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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 13, 2020 17:23:30 GMT -5
According to a report on the BBC, women are 30% more likely to reach orgasm if they are wearing socks.
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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 11, 2020 9:31:09 GMT -5
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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 6, 2020 8:15:38 GMT -5
I don't have the option of walking away, folks. It looks like we are going to both be a fixture at Sid's for the foreseeable future. So I guess I'll have to pick some lame-ass cover song next time. Any requests? :-) Do yourself a favor and drop your pursuit of this woman. From 400 miles away(my house to Nashville) it's pretty obvious she isn't finding you date or mate material. Maybe she had a bad experience with an architect in another life.
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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 4, 2020 9:23:07 GMT -5
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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 3, 2020 22:59:15 GMT -5
I joined this site a day ago. I would like to message people but currently I can’t. Can anyone help me by explaining what I need to do? I’m happy to pay to be a member but I can’t find how to do this either! Perhaps it’s because I’m on my iPhone not a computer? Thanks!! You can also PM a member by logging on the the ILIASM site. Below the ILIASM logo you will see a line of words. One of them is member. Click on member and you will see all the membership names. Click on the numbers until you get to the alphabet page with the member's name. Click on the name to send them a message. There is no charge.
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Post by worksforme2 on Dec 2, 2020 20:31:57 GMT -5
This came out a bit smaller than I expected.... Attachments:
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 28, 2020 16:33:00 GMT -5
Is this true my celibate wife says she's always to hot My X said I was too hot, so she moved to another bed. If she is too hot a cold shower will certainly cool her off. How about turning on a fan. This just sounds like BS.
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 28, 2020 7:06:28 GMT -5
Part of me wants to direct him to this site to read this thread........ is this a dreadful idea? Would he feel insulted by having other people discussing his behaviour, without his having had any say in it's being put up for dissection. (It is, after all, completely anonymous, so he wouldn't feel 'betrayed' or publicly humiliated, would he???) What do you guys all think? At the onset I would expect introducing him to this site would be a waste of time. Since he has shown little interest in working with you to bring about a resolution to your dysfunctional marriage I see no reason having a bunch of strangers adding their 2 cents worth being of much help. My X and I had a number of "talks" in which I expressed how unhappy I was with the sexless aspect of our marriage. She readily agreed she was at fault and following the talks she would reset me for a couple of weeks then go back to refusing. Unless or until he sees his actions as hurtful to you and the marriage and places more importance on you and that relationship, he is unlikely to give a "hoot in hell" about what he might read here.
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 26, 2020 11:30:55 GMT -5
Is this woman on to something?
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 26, 2020 8:56:16 GMT -5
As long as we are postulating I will add one thought. In the US we arguably have the absolute worst political leaders in the world. And the statement extends across both major political parties. Take your pick. Mayors, Governors, Presidents, they're just God awful. And I feel fairly confident saying very few of them merit much respect and even less trust as exhibited by the actions and inactions of the populace. I both envy and abhor the willingness in some countries to adhere to the mandates laid down on them. But those mandates would never work here. The pandemic will come to an end here when a sufficient # of inoculations have been given to bring about herd immunity.
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 26, 2020 8:29:18 GMT -5
I think it is the dog in the manger attitude that gets me. My wife will not have sex AND she insists I do not masturbate or watch porn. Sex with another woman is ultra forbidden. Sex becomes a furtive hidden act for me as I lack the assertiveness to tell her to get stuffed. lessingham my friend... I think the most appropriate response to your W would be "go to hell". Just try it on once to check the fit.
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 26, 2020 8:22:32 GMT -5
So, I'm new here, obviously. And like a lot of posts I have seen already I never thought I would be here, and so on. Welcome to the forum mattyb...You might consider moving your story to the SM or Choosing to Stay theme where more people are likely to see it. It seems you have done some reading already so you know what the site is about and maybe you have found some members who's stories mirror your own. Hopefully you will find this site useful.
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 25, 2020 6:56:29 GMT -5
Welcome to the forum mantiki..If you have been lurking for any time at all you already know the breath of stories and circumstances to be found here hopefully there is something that is helpful for you. Your situation is somewhat unique as the sexlessness was brought about by illness. But in it's wake you have found some positive aspects and it seems your current state of being isn't untenable. It's good that you have been able to put the anger behind you and that your wife is on the right dosage of medication for her condition. Loss of libido is often the case when these types of medications are involved. Like you now that I am in my early 70's my desire has dropped considerably so 1 good thing about growing old.
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 24, 2020 19:44:34 GMT -5
A quick question. Since the drop off in intimacy came about somewhat quickly and given his age it might not be a bad idea to have his hormones checked. There are a # of hormonal issues which could result in a reduction of libido. Eliminating possible physical causes would be where I would start.
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 24, 2020 18:50:49 GMT -5
Hello and welcome curious81. Yue are arriving here earlier than most of the members. It often takes years of being sexless for people to finally end up here. Often it can be decades of trying to figure out what's wrong and wasting enormous amounts of time and energy trying to fix it. I would encourage you to move your story to the SM category or perhaps Choosing to Stay. It's easy for posts here to get overlooked. And the more you feel comfortable sharing the greater the feedback you are going to get.
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