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Post by Deleted on May 10, 2016 9:16:31 GMT -5
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Post by wewbwb on May 10, 2016 9:21:01 GMT -5
Yes It is meant as a "total agreement" All aspects of your post are spot on.  |
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Post by Rhapsodee on May 10, 2016 9:24:30 GMT -5
Good on the woman at your gym for making herself, and her health and fitness needs a priority. She's a great role model, and she doesn't even know it.  [/quote][ She is a role model for me because I saw that being a desirable woman is more than physical appearance. |
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Post by TMD on May 10, 2016 9:25:30 GMT -5
"When Good People Have Affairs," by Mira Kirshenbaum |
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Post by TMD on May 10, 2016 9:33:09 GMT -5
Good on the woman at your gym for making herself, and her health and fitness needs a priority. She's a great role model, and she doesn't even know it. [ She is a role model for me because I saw that being a desirable woman is more than physical appearance. [/quote] Yes, it is! I'm not perfect. I'm currently categorized as, "grossly obese," myself (damn those dietitians). And my AP dEsires nothing more than sincere human connection ((aside: his wife is larger than me and that wouldn't stop him, his heart has broken a million times over her refusals)). societal norms of beauty interfere with our perception of what men want. |
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Post by ggold on May 10, 2016 9:36:31 GMT -5
"When Good People Have Affairs," by Mira Kirshenbaum I need to read this! |
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Post by wewbwb on May 10, 2016 9:41:49 GMT -5
Good on the woman at your gym for making herself, and her health and fitness needs a priority. She's a great role model, and she doesn't even know it. [ She is a role model for me because I saw that being a desirable woman is more than physical appearance. Yes, it is! I'm not perfect. I'm currently categorized as, "grossly obese," myself (damn those dietitians). And my AP dEsires nothing more than sincere human connection ((aside: his wife is larger than me and that wouldn't stop him, his heart has broken a million times over her refusals)). societal norms of beauty interfere with our ereption of what men want. [/quote] Please enough about "social norms" One more post and we're all going back to "pet peeve" Don't make make cum over there! |
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Post by Deleted on May 10, 2016 9:43:17 GMT -5
"When Good People Have Affairs," by Mira Kirshenbaum Added to buy on payday list. |
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Post by TMD on May 10, 2016 9:50:08 GMT -5
wewbwb - I said "societal."  An example of a "social" norm would be to not cum on an unsuspecting person.
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Post by wewbwb on May 10, 2016 9:57:43 GMT -5
Hey - if she's just standing there - It's NOT my fault. And sorry. |
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Post by Rhapsodee on May 10, 2016 10:37:44 GMT -5
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Post by Rhapsodee on May 10, 2016 11:08:28 GMT -5
He isn't in love with me and I'm not with him, but there is a real fondness between us. Give it time... Argh. Complexities. |
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Post by angryspartan on May 10, 2016 12:07:21 GMT -5
Good on the woman at your gym for making herself, and her health and fitness needs a priority. She's a great role model, and she doesn't even know it. [ She is a role model for me because I saw that being a desirable woman is more than physical appearance. [/quote] Confidence plays a lot into the attractiveness of a woman. And despite what a lot of women think, many men have more than one body type they find attractive; at least I do. |
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Post by TMD on May 10, 2016 12:28:22 GMT -5
rhapsodee - sounds lovely. I think the affairs that work are the ones in which the expectations are set out, agreed upon and followed. If that makes sense. My AP had no plans to leave his wife in the first few years. I started on the premise that the affair was to keep my marriage in tact. But when I realized that I couldn't continue in the marriage, I was honest with my AP, and we revised the parameters, which continue to shift. I think it's when expectations on each other's parts are mismatched, or when APs aren't being clear or honest, that the problems seep in.
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Post by TMD on May 10, 2016 12:34:59 GMT -5
What does the acronym, "TYVM," mean? |
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