13:01:03 GMT -5
So now just try to focus on the fact that a man you like and are attracted to finds you beautiful and sexy. Must be true!!
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