Post by tamara68 on May 18, 2017 13:30:22 GMT -5
I knew he was going to do it, and now he did it.
When I came home today I found a letter from my stbx. Apparently he moved back to the Netherlands with my daughter a few days ago. Without my permission.
According to him I have forced him to do it and he had no choice because I have been so cruel to him. He couldn't get welfare money in Belgium, so he had no choice but to go back to the Netherlands. The option of getting a job was not a serious option for him.
He cleverly had made an appointment with the youth care lady for the day after they moved out. So she would be satisfied with a successfully made appointment and not bother him until it was too late.
Since my daughter has turned 16 a few months ago, they will probably not force her to go back.
I don't know what is going to happen there. Dutch authorities will be involved and they too will find themselves for a closed door. I don't know what will happen. It will definitely not be good for my daughter.
I have called the social police officer who knows the situation. He is going to put things in motion. The prosecutor will probably contact Dutch authorities.
He won't have given notice, so the landlord will demand as much from me as possible. I hope the apartment isn't damaged.
I will need to see how stbx has left the apartment. Will be a mess most likely, for me to clean up. And also all bills are there for me.
Tomorrow I need to make several calls to start solving things.
I am sick of it but I hope that eventually something good will happen.
When I came home today I found a letter from my stbx. Apparently he moved back to the Netherlands with my daughter a few days ago. Without my permission.
According to him I have forced him to do it and he had no choice because I have been so cruel to him. He couldn't get welfare money in Belgium, so he had no choice but to go back to the Netherlands. The option of getting a job was not a serious option for him.
He cleverly had made an appointment with the youth care lady for the day after they moved out. So she would be satisfied with a successfully made appointment and not bother him until it was too late.
Since my daughter has turned 16 a few months ago, they will probably not force her to go back.
I don't know what is going to happen there. Dutch authorities will be involved and they too will find themselves for a closed door. I don't know what will happen. It will definitely not be good for my daughter.
I have called the social police officer who knows the situation. He is going to put things in motion. The prosecutor will probably contact Dutch authorities.
He won't have given notice, so the landlord will demand as much from me as possible. I hope the apartment isn't damaged.
I will need to see how stbx has left the apartment. Will be a mess most likely, for me to clean up. And also all bills are there for me.
Tomorrow I need to make several calls to start solving things.
I am sick of it but I hope that eventually something good will happen.
