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Post by wom360 on Mar 31, 2017 16:44:00 GMT -5
I had the same excuse from my wife: "I can't because the dog can hear and see us and I don't want to close him out of the room!" When I suggested we go somewhere else away from home without the dog, the answer because, "I don't trust ANYONE to take care of the dog properly."
End of sex life.
This reminds me of my W's lame excuse. "Grandpa might hear us". You mean, half deaf grandpa? The one who turns his hearing aids off grandpa? The one who's doors are shut, and his tv blaring, grandpa? How do you think he became grandpa in the first place!! (geeez) My wife won't have sex at her parents house or if we have company. I once told her, bluntly, that I would never let any parents live with us because of her prudishness. If her parents need help, they'll be going to the nursing home. I'm appalled that your wife uses that excuse when it's her dad living in your house. Boundaries. Never ever let an adult male live in your home. Castles only have one king. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Mar 31, 2017 17:44:23 GMT -5
This reminds me of my W's lame excuse. "Grandpa might hear us". You mean, half deaf grandpa? The one who turns his hearing aids off grandpa? The one who's doors are shut, and his tv blaring, grandpa? How do you think he became grandpa in the first place!! (geeez) My wife won't have sex at her parents house or if we have company. I once told her, bluntly, that I would never let any parents live with us because of her prudishness. If her parents need help, they'll be going to the nursing home. I'm appalled that your wife uses that excuse when it's her dad living in your house. Boundaries. Never ever let an adult male live in your home. Castles only have one king. Yea....If it wasn't so full of rejection, and manipulative control, it would be laughable. Just icing on the cake of her twisted logic. Some day, maybe....depends on my forgiveness, I anticipate the day to say to my SIL, "you call me the *less than helpful husband*? I've cooked over 3500 meals for your daddy...." I could go on and on. That's a whole nother subject! |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 31, 2017 20:14:38 GMT -5
Jesus, just have sex with him, whiney little twat. These "articles" bolster the already incessant stereotype that men are the sex maniacs and women the frigid b*tches. These "articles" seemingly erase the women, like the glorious women of iliasm, with NORMAL sex drives. We just don't exist. Where are we? Gender-biased bullshit really gets me going - and no NOT in a good way. It's just the societal norm unfortunately. K, putting my homogenized mask back on. I hear ya loud and clear! However, as a man who is a few short months away from being free from a long term SM, I gotta admit to thinking married women that enjoy and encourage an active sex life are like unicorns and leprechauns. 😉 Those women are on ILIASM. |
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Post by mrslowmaintenance on Mar 31, 2017 20:38:56 GMT -5
Jesus, just have sex with him, whiney little twat. These "articles" bolster the already incessant stereotype that men are the sex maniacs and women the frigid b*tches. These "articles" seemingly erase the women, like the glorious women of iliasm, with NORMAL sex drives. We just don't exist. Where are we? Gender-biased bullshit really gets me going - and no NOT in a good way. It's just the societal norm unfortunately. K, putting my homogenized mask back on. I hear ya loud and clear! However, as a man who is a few short months away from being free from a long term SM, I gotta admit to thinking married women that enjoy and encourage an active sex life are like unicorns and leprechauns. 😉 Just like smartkat said, we are here, suffering alongside you. We are hoping our needs are important enough to be fulfilled, facing rejections no matter the attire, setting or preparation. We are hoping for things to change, to leave or to find someone who can help relieve that endless desire |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 31, 2017 22:28:51 GMT -5
The closest thing to "I am a DAD," might be my ex - who couldn't be sexual if one of our pets was in the room; and would do anything for one of them before he would do me. And I felt like I couldn't say a word - since it was my idea for us to have pets in the first place. I'm an animal lover, so how could I possibly be upset at what a devoted "parent" he turned out to be? I had the same excuse from my wife: "I can't because the dog can hear and see us and I don't want to close him out of the room!" When I suggested we go somewhere else away from home without the dog, the answer because, "I don't trust ANYONE to take care of the dog properly."
End of sex life.
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Post by solodriver on Apr 1, 2017 0:47:27 GMT -5
I had the same excuse from my wife: "I can't because the dog can hear and see us and I don't want to close him out of the room!" When I suggested we go somewhere else away from home without the dog, the answer because, "I don't trust ANYONE to take care of the dog properly."
End of sex life.
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Post by JonDoe on May 17, 2017 22:48:56 GMT -5
I hear ya loud and clear! However, as a man who is a few short months away from being free from a long term SM, I gotta admit to thinking married women that enjoy and encourage an active sex life are like unicorns and leprechauns. 😉 Those women are on ILIASM. I hope to meet someone like this IRL soon. I've suffered long enough. And to the other poster.... I actually miss intimacy much more than sex. |
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Post by greatcoastal on May 18, 2017 3:10:11 GMT -5
Those women are on ILIASM. I hope to meet someone like this IRL soon. I've suffered long enough. And to the other poster.... I actually miss intimacy much more than sex. Nice to have you back. Feel free to give us an update anytime. I wish more people would do the same. It's a win, win for everyone. |
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Post by h on May 18, 2017 3:59:05 GMT -5
I read that "article" letter just now. If that woman has gone this long without asking her husband to help with the household chores and if that husband has gone that long without offering to help, they won't last much longer. When my W is overwhelmed with work, I pick up the slack and if I am busy enough to not notice, she is adult enough to ask. That's one thing that I can honestly say we do well together. Wife who wrote the article needs to grow up and speak up.
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