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Post by neonspace on May 20, 2017 13:44:53 GMT -5
My wife will occasionally offer me pity/guilt sex usually a couple of days after we have a conversation about a lack of intimacy, or when she can tell I'm extremely frustrated and bothered. She has told me that she agrees to sex because she feels guilty about it. She has also said she doesn't find it relaxing and considers it work and would rather watch TV or sleep. That just makes me feel guilty. If she is offering I don't want to be the one to deny, but I also don't like making her do something she doesn't enjoy and the feeling of guilt. Pity sex, when you know it is just that, isn't all that great. It just sucks not being desired or found attractive. It is the slightest bit of effort, and I don't want to discourage that. I'm not sure what to do.
Any suggestions or experiences on how to handle this situation?
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Post by neonspace on May 17, 2017 22:37:27 GMT -5
I am in San Diego and really struggling with my SM situation. Trying to find a support group or someone in a similar situation with whom I may talk and compare notes. It isn't really something my wife wants to discuss and an awkward topic for friends and family.
Any suggestions or advice would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
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