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Post by bballgirl on Apr 25, 2017 19:01:11 GMT -5
10) It is a new moon day 9) It is my 7th day of the month but still....you know... 8) I think you are too good for me 7) I have had too much broccoli. 6) It is the 29th of February 5) It is Friday, the 13th. 4) My hair stinks 3) The first thing I saw this morning was a black cat. (and that is unlucky) 2) I feel fat 1) It is full moon day I had sex for the first time in my life on 2/29 last year exactly one month a nine days after my divorce. |
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Post by solodriver on Apr 25, 2017 19:34:47 GMT -5
- I can't have sex anymore because of menopause!
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Post by GeekGoddess on Apr 25, 2017 19:46:10 GMT -5
I really didn't push for much verbal explanation.
Before cancer, it was evident from:
Grumpy mood, bad day.
"I'm staying up to watch this show" or "I'm gonna let you finish this show. I'm tired & going to bed"
Also - middle of the night, wake up to "sounds of fapping" from the office with the (porn) computer.
After cancer - he just couldn't. And I really didn't push it verbally. When I finally confronted him that there were lots of non-PIV things that we could do - he caved, we tried, & it was rather horrid, actually.
Makes me realize how little I actually made him answer for it. But I don't desire to micromanage another's desire. I want someone who displays obvious desire. I want discussions to center around what we want to do, will do - not what we won't be doing.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Apr 25, 2017 19:46:46 GMT -5
- I can't have sex anymore because of menopause! I'm sorry, but i get it. We have been working on the start of menopause for at least 10 years. |
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Post by csl on Apr 25, 2017 19:50:25 GMT -5
- I can't have sex anymore because of menopause! I'm sorry, but i get it. We have been working on the start of menopause for at least 10 years. Gonna have to disagree. I'm 67 and Wife is 66, and menopause hasn't slowed her down one iota. |
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Post by allworkandnoplay on Apr 25, 2017 21:30:27 GMT -5
1. No
2. No
3. rolls over with her back to me
4. No
5. No
6. You didn't come to bed at the right time (which, by the way, is sometime between 9:58 and 30 sec and 9:58 and 32 sec)
7. No
8. No
9. No
10. No
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Post by merrygoround on Apr 25, 2017 23:55:33 GMT -5
- I can't have sex anymore because of menopause! Ha! I'm in perimenopause and I'm hornier than ever... When i finally hit menopause whenever that may be, (which btw is the term used only when a woman has been 12 months without a period) then i shall be free of that monthly curse and thinking wooohooo another week now to have sex! If i need any hormonal help at that point i will bloody go for it. If i find my libido dips, i will sort it out. It's a journey for sure, but i want to be a whole package and able to enjoy sex as i imagine i always wanted to. Frequently, joyfully, with fun and adventure. |
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Post by Rhapsodee on Apr 26, 2017 0:25:47 GMT -5
Oh, I love this game!
-- I need my down time.
-- I can't just change gears at the drop of a hat
-- Honey! Look at me, I'm so fat
-- I need my down time.
-- I have work to do
-- OK but you'll have to do all the work
-- I need my down time.
-- I don't take demands
-- You are to bony, you need more padding. It hurts my hernia.
-- You make too much noise, son will hear us.
-- I need my down time
-- There isn't enough time
-- I need to get my walk in today.
-- I don't need needy clingy people
-- When things settle down......
-- I'm amorous when I'm relaxed
-- I don't need another person pulling at me
-- I need my down time.
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Post by solodriver on Apr 26, 2017 1:29:08 GMT -5
- I can't have sex anymore because of menopause! Ha! I'm in perimenopause and I'm hornier than ever... When i finally hit menopause whenever that may be, (which btw is the term used only when a woman has been 12 months without a period) then i shall be free of that monthly curse and thinking wooohooo another week now to have sex! If i need any hormonal help at that point i will bloody go for it. If i find my libido dips, i will sort it out. It's a journey for sure, but i want to be a whole package and able to enjoy sex as i imagine i always wanted to. Frequently, joyfully, with fun and adventure. One of the things that has been a joy for me to learn here is how many of the woman here have no problems and are actually hornier after menopause.  Sadly my wife was not one of them. |
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Post by csl on Apr 26, 2017 6:48:31 GMT -5
Ha! I'm in perimenopause and I'm hornier than ever... When i finally hit menopause whenever that may be, (which btw is the term used only when a woman has been 12 months without a period) then i shall be free of that monthly curse and thinking wooohooo another week now to have sex! If i need any hormonal help at that point i will bloody go for it. If i find my libido dips, i will sort it out. It's a journey for sure, but i want to be a whole package and able to enjoy sex as i imagine i always wanted to. Frequently, joyfully, with fun and adventure. One of the things that has been a joy for me to learn here is how many of the woman here have no problems and are actually hornier after menopause. Sadly my wife was not one of them. Um... was she before? For some wives menopause is just an added club in the bag. |
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Post by novembercomingfire on Apr 26, 2017 7:11:01 GMT -5
One of the things that has been a joy for me to learn here is how many of the woman here have no problems and are actually hornier after menopause. Sadly my wife was not one of them. Um... was she before? For some wives menopause is just an added club in the bag. Exactly. My wife is not in menopause. She just has claimed to be for more than 10 years. As another excuse. |
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Post by nancyb on Apr 26, 2017 7:11:47 GMT -5
"YOU look too tired" - The Frigidaire. I don't know wewbwb you look rather virile and ready go in your picture. Tired my ass. |
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Post by tamara68 on Apr 26, 2017 7:29:17 GMT -5
- pushing me away
- pushing me away
- pushing me away
- pushing me away
- pushing me away
- pushing me away, "don't touch me"
- You can't just touch me like that
- You need to be a better wife first before sex can even be considered again.
... never tried again after that last one. He either wants me or he doesn't. I wasn't going to beg for it.
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Post by nancyb on Apr 26, 2017 7:31:28 GMT -5
Don't touch me
All you ever do is think about sex
You watch more porn than a man
Get a hobby
Silence...
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Post by wewbwb on Apr 26, 2017 7:33:53 GMT -5
Don't touch me All you ever do is think about sex You watch more porn than a man Get a hobby Silence... I'm reading this thinking... "Awesome" |
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Sadly my wife was not one of them. 
