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Post by h on Oct 7, 2017 15:50:39 GMT -5
Wanderlust, your wife's medical problems wouldn't prevent non piv sexual activities. Do you wonder whether she married you so she could retire with good insurance? yes, I think about it alot. I have pushed my retirement plan forward a few years. I am retiring in 2 months. I wonder if I am making a mistake. I wonder if I was her retirement plan all along and if she loves me or just the concept of me. She would have to go back to work without my income so I would feel guilt by leaving. Shouldn't she feel guilty for suckering you into providing her with insurance and income while she gives nothing in return? |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 7, 2017 15:50:41 GMT -5
This guy is a real piece of work. That is the most disgusting list of insults. He is an abusive dick. God, I second that. He is a real douchebag.Now that's a good reason! |
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Post by shamwow on Oct 7, 2017 16:46:36 GMT -5
yes, I think about it alot. I have pushed my retirement plan forward a few years. I am retiring in 2 months. I wonder if I am making a mistake. I wonder if I was her retirement plan all along and if she loves me or just the concept of me. She would have to go back to work without my income so I would feel guilt by leaving. Shouldn't she feel guilty for suckering you into providing her with insurance and income while she gives nothing in return? Do I hear a second to that motion? (my hand slowly raises) |
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Post by wanderlust on Oct 7, 2017 21:07:16 GMT -5
Shouldn't she feel guilty for suckering you into providing her with insurance and income while she gives nothing in return? I don't know if that is the case H. If the issues are all legit, then I am good. I will just suck it up, for better or worse. If I find out I am being played, I'm gone. |
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Post by M2G on Oct 7, 2017 22:34:46 GMT -5
Here we go:
You don't know how to woo me
Your cum tastes like clorox
Your cock isn't all that
You aren't the one who's gone into
You really don't put much effort into making advances
You can't keep pawing at me like that, it turns me off
My back hurts
My back feels good and I don't want mess it up
Why do you always want sex when I'm busy
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Post by darktippedrose on Oct 8, 2017 0:34:35 GMT -5
oh wow. Refusers are a vicious bunch aren't they. so vicious.
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Post by workingonit on Oct 9, 2017 16:55:57 GMT -5
He has "issues" from his past that make it difficult for him to feel confident.
He feels bad because of his weight gain.
He feels like he is not very good at sex.
I generally believe him when he says he is intimidated by me. But it has been 8 years since we have had sex at all and 3 years since we have even kissed so I don't even think I remember the excuses anymore.
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Post by ironhamster on Oct 9, 2017 19:36:20 GMT -5
He has "issues" from his past that make it difficult for him to feel confident. He feels bad because of his weight gain. He feels like he is not very good at sex. I generally believe him when he says he is intimidated by me. But it has been 8 years since we have had sex at all and 3 years since we have even kissed so I don't even think I remember the excuses anymore. Urgh. Weight gain, not very good, "issues"? I bet he does NOTHING to fix any of this. Does he diet or exercise or read articles or books or ask what you like or don't like, or is he seeing a counselor to get over his emotional problems? |
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Post by bran127 on Oct 9, 2017 21:24:30 GMT -5
He isn't attracted to me anymore
He was never sexual and doesn't enjoy sex
I disgust him
He isn't interested in me anymore (see above)
He is lazy
He is hurting
He is mad at me
He is selfish
He doesn't understand
I am too foward
I get too stressed
I am too sexual for him
I am never what he wanted
He is only with me because of our child
He is an idiot
He is too scared to leave me because I support him and stays with me because he has no one else
He thinks we have been together too long to start over
He doesn't view me as anything other than a roommate
He thinks I'm crazy
He doesn't love me anymore ;( that's the hardest "why" to feel
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Post by M2G on Oct 10, 2017 4:51:06 GMT -5
Wow - why is it when I see these hurtful things flung at the ladies here, it makes me want to smack the guy up? (With words I mean, with words..)
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Post by takestwototango on Oct 10, 2017 11:07:51 GMT -5
Oh, gosh, I don't know if I can remember all of his excuses. Let's see...
Too tired
Too stressed
Sciatica is acting up (this has completely cleared up, no more issues, but he knows how to fake it)
Back is hurting (or any other body part)
It's my heart, doing funny things
I'm afraid I will die during sex
I'm mad at you
You need to lose weight
I can't please you the way you want
It's too late (even on the weekend)
Sex is the most important thing to you
Your sex drive is a lot higher than mine
You are absolutely nuts
These are the ones I can think of off the top of my head, but the tired one, that one gets the most points.
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Post by DryCreek on Oct 10, 2017 11:19:05 GMT -5
Damn. That's some bad sciatica if it's affecting his tongue. When it's your time, is there a better way to go? |
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Post by takestwototango on Oct 10, 2017 11:25:05 GMT -5
Damn. That's some bad sciatica if it's affecting his tongue. When it's your time, is there a better way to go? THANK YOU!!! I actually told him the latter! |
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Post by h on Oct 10, 2017 13:26:28 GMT -5
Damn. That's some bad sciatica if it's affecting his tongue. When it's your time, is there a better way to go? That's how I would want to go! |
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Post by Frustrated1978 on Oct 12, 2017 19:45:56 GMT -5
She's not in the mood cause i didn't clean the house to her liking
I kept being told what an awful partner i am so it must be true
The kids will hear
The cat is watching
I did not cook dinner
I obviously said something to offend her
Perhaps she is having an affair
She is tired
She is sick
Obviously im too nice
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