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eternaloptimism Senior Members Posts: 3,096 Age Range: 41-45	Outsourcing... Not sure it's for me May 19, 2016 11:09:17 GMT -5 via mobile itsjustus likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by eternaloptimism on May 19, 2016 11:09:17 GMT -5 Crap. Did it again today. In the rain!
	Darling, don't ever be too shy to dance your heart out. Unless you are in a strip club. Then you'll be told off.

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Outsourcing... Not sure it's for me May 19, 2016 11:47:50 GMT -5 via mobile DryCreek, eternaloptimism, and 1 more like this

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Post by dancingbear70 on May 19, 2016 11:47:50 GMT -5

May 19, 2016 11:09:17 GMT -5 eternaloptimism said:

Crap. Did it again today.
In the rain!

Can't decide my comment here. Debating between:
A) Show off!
or
B) Pics or it didn't happen!

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Outsourcing... Not sure it's for me May 19, 2016 11:52:50 GMT -5 via mobile

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Post by eternaloptimism on May 19, 2016 11:52:50 GMT -5

May 19, 2016 11:47:50 GMT -5 dancingbear70 said:

May 19, 2016 11:09:17 GMT -5 eternaloptimism said:

Crap. Did it again today.
In the rain!

Can't decide my comment here. Debating between:
A) Show off!
or
B) Pics or it didn't happen!

If it makes you feel any better I was left very wet with no cigar

This one was all for him... God I love that every now and then!

Darling, don't ever be too shy to dance your heart out.
Unless you are in a strip club. Then you'll be told off.

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Outsourcing... Not sure it's for me May 19, 2016 13:09:15 GMT -5 via mobile itsjustus and eternaloptimism like this

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Post by dancingbear70 on May 19, 2016 13:09:15 GMT -5

May 19, 2016 11:52:50 GMT -5 eternaloptimism said:

May 19, 2016 11:47:50 GMT -5 dancingbear70 said:

Can't decide my comment here. Debating between:
A) Show off!
or
B) Pics or it didn't happen!

If it makes you feel any better I was left very wet with no cigar

This one was all for him... God I love that every now and then!

Yeah...no...that's not better. Sigh.

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Outsourcing... Not sure it's for me May 19, 2016 14:58:55 GMT -5 eternaloptimism likes this

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Post by itsjustus on May 19, 2016 14:58:55 GMT -5

May 19, 2016 11:52:50 GMT -5 eternaloptimism said:

May 19, 2016 11:47:50 GMT -5 dancingbear70 said:

Can't decide my comment here. Debating between:
A) Show off!
or
B) Pics or it didn't happen!

If it makes you feel any better I was left very wet with no cigar

This one was all for him... God I love that every now and then!

Oh.....my.....God.....

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Outsourcing... Not sure it's for me May 19, 2016 15:03:39 GMT -5 Isabellas39 likes this

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Post by itsjustus on May 19, 2016 15:03:39 GMT -5

May 13, 2016 15:17:45 GMT -5 flotsam said:

It's a mixed bag.....you feel wanted sexually which is a boon after so long being unwanted. The only issue is if you're not both ok with the FWB deal it can be difficult, or if you get discovered.
Probably less stressful to get agreement to outsource first...but you can't guarantee one of you wont fall hard and get hurt.

It's a mixed bag..... Sort of

you feel wanted sexually - Yes

which is a boon after so long being unwanted. - Definitely Yes.

The only issue is if you're not both ok with the FWB deal it can be difficult - Yes

or if you get discovered. - Yes
Probably less stressful to get agreement to outsource first - No

but you can't guarantee one of you wont fall hard and get hurt. - Yes.....[sigh]

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